The Role of Men in D.H. Lawrence's Virgin and the Gypsy
The role of the male characters in The Virgin and the Gypsy by D.H. Lawrence can best be summed up by Yvette's reaction to her sister's philosophy of marriage:
'I'm not sure one shouldn't have one's fling till one is twenty-six , and then give in and marry!'
This was Lucille's philosophy, learned from older women. Yvette was twenty-one. It meant she had five years to have this precious fling. And the fling meant, at the moment, the gypsy. The marriage, at the age of twenty-six, meant Leo or Gerry.
So, a woman could eat her cake and have her bread and butter (Lawrence, 99).
All of the male characters fall into one of three categories: bread and butter, cake or
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It is interesting that these are the only glimpses of the world through male eyes that we are allowed in this book. It is also interesting that all three of these glimpses into the male mind are related in terms of animals.
Bob expresses the feeling of being a "stuffed duck" while visiting with Mater. Leo expresses a dog-like interest in Yvette: " 'Catty little bitch!' he said to himself. But he was of the mastiff type, he rather liked the kitten to fly in his face (Lawrence 64)." Her father would "never dare to face the fat worm of disbelief, that stirred in his heart (Lawrence 38)."
These animal metaphors keep men and women separate, almost in the same way that class keeps Yvette separate from the servants. As long as she is a virgin, with her power being her vulnerability, she is unable to quite see men as human. That's not unusual, though, since they seem to have trouble identifying themselves as human.
The relationship of Yvette's grandmother, the Mater, and the Rector, her son, give Yvette a model for feminine power. It is a negative power, a power through vulnerability. "And through the weakness of the unfresh, stagnant men she had bred, she kept her power (Lawrence 7)."
Mater, through age, has transformed herself back into a virgin. She wields power in the family through her very vulnerability. Mater's
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