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Uncertainty Reduction Theory Report

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Getting to know people can be a long and challenging process. Most of the time, we choose not to put in the effort to get to know someone unless we need something from him or her or we put in the minimal effort necessary to keep the conversation from getting to awkward. The book calls this the uncertainty reduction theory. The uncertainty reduction phase has three steps to it. The entry phase, which is the time when a relationship is just beginning. The subjects are strangers and have never met before. The next phase is the personal phase. In this phase, the subjects of the relationship begin to communicate in more of a personal level. They begin to open up about themselves and share more personal details with each other. Lastly, the exit …show more content…

We first met in 2007, while attending the same junior high. When we first met, she was in 8th grade and I was in 7th. We started out in the entry phase just with the small talk and chitchat throughout the day. The relationship developed and moved into the personal stages. We began to learn new details about each other and communicate more frequently during and outside of school. I asked her to be my girlfriend in 2008, when I was in 8th grade and she had moved into high school. I think we were still in the personal stage for a while, because who knew if the relationship would last. Eventually, about a year later, I feel we moved into the exit phase. We both decided that we wanted to continue with the relationship and see where it went. I do no think that either of us would have though we would still be in the same relationship over seven years later. Another example of the uncertainty reduction theory is when I moved into the suites on campus my freshman year. I had no idea who I was moving in with. I did not even have the opportunity to speak to them via Facebook or email, because my room was finalized so late. The entry phase was very awkward. I had nothing in common with two of my roommates and the other was just a little quite. I did not know where the relationship was going to

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