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Transition Into Adulthood Research Paper

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Adolescence is the period between ages 13 to 19. Then, we, transition over into adulthood.
When I was 13 years old I was full of joy. I enjoyed going to school, I enjoyed being with my friends and family, I loved church, I wasn’t shy, and I was very outspoken. I participated in many clubs at my middle school. I had an average amount of friends, more Caucasian, than black. My personality was the “Leader”. I knew what needed to be done, and how it needed to be done. My friends knew that I would have an answer, if they had questions. In addition, my family members and teachers did too. I loved to help the less fortunate students out in school. I participated in softball, basketball, and tennis. Like any other teenager in my time, we were very …show more content…

I’m still grounded in my religious faith, but I am not as self-assured as I use to be. I learned a lot of things that I needed to know, but a lot of things were only for my knowledge and not for my use. Therefore, as I began to get older I started to jump into things, wide-open. So, I saw more than I was ready for. By the time I was 17, I had graduated, joined the military, working 2 jobs, and dating a guy who was 5 years older than me. In the midst, of doing all these things, I misplaced my own identity. I used the word misplaced because I am still sure of two things; who I am, and whose I am. I’m just unsure of being who I am, in the society that we live in today. I’ve had people do a lot of ungodly things to me since I’ve transitioned into adulthood. People still look at me as the leader and the women, with the answers, but I no longer have many answers for anyone. When I was adolescence I would call my grandfather for reassurance. When he passed away in 2014, I realized I had to look in the mirror and up to God for support. My purpose in this life has always been to help others. I wasn’t sure of that until I became an adult. I have to find balance between the wisdom I have gained, the trials I have faced, the purpose behind those two learning strategies, and putting it into work to do what I was called to do in this

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