The Termination Stage

The impact of saying good-bye and actually leaving did not hit me until the day of my departure. Its strength woke me an hour before my alarm clock would, as for the last time Missy, my golden retriever, greeted me with a big, sloppy lick. I hated it when she did that, but that day I welcomed her with open arms. I petted her with long, slow strokes, and her sad eyes gazed into mine. Her coat felt more silky than usual. Of course, I did not notice any of these qualities until that day, which made me all the more sad about leaving her.

It is important, during these final stages, that the counsellor and client can resolve any unfinished business and have time to consider the complex feelings about endings. According to Dryden and Feltham (1994), ‘a fear of loss may cause some clients to cling on to relationships in life and this will obviously have some bearing on the therapeutic relationship.’ As the counsellor, I need to be aware of what an ending might signify for the client, and for me, and manage these ethically and with the guidance of my supervisor.

I am usually able to cope with endings fairly well. I get sad thinking about endings for maybe a day or two and then am ready to move on. As I think about ending my practicum, I get excited to move on to the next step in my life. However, I also get sad realizing that I will miss the people that I had the opportunity to work with, and I do not know if I will get to see them again. I am a little bummed that I was not able to see the whole adoption process with the same family, but I am also thankful that I was able to see the whole process with different families. When it comes to endings, I like to spend time with everyone, so that I can say my goodbyes at the same time. My supervisor threw me a little going away party, so that was a good way to have closure with the team, and was then able to meet with individuals to say goodbye.

Breakups are hard, to say the least. It’s a similar idea to being addicted to some sort of drug and going through withdraw. Well, that would be in the most extreme of cases, anyways. Many people deal with breakups in different ways. What is generally expected would be a lot of crying and maybe some anger mixed in. Some people are calm about it, to the point of it showing no effect to them. Usually, I would see myself being the calm person, yet I find myself in my ex’s closet, looking out on an empty room in an attempt to see whatever he could be doing.

This week’s case study, Stage Collapse at the Indiana State Fair, discusses a tragic stage collapse and the lack of protocol in regards to crisis. On August 13, 2011, the Indiana State fair was the stage of a preventable deadly crisis. Indiana State Fair officials failed at effective communication practice. Although the National Weather Service issued a storm warning prior to the concert, officials were not actively following the weather forecast (Crandall, Parnell, & Spillan, 2013). Thus, proper evacuation protocol was not implemented. An important actuation cos raised regarding regulations or the lack there of. The crisis could have been avoided if proper inspection regulations and standards were in place. At the time of the incident, standards

Relationships is a step that two people take since they connected in a romantic way. For some, it might seem far away, but others can’t wait for it to end. Some signs to know you’re on a failed relationship could be lack of respect, no time for each other, can’t find common ground, tired of the same routine and bickering and fighting. Those were some signs that some can be solved but mostly is of a failed relationship. Ending a relationship isn’t as simple as it looks, since there was love or some wouldn’t admit it but at least they cared for each other. One of the reasons you might be reading this is because you want some guidance or advice, and that’s why we recommend you keep reading.

Final Exit. The name is very to the point and feels like a way out in the darkness. As we were taught as children if there is a fire in a building you head towards the exit signs. In this metaphoric example the person’s body is the building on fire and the exit is death. Although final exit is not the only way out there are other organizations that will do the same thing. Among them Dignitas, Compassion and choices, dignity in dying, exit, and the world federation of right to die societies are to name some. What all these organizations have in common is there want to allow others a death with dignity. They give those who are suffering a way out, when death is far better choice than living.

In the case study of the Stage Collapse at the Indian State Fair, the crisis in this case affects internal and external landscaping. Several different organizaitons were responsible for the death of innocent lives being lost and no particular group took responsibility for their actions.

I cried rivers for at least a year. Rejection bleeds into insecurity and the fear of inadequacy. What if no one ever likes me again? This question plagued my mind every day and night for several months after having my naive heart stomped on by a high school boy. At this point in my life I realize that it’s permitted to lament the loss of someone who once knew my thoughts at the hours of the day no sane person is awake. I disclosed some of my deepest secrets to him, I let him know me like I let no one else, and I lost him. It is valid for me to cry no matter what anyone else

I begin to create a constant fear in my head that the person who hurt me once will most likely do it again. I have learned that allowing someone a second, third, or sometimes fourth chance, creates an image that does not show respect for myself. It has shown the person that is hurting me that they can do whatever they please because I will forgive them anyways; which is not how I want to be viewed in society. I fear the same occurrence will remain and that I will appear weak to others; appearing weak in society is not the type of person I am. I have learned that even though I may get hurt again, I have to do what is right and remove that person from my life, which will eliminate my fear and allow me to stand

My life has been pretty stressful since last term. I lost one of my best friends over a ridiculous reason, but I’m doing better. We discussed it, while I was trying to get closure, for all the things I went though. Throughout the whole event, I felt like I was cheated of the most important thing at the end of relationship. As of right now, I’m still dealing with the aftermath but I have grown to learn that self-love is important and to be true to myself and not to change for anyone.

About two weeks ago, I left my job as a nanny for two kids. I have been with the same family for four years, so it was definitely hard for me to say goodbye to the kids and for them, as well. I didn 't’ really have much of a choice in the matter because I’m turning twenty-three this year, which means I need to get a move on with my life. I can’t continue living at

It 's apparent that not every relationship stands the test of time. In hindsight, it is much easier to see why the relationship needed to end, but during the heat of the moment, emotions make it almost impossible to get out of it, even if you are not happy.

Saying a final farewell to your better half can affect something beyond your social life. It can cause critical weight on one's body. Our bodies have a few reactions to enable us to manage stress. Be that as it may, there are additional negative results of these reactions. It can here and there appear to be difficult to manage a truly intense separation. When one is sorrowful and missing somebody one can feel various entangled feelings. Goodbyes are troublesome for everyone. Our feelings are seething, and these passionate encounters and stress directly affect our body. In a relationship, one’s psyche, body and the center of the brain conform to being personally associated. At the point when that somebody leaves, the mind needs to rearrange. Traversing a separation is as much a physical procedure as a passionate one. The torment can be persevering yet, in the end, the body science will change back to typical and the hurt will decrease.

I spoke to a close friend recently and she was feeling down because she had to break up with a friend of hers that had disappointed her one too many times. Listening to the defeat in her voice got me to thinking about just how painful it really is to break up with a friend. We 're absolutely conditioned to navigate the ins and outs of breaking it off with a romantic partner, but not really a friend. I know that I 've had more than one friendship that felt like a toxic marriage that, at the time, I couldn 't free myself from for reasons that ranged from pure loyalty for the person to fear of getting rid of someone that held true value in my life. In a couple of cases I just didn 't want the person to think