The Role Of Judging Others In Concordia

Judging people by the way they look. So it can be hard not to judge someone but it’s still not a good thing to do, they could be a caring person, but you are too judgmental to see through their clothing or hairstyle and avoid them. But it isn't there fault to be avoided, it is your fault and you should try to recognize when you do this and get out of your comfort zone. In Freak The Mighty by Rodman Philbrick it has you judging characters but seeing them as different people.

As a child I didn't know I was different, I didn't know that the color of my skin, and the food I ate made me weird. Not until, It was pointed out to me. I grew up in Salvadoran-American household. We ate tamales and we ate burgers. We listened to Cumbia and we listened to Pop.I grew up in a house where two cultures were meshed together, but I always that about the country my parents called home. I grew up listening to the stories of how my mother grew up in El Salvador and immigrated to the United States when she was nine years old. Stories of my great grandma yelling at my aunts and my mom to milk the cows early in the morning. The story of my father crossing the border at 18 and being lost in the Mexican desert for 5 days. Stories of how my dad bought his first pair of shoes at 7 years old and how my father used to play with sticks by a creek for hours.

In the article "The Rush from Judgement," Theordore Dalrymple argues that refraining from making judgements creates an unhealthy society. Judgements are usually evaluations of certain behaviors or ideas. Dalrmple believes that those who refrain from making judgments practice self deception. Self deception is the generally defined as the practice of deceiving oneself, which in turn hinders us from attaining self knowledge. The number one problem associated with self deception is that it has the capability of creating moral dilemmas, such that people use it as a "prophylactic against leaning from experience," according to Dalrymple. Because one knowingly deceives oneself into believing something even in the face of strong evidence to

Hearing others speak about things I didn't understand was hard, and yet worst not knowing how to respond to a single word I was asked. It was like being muted all day long. As the months passed we moved into an apartment rather than living with my aunt (mom’s sister). I also began to make new friends and learn to speak English. The bad thing was that my Dad’s family was 23 hours away instead of three hours. I had to say bye to six of my cousins until it was a holiday to go visit them. My grandparents (mom’s side) are now 10 hours away instead of 24. Choosing a the USA versus Mexico is hard. Here the only family we have are my mom’s siblings, my aunt and my uncle. That's why I love visiting my Dad’s side of the family because I have six cousins

Don’t judge someone until you really know them is a perfect lesson in life taught in the novel Walk two moons , by Sharon creech , and the short story , “ The Guest” retold by Uma Krishnaswami . Both of the stories reveal the theme of not judging people until you know them. Even though those two stories illustrate the same theme to their audiences , they each go about the lesson in different ways .

Many people have different experiences coming to the United States. My grandma’s experience was completely different than a lot of people. “I took a flight to Tijuana, Mexico. I paid a random man 2,000 dollars to pass me through the border. Crossing the Mexican border was one of the worst experiences in my life but completely worth it. We left the hotel at 12 am.”(Arzayus) She was scared but knowing that it was for a better future, kept her motivated. Leaving the hotel in 40-degree weather with only one jacket was a struggle for her. After leaving the hotel they took a train to get closer to the border. They train was packed with prospective residents of the United States. After getting of the train, the man told Ruby and her friends to go under and go through the sewer. My grandma was disgusted but it had to be done. She needed to give her daughters a better future.

We should not judge people in a way we wouldn’t like to be judged because most of the time we judge or citizen without knowing the best. For example, a teacher who is strict towards the students does not necessarily mean that he or she is an evil person. What we see it's not always what it really is, things are not always clear as water. Sometimes we might see people who give a bad impression, by the way they dress, or the way they look and we poorly judge on what it’s in front of our eyes. In the contrary, there are other people who believe that our judgment should only be based on the actions and will judge just based on that no matter what. Some even say actions speak more than words because for them what they see the first time is what they believe in. Like mentioned before, we do not know the reasons or circumstances that lead people to do certain actions. We need to put ourselves in their place and see things from their perspective. We should first rely on the reasons behind those actions. That is why I recommend to not judge the first or second time, but until we understand the reasons or circumstance about those

