preview

The Secret Life Of Bees Character Analysis

Decent Essays

Growing up is a process most people must experience. It is not always easy and most the time it can become overwhelming. In The Secret Life of Bees, the main character Lily Owens, a fourteen-year-old white girl living in the 1960s, finds herself running away from home and an abusive father, later taken in by colored women. As she lives in the household with the women she is seen growing up and slowly becoming burdened with many heavy truths. Sue Monk Kidd communicates to the reader the difficulties of growing up and love via Lily’s actions and time spent away from home.
In the novel, Sue Monk Kidd repeatedly emphasizes the harsh realities and realizations of growing up. An example would be when Lily is burdened with knowing that her “mother had left [her]” (Sue Monk Kidd 251) at a young age and Lily repeatedly saying how she “[hates] her” (Sue Monk Kidd 251) and how “[her mother] wasn’t like [how she] thought she was” (Sue Monk Kidd 251) complaining about how she wasted her “life imagining all the ways she’d love [her]” (Sue Monk Kidd 251). Here the author is conveying the message that life isn’t always how we imagine it to be and knowing is painful such as Lily’s reaction towards the subject is disappointment towards her mother saying how she “wasn’t like [how she] thought she was” (Sue Monk Kidd 251) indicating that her tone towards her mother has changed from being positive to negative and becoming bitter toward her mother and forced carry the burden of the how her

Get Access