Your partner has been diagnosed with breast cancer and you have been there from day one. It all lead up to this, the mastectomy. The surgical removal of the cancer and subsequently her breast. You are feeling better about things. You heard the doctor and the prognosis is good. You see the light at the end of the tunnel. Things are finally looking up and you two can finally get back to normal life. The only problem is that is all from your point of view. What are her thoughts? How is she coping? Have you asked her? Chances are you haven’t, and it’s not because you don’t care. You do care and you feel like you’ve been there for this whole fight good or bad. So why now at the finish line is all of this falling apart? Why is she withdrawn? …show more content…
“…. when my doc asked if I was anxious or depressed I hesitated to answer as it felt like a weakness,…” (community.breastcancer.org).
“When a woman first hears these four words, ‘you have breast cancer,’ her first thought are usually, ‘will I be strong enough to fight this disease?’ Once she learns that she will survive, thoughts about how she will confront drastic physical changes resulting from mastectomy and chemo are soon to follow.” (www.guide2breastcancer.com).
No guys; get that thought out of your head. That thought of “I guess I can understand that. I’d feel the same if it were my testicle.” No you wouldn’t. You wouldn’t, because unless your wardrobe is one of those wardrobes that is the constant source of women and children running away screaming then, no you don’t know. Because your testicles aren’t on display for the world. A woman’s breasts are right there. Right or wrong it’s what we see and it’s what she equates with her femininity.
“No one can prepare a woman for the confusion of feelings that accompanies a breast cancer diagnosis. In one sense, women lose their entire identity as they make changes necessary to live with this disease. One of the realities of dealing with cancer is the grief process. According to Dr. Michael Fitzpatrick, “You cannot short-circuit the grief process. It’s
Which is being a shy small town girl who never wanted to speak in front of people because of fear of what they think or say. Years after her diagnosis she has become one of the most well know breast cancer activist in the United States. She believes that God brought her through the cancer the first time and used it for good. She also believes that the cancer has made her marriage and family stronger. Cancer can cause depression, body image issues, anxiety and fear, but your attitude about your diagnosis can make a big difference during your treatment. Always try to stay positive and when you you’re a survivor try to make a difference to help
The Victoria’s Secret Catalog Never Stops Coming and Other Lesson I Learned from Breast Cancer delivers an entertaining account and perspective on a young woman’s journey of surviving breast cancer. Nash’s account not only highlights the hardships and difficult decisions one must endure but focuses on the small lessons learned that lead to a more positive experience with breast cancer. The memoir is an excellent resource to women recently diagnosed with breast cancer, family of the recently diagnosed, and those just wanting to understand the hardships of the diagnosis. In reviewing the memoir, the principal criteria included content, organization, and tone.
Breast cancer affects one in every nine women in Britain, 45,000 women every year are diagnosed with it in some form or stage of development. Life style and cognitive interventions, i.e. counselling and psychotherapy can play an important part in how the patient deals with cancer in their lives and how they recover.
Carr, B. (2013). Psychological aspects of cancer: A guide to emotional and psychological consequences of cancer, their causes and their management. New York: Springer.
Cancer is Chronic disease in which abnormal cells divide without control and are able to invade other tissues. Cancer cells can spread to other parts of the body through the blood and lymph systems (NCI, 2013). Breast cancer in particular affects both women and men, though our focus is on Ella Miller who is the heart of the Miller family. Ella has been battling cancer for years now and even though she went into remission, the cancer has returned. This Situation is affecting her view on life and well as her family view on life with and without her. The purpose of this paper is to inform and introduce factual background of breast cancer, medical treatment options, suggestions of coping with this illness for the family and Ella as well as an outlook regarding the micro, macro and mezzo influences of the patient and family. This paper will educate Ella and her family on lifespan development and outcomes pertaining to breast cancer.
