Using Love Contracts to Minimize Litigation Risk in Regard to Workplace Romance
Since work is where we spend the most time outside of our homes, it is no surprise that workplace romance is becoming more prevalent. Many studies suggest that many people now meet romantic partners at work (Binetti 153). In the work-oriented culture of the day, “office romances and related topics of sex and privacy have become important issues confronted by most employers” (Wilson, Filosa, and Fennel 78). “A well-drafted, carefully implemented and widely disseminated corporate policy regarding fraternization among employees can provide substantial legal protection to employers” (Wilson, Filosa, and Fennel, 85). Employers need to determine what type of limitation they want and then figure out the best way to implement it. Policies need to include precise definitions of what conduct is discouraged, prohibited, or limited. Employers also must consider the consequences for those who violate the policies. Employers should also be sure that all employees have been made aware of the policies and understand the policies (Wilson, Filosa, and Fennel 86).
While some employers have policies in place to prevent or limit workplace romance some employers have not addressed this issue all. This may be due to concerns about implementation and enforcement; they chose to avoid any express formal policy and instead rely on unwritten rules or current policies (Wilson, Filosa, and Fennel 78). However, human resources
She thinks that retreats create opportunities for males and females in the company to hit on one another. Because of holding strong religious belief and feel, she believes that the organization should create policy concerning inter-office dating.
Workplace romances are now one of the challenges that organizations of all sizes have to address. How they address them varies from organization to organization. Some businesses and organizations strictly prohibit them in any form or fashion, while others prohibit them when the participants are in certain roles within the organization. Some companies have chosen not to address the issue at all and others are using a more formal method of documenting and mitigating the risk they feel these relationships pose. One of the methods of documenting, and potentially mitigating, this
The idea of on the job romance is not a new issue. Whether they are married or single, invariably someone gets attracted to some else on the job. When this happens, there is reason for concern to the company, the employees, and even, the ones involved in the lover's relationship. Some employers are looking toward consensual relationship agreements to protect the company and employees in these situations. This action could produce pros and cons.
Despite their imperfections, love contracts can help protect employers from exposure to employment discrimination lawsuits, including the ever-growing flood of retaliation claims, which rose to the No. 2 charge filed with the U.S. Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (EEOC) in 2007.
In the article “The Sexist Truth about Office Romance”, the author explains the phenomenon, reason, and social bias on office romance (Drexle, 2014). Even though “both men and women take part in office romance”, due to the discrimination on women, the society blame more on women than on men for this phenomenon (Drexle, 2014). Generally, women in office romance are motivated by advanced jobs while men are motivated by threatening love and ego. Because employees who are involved in interoffice affairs are targets of office gossip, so most of them have negative opinions toward workplace romance. In addition, women are more sensitive than men, which was caused by gender difference, therefore, “women are more likely to report their negative feelings
It is not uncommon that an office romance will develop between co-workers; based on the fact that majority of their lifetime is spent at their place of employment. Employers are aware of this possibility and have workplace romance policies to protect themselves and the parties in the relationship. Consensual Relationship Agreements (CRAs) are one of the policies that protect the company and the parties involved from the outcome of the relationship ending that could result into sexual harassment claims or bad publicity. There are pros and cons to having these policies and
“Some companies strictly forbid employees dating. Others permit it with full disclosure to supervisors. Still others require a signed contract or agreement, which stipulates workplace protocol to avoid conflicts of interest” (eHarmony). The limits that are placed upon dating within the office are in-place for a reason; the workplace is for work, not love. An example of a legally binding agreement includes the following employee dating policy from The Society for Human Resource
Changes in the way we work, the workplace and the role-assignment are not invisible to anyone. The fact that we work differently and our approach to work has changed is widely acknowledged in modern discourse. These changes can be attributed to numerous factors including cultural shifts, changes in cultural beliefs and values, need for better quality of life, rising cost of living, changes in science and technology and of course growing access to education.
Each employee has the right to work in an atmosphere that promotes equal opportunity and prohibits unlawful discriminatory practices, including sexual and other harassment. Sexual harassment is defined as unwelcome sexual advances, requests for sexual favors, and other verbal or physical conduct of a sexual nature. For example, sexual jokes and innuendo; verbal abuse of a sexual nature; commentary about individual’s body, sexual prowess or sexual deficiencies; leering, catcalls or touching; insulting or obscene comments or gestures.
Workplace romances happen all the time. *"Love is in the air" reports that between 6 million to 8 million Americans enter into such relationships every year, and that about 50% of the time many of these relationships culminate in marriage or in long-standing affairs.. The frequency of workplace romance occurs due to many factors not least of which is the case that employees who share similar interests are in frequent and long-time contact with one another. Unfortunately, many of these sour and complications can occur. Complaints of favoritism may occur; spouses may become aware of extra-marital affairs that occur on the workplace resulting in violence; sexual harassment or other retaliation accusations may spring up with the fizzling of the relationship; and romance may interfere with the job.
Workplace romance and its sometimes related twin construct, sexual harassment, are pervasive in organizational life. For example, Vault.com’s 2010 office romance survey found that 60 % of workers participated in some kind of workplace romance and 64 % said they would participate in another one (www.vault.com/officeromancesurvey.) One in five employees admitted a relationship with a boss, and 15 % said they have had a relationship with someone they supervised. Once considered taboo and private, according to a 2009 Career Builder survey (www.shrm.com) the majority of workplace romances are openly pursued. A 2010 survey by Monster.com (2010) reported 21 % of those surveyed would consider dating a coworker in their department, while 48 % would
However, diversity has resulted in increases in sexual harassment cases. Cases for sexual harassment can increase if workers of the opposite sex choose to engage in sexual relationships or affairs with each other. This may undermine productivity, creativity and can create tension or even animosity between the individuals if their relationship ends with a disaster but are still working in the same place (Zweigenhaft and Domhoff, 1998).
Students are facing many problems in school, such as bullying, drama, fighting and making friends.But one of the most abundant challenge is difficult classes and work. Many kids get bad grades on test and class work because they don’t understand it. Today we can help students that struggle become more successful.
There will always be issues in a person’s place of employment. Everyone would love to work in an environment where everyone got along, where everyone knew what his or her roles were and stayed in their lane. Most of all people enjoy working in an atmosphere where the managers provide a sense of pride and welcome to all employees. The attitude of the staff is usually a direct reflection of the person in charge. If the top person seems never to be happy or is a strict micromanager then the attitude of the work center is going to reflect negatively to this. If the manager is viewed as having a low work ethic or uncaring about the job, employees will soon develop that same low work ethic or begin to not care about the production of the work center, this is called the organizational culture of the work area. Nahavandi, Denhardt, & Denhardt, define organizational culture as “the set of values, norms, and beliefs shared by members of an organization” (2014, p. 39). Most people believe that those of us in the military do not face the same issues that our civilian counterparts encounter. Everyone knows that service members live by a creed of integrity and strive for excellence in all we set forth to do. However, just as one would find in the civilian sector the organizational culture in the military also has its time where managers or leaders do not present the best image for others to follow. The military has issues, with favoritism, racism, and sexism just as
Corporate Australia requires immediate attention to stem the steady increase of sexual harassment. Alexander and Lewer (1998) state there is “significant interaction between industrial relations practices and the economy” demonstrating linkages between individuals, organisations and society that must be addressed.