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Throughout Chinua Achebe’s novel, Things Fall Apart, it is made very apparent how much the main character, Okonkwo, values manliness. Despite the fact that Okonkwo lived quite a few centuries ago, his story still shares some similarities with the way men today are pressured to be masculine. Okonkwo’s desire to be masculine affects him by causing him to be violent towards his family, view women as lesser than him, and produce a view that men shouldn’t have emotions. In the end, this desire causes his downfall, eventually causing him to take his own life. One of the ways that the pressure to be masculine affected Okonkwo was that it made him cruel towards his wives and children. His family was frightened by him and how quickly he would …show more content…

Throughout the book, he continually goes on about how “womanly” certain things are. His emotions about killing Ikemefuna are a result of him becoming a woman. As portrayed in this instance, “‘How can a man who has killed five men in battle fall to pieces because he has added a boy to their number? Okonkwo, you have become a woman indeed.’” (Achebe 65) He thinks that feeling sorrow over Ikemefuna’s death is womanlike, and not to be tolerated because he is a strong person; a man. When the royal python is killed, the clan has a meeting to discuss the Christian convert’s punishment. The clan decides to leave the god to deal with the man, and that their only action would to be to ostracize the Christians. Okonkwo is disgusted by their decision, his opinions made obvious by, “This is a womanly clan, he thought. Such a thing could never happen in his fatherland, Umuofia.” (Achebe 159) Regarding his exile to his motherland, he says he regrets every day of the seven years. Okonkwo sees those years as a waste. Shown here, “Although he prospered in his motherland Okonkwo knew that he would have prospered even more in Umuofia, in the land of his fathers where men were bold and warlike. In these seven years he would have he would have climbed to the utmost heights. And so he regretted every day of his exile.” (Achebe 162) His fatherland is a more masculine environment, ergo he views it as better than Mbanta. In a similar …show more content…

This is a toxic theory, as it poisons his relationships with his family and friends. Ikemefuna comes to live with him and his family, and as the years pass he grows fond of him. However, he does not show it outwardly, because he considers doing so weak. For example, “Even Okonkwo became very fond of the boy- inwardly of course. Okonkwo never showed any emotion openly, unless it be the emotion of anger. To show affection was a sign of weakness; the only thing worth demonstrating was strength.” (Achebe 28) Okonkwo believes that any emotion besides anger is weakness, and that the only acceptable thing to be was strong. His desire to be strong may stem from how he wants to be the opposite of his father, Unoka. Due to his father’s failure in life, Okonkwo is very fearful of being weak. Shown here, “Perhaps down in his heart Okonkwo was not a cruel man. But his whole life was dominated by fear, the fear of failure and of weakness.” (Achebe 13) Okonkwo is so frightened by the idea of being perceived as weak that he is unnecessarily cruel towards others, especially his family. This is comparable to how the modern man is not supposed to show many emotions. From a young age, many boys are taught that men don’t cry. However, this causes mental illnesses among men to be overlooked and underdiagnosed. Many do not reach out for help because of the idea that men aren’t supposed to be emotional. This has

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