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Trophies : A Symbol Of Victory, Not Participation

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Trophies: A Symbol of Victory, Not Participation
Should children receive participation trophies? The issue of whether or not participation trophies should be given to both winners and losers has become very prominent in today’s society. People argue that it “creates a nation of wimps” (Priceman) by making all feel equal and taking out competition. Others debate for the same side but for different reasons such as how it makes children have low self-esteem or become narcissistic. On the other side of the spectrum people argue that participation trophies aren’t bad at all and that it gives children a sense of accomplishment. Priceman argues that it is alright to give children participation trophies while Merryman and Berdan argue that it is not; I agree with Merryman and Berdan in the assertion that children, if they lose, should not be given trophies.
In Ashley Merryman’s article, “Forget Trophies, Let Kids Know it’s O.K. to Lose,” she claims that children who lose do not deserve participation trophies. She states that children need to know it is alright to fail and make mistakes because that is how they learn lessons the most. She addresses an issue that children need trophies to boost their self-esteem but backs her argument that children either become narcissistic or have even less self-esteem because they believe they can’t live up to their own hype. Merryman declares that the best way for a child to feel self-fulfillment is for them to master a skill and earn the victory

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