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The Ruined Maid

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Most people struggle with not liking who they are, and in result they try to change into someone else. When people try to change themselves, they actually lose who they really are, and they get stuck between two identities, who they were and who they want to become. This situation happens in Thomas Hardy’s “The Ruined Maid.” In the poem a girl named ‘Melia runs into an old friend in town who is “bewitched” by ‘Melia’s new ruined self (line 14). The girl compliments ‘Melia and wishes she was like her. As a result, ‘Melia replies that she is ruined a and that the girl cannot not understand what ‘Melia actually faces because she has no perspective. Hardy uses irony, tone, context, and structure to reveal changing without considering the consequences …show more content…

In Hardy’s poem he uses irony to show how rehearsed and unhappy ‘Melia feels about her new self. The girl assumes ‘Melia is happy with her new life when she states, “‘And you’d sigh, and you’d sock; but at present you seem/ To know not of megrims or melancho-ly!’-” (18-19). She points out that ‘Melia does not appear unsatisfied, but her response ironically shows the unhappiness she feels. In response to the girl, ‘Melia says, “True. One’s pretty lively when ruined,’”(20). The sarcastic tone proves ‘Melia does not feel happy with her new life despite her fancy upgrades. Another example of irony is the way the girl treats ‘Melia. Instead of treating ‘Melia the way ruined girls are usually treated, she speaks friendly to her and actually envies what ‘Melia has. In the poem, the girl uses the phrase, “-I wish” to point out how envious she is towards ‘Melia, and in result ‘Melia tries to warn her that changing herself would not be the best choice (21). The girl fails see ‘Melia’s true feelings or hear the unhappy tone of her voice because she does not have the same perspective as ‘Melia. ‘Melia was the girl who gave up the country lifestyle and ruined herself in hope of a better life. However, the transformation did not fix all of her problems. The author’s purpose of ‘Melia’s ironic response and the girls lack of perspective emphasizes the realization that …show more content…

After the girl compliments ‘Melia multiple times she says, “‘I wish I had feathers, a fine sweeping gown,/ And a delicate face, and could strut about Town!’” (21-22). The tone of her voice shows the excitement and assurance that she really does wish she could be like ‘Melia. The exiting tone can also represent one reason for why she does not see ‘Melia’s unhappiness. In result, ‘Melia points out in a very monotone voice that she “‘Cannot quite expect that. You ain’t ruined,’ said she” (24). ‘Melia advises her that one cannot expect just fancy clothes or fair skin, but one must be prepared to face ridicule for being ruined. Throughout the entire conversation ‘Melia underlyingly tries to tell the girl that she does not need to wish that on herself. ‘Melia tries to reveal that changing oneself will not make them happy because they will discover the truth that they can never escape who they once

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