Women may experience a range of emotions with the diagnosis as well as throughout the treatment as a result of breast cancer, such as: sadness, anger, fear and guilt. Therefore, it is essential to closely monitor the client for their psychosocial adjustment to the diagnosis and treatment, and identifying those that need further psychological interventions (Boehmke & Dickerson, 2006). This includes being aware of the impact the diagnosis will have on the family members and loved ones; as their support is warranted as possible caregivers during the process. Appropriate nursing diagnoses for a woman with a new verdict of breast cancer may include (but not limited to): disturbed body image related to loss of hair due to chemotherapy; fear related to the diagnosis and prognosis of the disease; and knowledge deficit of cancer treatment options and reconstructive surgery. Other diagnosis will be added and removed as the patient decides if she wants treatment; and the psychological, psychosocial, and physical changes that may affect her quality of life. For instance, after a mastectomy the patient may have a nursing diagnosis of: risk for disturbed body
Breast cancer can be a very scary experience, not just for the patient, but also for the patient’s family. While patients go through the process of being diagnosed with breast cancer and the treatment that goes with it there are many highs and lows. The themes of uncertainty, family, and isolation can be seen throughout Audre Lorde’s journal, and even though the poems are small you can still see the same themes throughout most of them.
Nobody expects to get cancer. You just see it happen around you, and never think twice about it coming into your life. Until it does. In October 2016 my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. She had it before the previous winter and there was only a 5% chance of it coming back. And when it did, I was devastated. My mom is a very joyful person, she always sees the good in the bad. The hope in the hopeless. The Light in the dark. But this time around
In addition to letting participants know how the mentor-mentee matching process works and what is expected of you in your role as a mentor, this day-long workshop is intended to provide a solid grounding in the basics of breast cancer and ways to offer support in a manner that is truly helpful and empowering to those struggling to cope with a recent diagnosis or with issues at any point during treatment or recovery. Please set this date aside if you haven’t taken our training, and RSVP with me.
The three words no one ever wants to hear politely were articulated: “YOU HAVE CANCER.” I was in tears in a matter of seconds. I texted my husband in the waiting room, he came to the treatment room and couldn’t believe the devastating news either. The doctor went on explaining the next steps to take for surgical procedures, counseling, family genetics and treatment options. Still in shock, I went to the administrator and received a folder of necessary information regarding everything and anything about breast cancer. (Teresa Harris)
The results came in confirming a malignant tumor in my mother’s breast, and I knew her hopes had been crushed, but she remained strong. After the surgery, another biopsy established that the cancer was found on the outside of her tumor and also in her lymph nodes, so it was very possible that it could spread. She would need to get a mastectomy.
Audience Link: There is a large amount of men and women who are diagnosed with breast cancer everyday but they usually don’t know how it forms and ways it can be treated. Breast cancer is a very serious disease that shouldn’t be taken likely. Even if you do not have breast cancer, chances are that you know or will
Cancer has one of the biggest effects on the patients mental health but also the patients loved ones and friends. It is one of the hardest things to get a grip on when the doctor tells someone that they have cancer and a fifty-fifty chance of making it. "The disease can bring many changes-in what people do and how they look, in how they feel and what they value" (Dakota 4). It makes people look at the world and their lives in a different way, valuing now what they took for granted and seeing the bigger picture in every scenario. It is something that no one can actually brace, even after the doctor tells them. Through it all though, the person must remain strong and optimistic because the cancer can affect the person's moods and in return affect the outcome of the person and the chances of their making it
Cancer is a word that most everyone fears. It affects millions of lives on an everyday basis. However, breast cancer seems to grab more attention due to its recurrence. According to an article in Opposing Viewpoints, breast cancer is a disease in which abnormal breast cells begin to grow uncontrollably, forming tumors. Breast cancer is highly common amongst today’s society, and has sparked much research in the medical field worldwide.
While the completion of treatment is excitedly anticipated, many cancer survivors would still be disturbed by the emotional and physical tribulation of their breast cancer trajectory (Surbone & Peccatori, 2006). This is because, the impact of cancer remains long even after treatment ended. Besides the common issues that accompany any cancer diagnosis, breast cancer survivors also have to deal with exclusive concerns such as decreased sexual function, relationship issues, fears about genetic inheritability of cancer and complications from this disease such as lymphedema (Hodgkinson, Butow, Fuchs, et al., 2007). Therefore, the completion of treatment does not equate to lesser need for health care. Long term health issues related to breast cancer survivors have thus emerged as a public health concern.