I know recently that you have been trying to decide whether or not you want to take the “next step” in your relationship, and I wanted to help you make a healthy decision. Before you even begin to consider the pros and cons you need to truly decide if you are ready for any outcome, physically, emotionally, and socially. Having sex not only affects your physical relationship, it also has an effect on you emotionally and mentally, and many times people are not aware of these side effects beforehand. After intercourse, you may begin to feel awkward around your partner and self-conscious, or you may feel more connected and firm in your relationship. Both results are common and if you decide to take this big step, you should be prepared for both. Having sex in the …show more content…
Similarly, in you got pregnant, even if after the 9 months you put the baby up for adoption, it takes a toll on both your body emotionally and physically. These results can all be avoided by practicing abstinence. Abstinence is the safest and most effective method of protection against STDS (HPV, STDs HIV, & Hepatitis B etc.) and pregnancy. If you choose to not have sex, some short term pro’s would be that you are at no risk of exposure to STDs and cannot get pregnant, however, a con would be that it may bring tension into the relationship. In the long run, by choosing not to have sex at a young age, you are allowing yourself to develop completely emotionally, mentally, and physically. You will also be more prepared for the consequences, good or bad, that will come with choosing to have sex. Some long term cons would be that your relationship may end due to the tension and that you may feel “guilty”. Whatever your decision, if you choose to withhold from sex, or if you chose to have sex, I have some strategies and tips to help you tell your
Emmy Laybourne’s Monument 14, follows the main character Dean Greiber who is a junior in highschool living in the city of Monument, Colorado. Although the flow of the book is a little disconnected at times, the development of the major/minor characters was truly astounding throughout the book. The book starts out quite quickly with a weather phenomenon. The destructive hailstorm cause two buses to violently crash into each other with Dean and his brother on board. Immediately, the remaining students ranging from elementary school to highschool take refuge in a store with absolutely no adults to look after them. Not only did the hailstorm cause widespread destruction, it also disrupted a nuclear power plant causing extremely dangerous chemicals
“Drug policy regarding the control of the traditional illicit substances (opiates, cocaine, cannabis) is currently moving through upbeat times in almost all Western countries. Prohibition on the basis of repressive law enforcement not only seems to fail on a large scale, but also to create vast additional costs, problems, and harm for drug consumers, who often find themselves in extreme social, economic, and health conditions” (Fischer 1995: 389).
In 2005, nearly half of all high school students have had sexual intercourse. Plainly stating that abstinence programs do not work (USA Today). Abstinence programs were beneficial many years ago, but since they are ineffective in delaying teen pregnancy, then teen pregnancy rate has increased. Abstinence programs teach the “no sex until marriage” clause, but they don’t teach teens about birth control and the consequences of having sex at before they’ve matured. Although many studies argue that abstinence programs are educational and beneficial, other studies will show that they don’t delay teen sex, they don’t prevent the spread of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs), and are a waste of taxpayers’
Making the decision of remaining abstinent until marriage takes a lot of courage. Committing to this decision, however, is just as difficult. It becomes especially challenging when the individuals in our lives do not understand or support our life choices. As you said yourself, “we are in 2016 and are well past the sexual revolution years.” Going to school in Santa Barbara certainly doesn’t make things easier as Isla Vista is known for its infamous “hook-up” culture. A culture
Since the HIV/AIDS epidemic began in the U.S. in the early 1980s the issue of sex education for American youth has had the attention of the nation. There are about 400,000 teen births every year in the U.S, with about 9 billion in associated public costs. STI contraction in general, as well as teen pregnancy, have put the subject even more so on the forefront of the nation’s leading issues. The approach and method for proper and effective sex education has been hotly debated. Some believe that teaching abstinence-only until marriage is the best method while others believe that a more comprehensive approach, which includes abstinence promotion as well as contraceptive information, is necessary. Abstinence-only program curriculums disregard
After reading about the abstinence experience assignment, giving up the daytime show “The Young and the Restless” came to mind. However, my immediate answer to myself was “no way.” I attempted to think of something else that would be more difficult. I find it odd that dieting did not come to mind during my pre-contemplation stage. I kept trying to come up with something other than giving up my favorite show. I attempted to minimize the impact that missing the show would have on me by telling myself that the Young and the Restless show really is not be a big deal ; I needed to find something else that would give me a true feel for what a person who is attempting to abstain from drug use would experience. However, I decided
Abstinence reinforcement interventions have been shown that although they can effectively promote abstinence from multiple drugs, it is more challenging to reinforce abstinence from multiple drugs, than it is to reinforce abstinence from a single drug (Epstein & Preston, 2008). Preston et al., (2008) conducted a carefully controlled randomized trial to directly address this subject. In this study, the goal was to conclude whether focusing on prize-based contingency management toward abstinence individually for cocaine or opiates, would be more effective for decreasing use of both drugs , rather than focusing on abstinence from only one drug. The outcome of the research conducted by Preston et al. (2008) showed that the dual contingency
In its most basic definition, multiculturalism refers to the sharing of many cultures. When it comes to incorporating multiculturalism into a school curriculum, there should be a couple of main goals that every school should try to achieve. One of those goals should be for the school to teach children to recognize the differences and similarities among different cultures. By allowing students the opportunity to explore the uniqueness of different cultures, schools are also exposing those students to common traits shared by cultures as well. When children recognize and accept the many different cultures present in the classroom, it often relates to acceptance and tolerance, which can help to eliminate prejudice and racism in the world outside of the classroom.
