The Truth Of Lying

Lying has is a part of our culture, and it seems as if not a day goes by where you do not lie at all. Our world could not exist as it does, if we lived in a society in which lying did not exist. However as humans, we are prone to lying, because of our need to protect ourselves, or the ones close to us, that we turn to lying in order to either make our lives easier or to avoid problems. Humans have adapted over time into societies where lying is an evolutionary advantage, which has made it a part of our DNA. Even children, as soon as they can talk, are using deception as a way to get what they want, and these children have not even had a chance to learn to lie. Lying also continues throughout our entire lives, because it is not something that we can help, it is a part of who we are. When evaluating the argument Stephanie Ericsson makes in “The Ways We Lie”, regarding the reasons we chose to lie, however it is also important to consider extending the argument to include the idea that lying is not only a daily occurrence, it has also become imbedded into human nature.

In the essay The Ways We Lie, author Stephanie Ericsson writes in depth about the different types of lies used by most people everyday. While listing examples of them, Ericsson questions her own experiences with lying and whether or not it was appropriate. By using hypothetical situations, true accounts, and personal occurrences, she highlights the moral conflicts and consequences that are a result of harmless fibs or impactful deceptions. In an essay detailing the lies told to ourselves and others, Ericsson points out one bold truth; everyone lies. Through her writing, Ericsson causes the reader to look into how they’ve lied in the past and how to effects others and the general greater good of society.

In conclusion, “Dulce et Decorum” by Wilfred Owen is a poem written with the clear purpose of destroying the heroic tradition by telling the truth about war. It doesn’t sugar coats the ugly reality of war, but describes in vivid disturbing details. Even if the poet died during the battles of the Great War, we can be very grateful that some of his works survived to tell the tale as it is. Not noble, regal nor godly, but

Lying is evolving into normalcy. Since there are several types of lying, there are loopholes and ways that people defend themselves for telling untruths. For example, we tell lies in order to evade trouble or consequences but tell ourselves that it is better or easier that way. Ericsson claims, “We lie. We all do. We exaggerate, we minimize,

The purpose of war is again in question through the ironic titles evidenced in most of Owen’s poems. In ‘Dulce Et Decorum Est’, the sweet and fitting death is contrasted against the bitter and

‘Dulce et Decorum Est’ is another of Wilfred Owen’s poems that conveys inner human conflict, in terms of past doings in World War I. The poem was written in 1917 at Craiglockhart (Owen’s first battle after his rehabilitation due to ‘shellshock’). It portrays an inner change in his approach to war and it’s gruesome environment:

In the poem “Dulce Et Decorum Est”, Wilfred Owen introduces the reader to the reality of the horrors of war, a far different story than what is portrayed in the media today. It tells the story of a battle in WW1, describing in vividly shocking detail the terror that occurs. Owen uses very descriptive imagery in his writing to convey the message that the old saying - dulce et decorum est pro patria mori - is a lie, and the terrible reality of war is incomprehensibly painful. Owen uses terms such as “the white eyes writhing in his face” and “vile, incurable sores on innocent tongues” to reveal how atrocious the experiences of the soldiers were.

If you do not remember, Cyrano sent Roxane a letter from Christian twice a day while they were at war. He promised Roxane that Christian would write to her everyday, so Cyrano wrote everyday, and put his life in danger by travelling across battlefields just for her. The most unfortunate part being that Roxane always thought it was Christian sending and writing the letters everyday, “Things dead, long dead, see! How they rise again!—Why,why keep silence all these fourteen years, when, on this letter, which he never wrote, The tears were your tears?” (V.v.217-220). He was devoted to keep it a secret, which also reveals how patient he is, waiting all these years, listening to Roxane mourn about Christian, when he knew that it was him all along. Cyrano would come visit Roxane every week for 14 years, showing his commitment towards her. He was devoted to Christian as well, when Christian was dying Cyrano told him that Roxane truly loves Christian, “ I told her all, She loves you still.” (IV.x.445). He kept it a secret to spare Christian’s dignity.

The Ways We Lie addresses the main topic of avoiding the truth promptly. Factions of lying, especially those not ordinarily considered deceit, are presented, and personal anecdotes as well as historical precedents magnify personal appeal along with logic. The purpose of this essay is to encourage people to abstain from dishonesty. For illustration, the author states,”I cannot seem to escape the voice deep inside

Christian profits from Cyrano’s wit when expressing his love for Roxane in Act III when Cyrano expresses many neutral tones. When Christian wants to know whether or not Roxane loves him, Cyrano educates Christian of his plan to approach Roxane. His informative tone can be seen when Cyrano makes Christian reveals his feelings for Roxane at a seemly dark night by her balcony. Cyrano takes an advantage of the seemly dark night by being present in Christian and Roxane's conversation so that Cyrano’s wit can be manipulated by Christian in order to express his love for Roxane. Cyrano states to Christian,“Let us try what can be done; It is more than you deserve- stand over there...

It is very true that we lie. We lie everyday conscious or unconsciously, anywhere and to anyone. It has become a way of life to many people, when one lies it feels completely normal, actually they don’t feel anything at all. One can be couth lying in any place like work, home and to different person’s friends, family, clients, teachers and even authority. In the preface of the story the author had describe how in a day she had lied a minimum of four times to various people. In spite of this the authors tried a different approach she tried now to go a week without consciously lying, she discovered that it is merely impossible and of course as various negative consequences. So the main topic here could be why do we lie? Thus to know the reason why we like we must first examine the ways we lie, the so commonly ways we lie daily fashion. And to these there are several ways to lie, let’s examine two: The so called “White Lies” and of course the common stereotypes and Clichés.

“The quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind” (Beauty, dictionary.com) is the definition of beauty. Beauty can be many things from facial features to scenery. In Cyrano de Bergerac, everyone focuses on Cyrano’s hefty nose and most are scared that they will offend him by looking at it. No one believes that Cyrano is capable of beauty, but it can be noted that Cyrano’s beauty develops a lot throughout the play and his true beauty lies within his wit and his ability to write.

Wilfred Owen’s poem “Dulce et Decorum Est” makes the reader acutely aware of the impact of war. The speaker’s experiences with war are vivid and terrible. Through the themes of the poem, his language choices, and contrasting the pleasant title preceding the disturbing content of the poem, he brings attention to his views on war while during the midst of one himself. Owen uses symbolism in form and language to illustrate the horrors the speaker and his comrades go through; and the way he describes the soldiers, as though they are distorted and damaged, parallels how the speaker’s mind is violated and haunted by war.

In his poem, “Dulce Et Decorum Est” poet Wilfred Owen utilizes horrific imagery, angry and disgusted tones, and a contrasting title to engage readers.

What are lies? A lie is defined as follows: To make a statement that one knows to be false, especially with the intent to deceive. There are several ways that lies are told for instance, there are white lies, lies of omission, bold faced lies, and lies of exaggeration. No matter what type of lie that one chooses to tell many people believe that lies do more harm than good.