The Lasting Impact Of Divorce On Children

Children of divorce are numerous, the effects of their biological parents separation and subsequent divorce has lasting effects on their behavior, academics, and their emotions. No one seems to care about the prevalence of divorce in society today; it is no longer considered taboo.

Divorce is one of the most common happenings in the world experienced by children. Most children go through different adjustments to become comfortable with the fact that their parents are not together anymore. Children of divorced parents are prone to lifelong effects. Seventy-five to eighty percent of children have divorced parents and twenty-five percent of those children have serious social, emotional, or psychological problems for the rest of their life. Most adults think that it is best for parents to stay together for the sake of their child because having two parents in different households can become difficult for the child socially and academically.

Retrieved from http://go.galegroup.com/ps/i.do?p=PPPC&sw=w&u=oakv28633&v=2.1&it=r&id=GALE%7CA14710446&asid=7ab637047d6fda8554d9590a67f5b3b3 This article explains how does divorce effect children in numerous negative ways. In general fifty percent of marriages ends up in divorce and no matter what the case is, children always need and want both parents. Children often feel like they are no longer being wanted by their parents or children feel that maybe they are the cause of their parents getting a divorce. They often feel rejected.

Throughout time, people from all over the world have chosen to live together, or “get married”. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but there are some couples who are unable to maintain their relationship, because they choose divorce as a solution to cope with the problems between husband and wife. Although divorce can be solution to cope with problem between the husband and wife, it still has dangerous effects especially on their children. Children with divorced parents are vulnerable to risk. Divorce has a dangerous impact on children. Divorce of parentss causes many problems to children. It causes children to have a loss of Knowledge, skills, and resources from parents, behavioral problems, emotional problem, and health problem

The statistics for divorce in the 1990's suggest that nearly sixty percent of marriages end in divorce. Given this startling figure, the assumption can be made that many children will experience some effects caused by the life-changing event called divorce. What is it exactly about divorce that causes negative consequences for these children? In what ways will these children be effected? Will these effects show outwardly? I will attempt to uncover some of the complexities surrounding these psychological questions in the following text. The unsettling fact is: young children of divorced parents face great psychological challenges due to the environmental conditions and changes associated with divorce (Wolchik and Karoly 45).

“In the Bahamas, it is predicted that 25% of marriages will end in divorce “, (Brennen, 2004). Divorce can be and ugly and costly affair, especially when it comes to a child's well-being. Divorce affects children in a multitude of ways such as their physical, emotional, social and educational development. According to the article "Divorce's Toll on Children" by Karl Zinsmeister, children exposed to divorce are twice as likely to repeat a grade and five times likelier to be expelled or suspended from school. In the early months after a divorce, young children especially between the ages of 10-14, are less imaginative, more repetitive and passive watchers. They tend to be more dependent, demanding, unaffectionate and disobedient than children from intact families. They are more afraid of abandonment, loss of love and bodily harm. Children who come from divorced families, especially young children, tend to be problematic in the classroom, not just emotionally but academically as well.

Divorce is a heavy concept that has many implications for those involved. The situation becomes even more consequential when children are considered. As divorce has become more commonplace in society, millions of children are affected by the separation of the nuclear family. How far-reaching are these effects? And is there a time when divorce is beneficial to the lives of the children? This paper will examine some of the major research and several different perspectives regarding the outcomes of divorce for the children involved, and whether it can actually be in the best interest of the kids.

Divorce causes many problems for children and has many implications. Psychological implications include mental health problems and behavioral problems. Social roles are turned inside out and upside down. Children are often pulled in many directions. In the United States divorce is very common and often leaves children confused and without options. Many turn toward violence, crime, drugs, and isolation. Studies show how adults can reduce the tension for these children. Other

Divorce has many victims; they do not fall under a specific category and do not target a specific gender, age, race, or ethnicity. The effect of divorce on children differs from the effect on the spouses. The reasons for divorce are endless; they have many side effects on the spouses but most importantly affect the children. Divorce is one of the main reasons for disruption in our communities. Regardless of the reason, divorce always harms the children’s decisions, personalities, and futures.

A comprehensive review of research from several disciplines regarding long-term effects of divorce on children yields a growing consensus that significant numbers of children suffer for many years from psychological and social difficulties associated with continuing and/or new stresses within the post divorce family and experience heightened anxiety in forming enduring attachments at later developmental stages including young adulthood. Different conceptual models in the field are explicated. Major lacunac in research, particularly around issues of public policy, are identified. The critical importance of expanding clinical research to enhance understanding of the child's perspective and experience is proposed.

The occurrence on divorce in our society today has left children emotionally and mentally hurt by this. More and more studies have been done on to see if divorce has an effect on children. I personally have had no effect of divorce, but I have had several friends who have been affected. I had little knowledge about how impactful divorce can have an affect on someone until I started doing research on this topic. Divorce is very hard on people who have to deal with this. The articles I have found to do research on all have something new and exciting to bring to the table. Of the ones I have found, I believe they will help me to understand more of the struggles young children have to cope with during such a difficult time. I also found an interesting article about the fathers’ perspectives on divorce. It talked about how they still want to be apart of their children’s lives and how hard it is to keep a strong relationship with their children. I felt like it would be good to include this article into my paper because it will help me to learn from the fathers’ side how they handle the situation. Throughout this paper, I disused the different effects divorce has on children, the various programs and coping strategies for the children, and fathers’ perspectives and mother-child relationships. All of these topics are very important to divorce and the articles from the researchers did a great job of talking about these topics.

What happens to the children of the family with two parents get divorced? As a child of a divorced home, I had often wondered about the long-term effects that divorce has on the offspring. To analyze the impact of divorce, we must first define divorce itself as the “act of legally ending a marriage” and its prevalence in the modern world. (Sangster) According to Margaret Sangster, the United States has the leading rate of divorce in the world today. (Sangster) Statistics also show that, as of 2015, 6.083 million children live in a home with one of their divorced parents. (Gale)

After reading the reading the article on “Long-term effects of divorce on children, I believe community divorce is most difficult on both of marital partners. The divorcing individuals usually have friend that they made while they were together. After separation, it becomes difficult for them to still see their friends but separately. Even, for friends situation becomes awkward to be friends with both of divorcing individuals. In order for the divorcing individuals to move on with their life, they either have start over to make their own new individual friend circle or they have to pick and choose from their old friends.

Divorce is a very harsh and challenging thing, especially on children. In today’s society, it is very common. It takes hard work and determination to keep a marriage going strong. It is also something that both spouses have to work at every day. Children grow up seeing their mom and dad together, and they become immune to it. When suddenly one day their parents are no longer together, there can be long term and short term effects on the child. Effects of a divorce on children include depression and anxiety, separation from one or both parents, and lastly, stepfamilies.

Imagine that you are a child again. The world is bright, open, and full of possibilities. In your family you have two parents, a sibling, and maybe a dog. You even got an A on your last spelling test. Life is consistent, and things are pretty good. One day, your mom sits you down and explains that she and your dad are getting a divorce. Suddenly, everything is different. You have two Christmases, two separate birthday celebrations, and two bedrooms. But as you get older and learn more about the effects of divorce, you start to analyze your own situation and wonder whether your parents separation brought more good or bad. Some argue that divorce is a detrimental, life-altering situation that changes children, while others believe that it can