"We accept the love we think we deserve" came the answer when the protagonist asked his English teacher "Why do I and everyone I love, pick people who treat us like we're nothing?".
There's a turning point in everyone's life, and it doesn't really matter if how big or small is the entity which has changed you. The only thing which matters is the impact. You know that when you read a really good book, that you're not gonna be the same person ever again after you finish it. It happened with me. 'The Perks of Being a Wallflower', the name says it all, written by Stephen Chbosky.
'Wallflower' is defined as a person who is shy and excluded at a dance party. Who prefers to stand in a corner and observe all the other people grooving rather than to join them. Moreover an extreme case of an introvert with the 'understanding'
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Cause I can't find any other feasible reason which can state the fact why I felt that the book is about me, that I'm the protagonist and this is certainly not fiction in any case. And it was so insightful that in most part of this book I felt like it was me writing those letters.
I was one of those uncool kids back in high school that almost no one spoke to because i always kept things to myself. I was scared that if I try to talk no one would listen. This is a new place for me, I've never been away from my family until this point. I have made a couple of friends after coming here. But it seems like no one really knows who I really am because I never let them find out who i really was.
If someone could see the way I see things. If only it was possible. But now I'm working on it. One of the things I've learned from the book is how to work on it. Because this is not the way how things work in real life. You can't just be there beside someone sitting numb and think that the person will understand you. This is not a movie, where things are gonna go as you wish. You have to participate, and i think that's where I'm working
For example, when Alexandra finally admitted that she was lonely made me finally realize how strong she was. It takes a lot of guts and bravery to admit your true feelings. Another example is when Emil came back from Mexico and out of nowhere kissed Marie on the lips even though she was married! I never would’ve thought that was gonna happen. I was super happy when it did happen though. Even though they didn’t end up together, i’ve always liked the thought of them being a couple even though she was married. Emil seemed like a better fit for her. Frank seemed like a jerk to Marie. Emil on the other hand, seemed like the man who would take amazing care of Marie and keep her happy. He seemed like the man who would love to have a family with her. He has kept his feelings for her to himself until that very moment where it seemed perfect. He leaned over and kissed her. His love was so very strong that he couldn’t even hold it in anymore. This book is filled with many thrills and ups and downs. It helps you relate and connect with the plot and the characters and makes you understand the whole concept of knowing that being human isn’t all perfect all the time. It shows that you're going to cry sometimes. It shows how there is despair and agony in life. It helps you understand what it truly means to be
Movies are constantly created by producers and writers to convey a particular meaning to their audience they are reaching out too. The meaning can be interpreted in several ways. For example, one can understand the meaning that was intended by the creators, or it could be an individual’s own understanding of a storyline in the movie. As a movie can be viewed through different perspectives, a dominant male named Louis Althusser created the theory of Interpellation and the Role of ISAs and RSAs to help further understand movies. Althusser’s theory explains that people in power will remain in power and others will be controlled by those in power (Hartt-Fournier, Lecture 2). Furthermore, the role of ISA, known as the Ideological State
In the book I can connect to some of the things in it. In life people have happy things happen and negative things happen. “Life throws too much crap at us as it is, so why hold onto something
Elsa Flores C period A Comparative Literary Essay Throughout the course of your lifetime, you have definitely made a decision based on the opinions of others. But did that decision work out for you in the end? In the books The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky and The Do-Over by Lynn Painter, we learn the valuable lesson of not prioritizing others emotions over your own. In The Perks of Being a Wallflower, we are introduced to Charlie, a high schooler who consistently puts others' feelings before his own, resulting in a series of complications in his friendships.
The book majorly affected his life because he would never refill the lack of love and affection he never got in early years. I also chose this topic because there is so
The novel The Perks of being of a Wallflower written by Stephen Chbosky in 1999. This nonfiction novel was published on February 1, 1999 by Pocket Books. This page turning novel is read by many students and adults because it is an easy read. It has 213 pages.
