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The Negative Stereotypes About Bisexual Lifestyle

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The second contributing factor is the negative stereotypes about bisexual lifestyle. The political “treachery” of bisexual women resulted in their connection to sexual promiscuity. Lesbian women also frequently accused bisexual women of being fence-sitters who were able to “choose” between having a heterosexual and a lesbian relationship. Katie Griffin, a therapist, once summarized her bisexual experience into “On any other day, I will be straight. If it’s Wednesday, I must be Gay” (1). In other words, many see bisexual individuals as being 50% gay, 50% straight, and 100% non-committal. Griffin is certainly not alone in her experiences; in her clinical practice she found that many bisexual women had to choose between lesbianism and heterosexuality (10). The fluidity of bisexuality creates discomfort with women who had to go through the tedious process of pinpointing the gender they are attracted to. Hence, lesbians see bisexuality as a transitional identity between heterosexuality and lesbianism; notably, 83% lesbians agreed that “some women claim to be bisexual when they are really lesbians who are afraid to admit it” (Rust, “Neutralizing the Political Threat” 9). Stone also notes in her memoir that lesbians are often bitter about the “straight-passing privilege” that bisexual women possess (2). They claim that bisexual women are able to enjoy the benefits of the lesbian community without receiving the discrimination that comes with it.
The ability of bisexuals to

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