Where in the first world would one expect the teen pregnancy rate to be the highest? Surprisingly, it is the United States that has the highest teen pregnancy rate of any first world country, more than double the rate of twenty other first world countries and almost ten times greater than that of Switzerland. While some of the disparity can be attributed to factors such as income inequality, the presence of abstinence only education has a major impact on birth and STD rates in the United States in comparison to other countries with more comprehensive programs. It is clear that this difference in approaches has a significant effect, and the United States needs to act to ensure the health of its citizens. Urgent actions are necessary
It has been almost thirty three years since the first federal funding was put to use in “. . . sex education programs that promote abstinence-only-until-marriage to the exclusion of all other approaches . . .” according to the article “Sex education” (2010) published by “Opposing Viewpoints in Context;” a website that specializes in covering social issues. Since then a muddy controversy has arisen over whether that is the best approach. On one hand is the traditional approach of abstinence (not having sex before marriage), and on the other is the idea that what is being done is not enough, and that there needs to be a more comprehensive approach. This entails not only warning against sex, but also teaching teens about how to have
Infants suffer from neonatal abstinence syndrome when a mother is pregnant and doing various forms of drugs such as heroin, oxycodone, methadone, codeine, or buprenorphine. The infant is then born addicted to the form of drug the mother was doing, then forced to suffer through withdrawal symptoms. They go though these symptoms till the drug leaves the infants body. The symptoms of neonatal abstinence syndrome include, blotchy skin, diarrhea, excessive crying and suckling, fever, hyperactive reflexes, increased muscle tone, irritability, poor feeding, rapid breathing, seizures, sleep problems, slow weight gain, stuffy nose, sneezing, sweating, trembling, and vomiting. However, the severity of the symptoms can range because it depends on the
Many questions come with abstinence and they’re all important if you’ve made the choice to be abstinent.
2. If you abstain from sex, you will decrease the chances of having STDs. You don't want any form of STD at all because studies showed its correlation with infertility, complications in pregnancy, fetal and infant death, chronic pelvic pain, and cervical cancer (Carr & Packham, 2017; Santelli et al., 2006, p. 73).
Over many years, the views of premarital sex have been becoming increasingly more tolerant. The whole reasoning behind why sex was created is lost in the minds of society and used for pleasure and own physical satisfaction. There are negative consequences for these actions leading to guilt, depression, and numbness to intimate relationships. Having strong parental influence can also strongly affect the outcomes of adolescence and causal sex. Additionally, marriage can be
Society has plugged information into young people’s mind for generations. This programmed, presumptive information has made youthful people, especially teenagers, and young adults think and act like robots. Buried deep in many teenagers thoughts ensued by their parents and society are the words, “No sex before marriage!”. Different people, have countless different reasons that they believe one should not have sex before marriage. Society, in lots of different places look poorly on those who engage sexually before being married. I’ve witnessed it happen more then once locally in my area, and its always ends with such a negative outcome. Even in schools kids are taught that sex is bad thing, and told not to engage in any sort of sexual activity. Rather then being taught about the importance of safe sex society is programing kids to just not have sex at all, especially in America. “Americans love to tout the value of waiting until marriage to have sex. We teach abstinence-only education in schools across the country, and even comprehensive sex-ed programs often point out that "abstinence is best."” (Jill Filipovic). People get married, most of the time, because the love each other but marriage is only a document. And when you love someone, you don’t need a contract to prove it. And you shouldn’t need a stamp of approval saying when and when you’re not allowed to be intimate with someone you love. Having sex before marriage should not be looked so poorly upon this day in age.