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The Kudler-Ross Model

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The Bucket List follows Billionaire Edward Cole and car mechanic Carter Chambers who at first are complete strangers, until fate lands them in the same hospital room. They both find that they have two things in common, the first one is a need to come to terms with who they are and what they have done in their live and the second one is a desire to complete a list of things they want to see and do before they die. Contrary to their doctor’s advice, the men leave the hospital and set out on an adventure of a lifetime. The Kubler-Ross model was developed by Elizabeth Kubler-Ross, a Swiss-American psychiatrist who was a pioneer in near death studies. Kubler- Ross developed this model to understand people’s reaction to change and explained that …show more content…

Denial is a stage of numbness and shock where people don’t want to believe that change is happening. In this stage, people often believe that if they pretend that the change is not happening, then maybe it will go away. Carter’s wife, Virginia goes through this stage immediately after carter tell her that he’s dying. In response to Carter’s tragic news, Virginia says, “I knew we should’ve gone to UCLA, the surgeons are better, the operators are better. We’re not giving up, I want another opinion.” Although Carter tries to explain to his wife that she has to just accept it because nothing else can be done, Virginia refuses to believe him and insists on trying other …show more content…

Bargaining is natural reaction to death and is an attempt to postpone what is inevitable. People affected by death or change start bargaining in order to put off the change or find a way out of the situation. The majority of these bargains are secret deals with God, others, or life. Virginia goes through this stage when she starts making calls to negotiate with doctor’s ways to postpone and to put off Carter’s death. This scene communicates to viewers how Virginia has not yet accepted that Carter is going to die because she is still trying to save him, when he can’t be

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