It was nearly a year ago when my dad made the decision to bring me and my family to the United States so that we can have a better future and a better life for everything that is happening in Mexico such as poverty, bad governance, and disasters natural. It was difficult to say goodbye to all my loved ones, my friends, my grandparents, my cousins and all my family. But everyone supported me by saying that it is the best for me and that fulfills all my dreams and my goals. During the course of the trip I was meeting new things for me because I had not done any other trip, it was there when I first saw the sea and it was something awesome for me and my

I was eight years old when I first came to America. I learned in elementary school, that immigrants are not welcome like I imagined. I imagined everyone would be nice and friendly to be around like I was in China. But instead, I was being isolated by the people in class and bully because I have poor English and

Finally, as my trip to Mexico came to an end I realized that I wasn’t going to be who I was before. This experience had changed me for the better. I learned so much from everything there; it truly was a learning experience I would never forget. One cannot simply be exposed to so much and remain the same. Sadly, being so naïve about where I was born and being influenced by the way other people looked at Mexico and its people made me ashamed at one point of who I was. I would try to change as much about myself as possible just to fit in. I dreaded the color of my skin and grew to despise the blood that ran through my veins. Where I grew up I was always the elephant in the room and I hated it. However; I learned to celebrate my differences and

There is different nationalities in America as well as many people from different cultures that have different lifestyles. The people have come to the United States with many different reasons, but most of them want to come here to have a better life. Before they have a better life, they have to face with a lot of difficult things like difference about language, culture, and lifestyle. And also, they must deal with racial discrimination. I have been in the Massachusetts for one year and a half now. I came from Vietnam. I have gotten the same situation with the story one in the reading 1 on the book. The girl in the story believed that America was a great country, and that she would be accepted and has a good time. But she got some bad reactions

“To avoid criticism, say nothing, do nothing, be nothing”, (Aristotle). In other words, for as long as you exist in a world like ours, criticism is an unavoidable matter. Why do we hate being judged by others? It goes without saying that nobody likes to be judged. Yet, we all constantly make snap judgements of each other. It’s an automatic human nature to criticize other people. It thought to be a survival mechanism; We cannot function properly without making judgements. A person would feel immobilized if they were unable to criticize others for whatsoever. Although, we all like to believe that we’re not judgmental people, however, when someone points out that we are judgmental, we feel hurt and offended. In the book “How to Enjoy Your Life

Before you judge someone just make sure you know everything about them .There are many about judging .All of the following are examples of them.“There's nothing wrong with enjoying looking at the surface of the ocean itself, except that when you finally see what goes on underwater,you realize that you've been missing the whole point of the ocean. Staying on the surface all the time is like going to the circus and staring at the outside of the tent.” - Dave Barry. I like this quote as it clearly shows that judging the outside is waste of time. I would like to end my blog with another good quote i found “We've spent so much time judging what other people created that we've created very, very little of our own.” - Chuck Palahniuk,

We can all agree that is easy to stick labels onto everybody we encounter, because that’s just human nature. But in reality, we all should get to know people rather than automatically becoming judgemental. This has for sure been something that I struggle with, even to this day. Before heading into middle school, judging people on the spot based on their first impression was effortless for me. It always felt natural to judge people in good or bad ways based on the first time I saw them. Many of the “shy people” were often the ones who I would generally keep away from, but after getting to know several people who I would have usually avoided, I began to figure out that you definitely shouldn’t judge a book by its cover. Instead, getting to know who people truly are has a much more positive effect than just walking away from them. Today, my beliefs on other people have drastically changed for the better; though judging people is still something I struggle with, trying to get to know other people and befriending them is now one of my top priorities.

My memory was When I left my country no one say goodbye because they hate the words of farewell. Shortly after the passage of time I realized all my stuff had brought with me I no longer need it. My culture is a very difficult not give us the freedom to live as we want. We are Easterners and must go in our lives like our parents and grandparents did. My life when I came to America completely changed because of interactions with people.. It all depends on the situation and the person/people who are in the situation.I started from the begging with my education and trying change even my culture to have a better life and support my kids and teach them to be proud of United state . One interaction that I had wasn't the greatest. The situation had many different