Essay on The Key to Great Sex is Communication

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You wait by the cash register in the checkout line of Shop Rite. As you pore over the contents of
your cart, you confirm that you have all the items you need. You wait for your turn to check out, when
your eyes wander to a nearby rack of colorful magazines. They read in big, bold letters, “10 Sex
Secrets You Need To Know,” “7 Tips For Great Sex!” They look trashy, but you are intrigued
nonetheless by the prospect of learning new, hidden secrets for better sex. You do not pick up the
magazines to look through them, but you cannot help but wonder what secrets they hold.
A good deal of those magazines actually say that the key to great sex is communication.
According to The Cosmopolitan, communication allows partners to check what they are comfortable
with doing, how satisfied they are with sex, and what new things they can try (Benjamin). This sounds easy enough
—talk to your partner, and you are on the road to heavenly orgasms. Yet, according to Washington
Post, 52% of Americans are unsatisfied with their sex lives (Stepp). A recent international survey ranks
Americans as the world's fifth worst sex partners. This is an unpleasant characterization of Americans,
but this generalization is not far-fetched. American sex education, as Amanda Duberman writes for
Huffington Post, is sub-par (Duberman). The American sex education quota includes little more than
telling students that if they have sex, they will, in a nutshell, get pregnant and die from syphilis.…