The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a novel about coming of age that is seen through the perspective of Charlie, a young ‘wallflower’ that is starting high school and experiences the troublesome teenage life filled with drugs, sexuality and love. Charlie writes this book in a series of letters to an anonymous person. Charlie is the main protagonist of the story who is apprehensive and a kind-hearted boy however he has many problems happening in his life that he doesn’t like to concern others with “I just don’t want you to worry about me, or think you’ve met me, or waste your time anymore”. I admire Charlie because he is very considerate of others and although he is shy he overcomes this fear when he tries to find friends and step out of his comfort zone” Normally I am very shy, but (Patrick) seemed like the kind of guy you could just walk up to at a football game even though you were three years younger and not popular”. In return Charlie is rewarded with his first real friend at high school. I also admire Charlie for his mature attitude towards finding new friends and moving on from the death of his friend Michael. Charlie really needed to start interacting more with people, during the story we find out that Charlie misses having a friend and that being alone can be difficult and cause negative effects “It would be very nice to have a friend again. I would like that even more than a date”. I think
To an extent the past will always haunt the present and is shown through both the film The Perks of Being a Wallflower written and directed by author Stephan Chbosky and the novel The Reader written by Author Bernhard Schlink. Both Charlie from The Perks Of Being A Wallflower and Michael from The Reader had experienced loss of innocence’s at young ages which cause their past to haunt them, Michael’s being he is not mature enough for a relationship of that nature and Charlie’s being he was sexual abused by his aunt but was too young to understand that it was wrong. Both the film and the novel convey the idea that the past haunts the present in the evident themes of loss of innocence, lack of trust and being afraid to tell the truth. Chbosky
The book and the movie for The Perks of Being a Wallflower are extremely different, and I believe that the movie is much better than the book. The book is written much differently than the movie. There are lots of scenes that are in the book but not in the movie and that are in the movie not the book. The movie focuses less on the bigger, depressing topics than the book does. The characters in the movie are also much different than they are in the book. Their personalities are very different in the movie than the author described them as in the book.
Underlying themes of rape, romance, gender roles, and sexuality an awkward teen along with a group of misfits. The Perks of Being a Wallflower is a critically acclaimed movie due to its excellence of incorporating the main character Charlie played by Logan Lerman, definition of what it is to be an adolescent. Charlie being an introverted outcast as a high school freshman starts the movie off with writing a letter for his beloved pen pal. Within his letters are all his fears, his only friend Michael’s passing of suicide, and his deceased Aunt Helen as well.
Social anxiety is a major concept in today 's teens. With social anxiety being the third largest mental health problem in the U.S., it is no wonder (Richards). Social anxiety is a type of anxiety disorder that causes extreme fear in social settings. People with this disorder struggle with everyday communication, worrying that they are constantly being negatively judged, or that they will embarrass themselves in some way, shape, or form. In The Perks of being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, we meet Charlie, a freshman who has just lost his best friend, Michael, to suicide, the second highest leading cause of death in teens. The exact cause of social anxiety and suicide is unknown and vary between people, but recent studies have shown that bullying, family conflict and sexual abuse are some of the common causes.
Krista Miller Miller Honors English 1y September 23, 2015 Dear Germanna English Professors, As a frequent movie goer, I tend to see bountiful films that pass the time, but only possess surface value and express sparse substance beyond that. However, there has only been a handful of films that have had a meaningful, long lasting impact on me. One of the finest examples of excellent cinema for me is the film, based on the cult classic novel, is The Perks of Being a Wallflower. Originally written by Stephen Chbosky, the motion picture addresses themes centered around the painful transition from adolescence to adulthood and issues during this time such as substance abuse, exploration of sexuality and insecurities of fitting in with your peers.
My own thoughts: The book is called The Perks of being a wallflower. The title seems not to really take my interest and I don’t know why. It took awhile for me to like the book. I started to think the book was interested when I ended the first part. The story begins with Charlie writing letters to someone.
The most significant part of the entire text is that most of the readers will never feel the pain of author. The ability not to be able to relate and understand someone’s struggle is very impactful.
The first and most important lesson for a grade school or middle school student to understand and appreciate is kindness. Kindness is a major theme in this book. Most of the characters give serious thought about how their actions will affect others. In this book it shows how much kindness matters. To quote the text people