Is Your Self Image Undermining Your MLM Success?
By Ed Reiner
Jul 24, 2011
We all would like success and yet, for most of us it is just a dream I use to question why some people just naturally seemed to receive success in their mlm business while I struggled and worked vigorously for average results. I knew the procedures these winner's taking, but for some odd reason I couldn't consistently do the equivalent, why? It wasn't until I started to examine myself and human capability that I found that science and psychology have identified the one premier cause for mlm success or failure in life. It is the unseen self-image that you have of yourself. Same as your mind controls your heartbeat, your self-image controls your mind. To restructure your hidden
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All your actions, feeling, behavior, even your abilities, are always consistent with your self-image.
2. The self-image can be changed.
He went on to say that the self-image is a "premise" a base or a foundation upon which your entire personality, your behavior and your ear your circumstances are built.
There are four basic steps to build your new self-image and it starts with the Imagination. It is with your imagination that you are going to erect your new self-image, a mlm winner's image. This is something that is simple but it is not easy, it is something that the majority of people require aid with and to go into intense detail on this in one article is just not workable. What I will do though, is I will give you four main steps to establish this procedure.
#1 - Decide what you want.
Make the decision as to what you exceedingly yearn for, not just what you think you can get, make a decision and erect a clear picture.
#2 - Decide what you are prepared to give up to get it.
Let go of your old image, the past is dead. This is where the law of sacrifice comes into play. This is where you give up something of a less important nature to make opportunity for something of a elevated nature.
#3 - Set your mind on
The self could be defined simply as the sense of who we are, and who we are is created and developed over time and through interactions with other individuals in society. Charles Horton Cooley compares the development of self to a mirror in which an individual’s self is basically a reflection of how we think we are viewed by society. This idea of the “looking-glass self” focuses on how we imagine others see us opposed to how they really see us. There are three phases of the looking-glass self that repeats throughout life. In the first phase, an individual imagines he or she appear to others. The second phase involves imagining how others would judge him or her, based off that appearance. In the final phase, the individual uses the assumptions from the first two phases to define his or her
Self image – represents the consciousness of the person’s objectives and personal skills, as well as the good and bad of things of himself, (Piotrowski, 2005). Example: Mary is
The difference between an individual's "self-concept" of themselves, versus their "self-image" is on a situational basis. The overall idea and image a person has of his or her self is the "self-concept." The "self-image" of a person varies from situation to situation. However, these individualistic portraits of the self contribute to the overall "self-concept" of a person.
Most people face self esteem problems at different levels. At some point in life people face this problem without realizing it. In the essay The Trouble with Self-Esteem written by Lauren Slater starts of by demonstrating a test. Self esteem test that determines whether you have a high self-esteem or low self-esteem. The question to be answered however is; what is the value and meaning of self-esteem? The trouble with self-esteem is that not everyone approaches it properly, taking a test or doing research based of a certain group of people is not the way to do so.
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Positive self-perception and self-esteem is crucial to the well being of all individuals. Therefore, the negative self-perception and low self-esteem of children and adolescents who have attracted disability labels is concerning, especially because these qualities seem to digress as students progress from elementary grades, to middle years, and to high school. While society has made many strides toward full inclusion of students with disabilities, it is clear that, for various reasons, simply including students who attracted disability labels in the classroom is not improving how these students perceive or feel about themselves. Understanding why and what can be done is critical to ensure that all students’ well being, including a positive sense of self and sense of belonging, is supported by our schools and by society in general.
Self Image - The opinion that you have of your own worth, attractiveness, or intelligence.
An individual’s opinion of who and what they helps them form and develop their own individuality. It is established through the individual’s behaviour and attitude. It relates to how they view themselves and is associated with their own self-image, body image and self-esteem. Murphy (as cited by Gross, 2001) stated the self is part of the individual which is understood and know to by the individual them self. A person’s physical appearance is the first thing that is seen when they are in contact with others. If the individual feels positive and confident within themselves then this will influence the development of a strong and healthy life. This can also influence how they experience life allowing them to develop in a positive, healthy way and enabling them to build up strong relationships with others. Self concept can be based upon one’s own expectations and goals which they hold
In life, it is natural to desire things, whether it is to open doors for one person or being able to see your family once last time. This type of desire has spanned over generations from the 1400s to modern day, from Verona, Italy to outer space. Critically acclaimed William Shakespeare, Pulitzer Prize winner Conrad Ritcher, Tony Award winner William Gibson, and Oscar winner William Broyles Jr. demonstrate an important message in life. Nothing worth having comes easy but you should never give up.
It is as simple as being where your feet are. Worrying about things that are not in the present, and constantly thinking of what is to come or what has passed only creates “what ifs” and “I could have done this.” Rather than going back in forth, we must realize that everything in life happens the way it should and we cannot spend time overlooking the past and future.
Approximately ⅓ of Americans are unfit. Being unfit causes a poor body image, health issues, and a lower amount of activity, which can result in obesity. Being fit helps people have a positive body image, health benefits, and higher amounts of activity. Whether you're fit or not, both can greatly affect you. Being fit and unfit differs in many ways such as; body image, health, and the amount of activity each person does.
Thus, if an idea of a self exists then it must be derived from impressions.
I like the topic for your dissertation’ It is justifiable that it targets the fashion in which people live, the decisions they ought to make in life, tasks that they intend to engage to and perform, etc…. In the real world, there are many factors that drive individuals to certain unwilling direction, and position them in no choices domain. That sort of acceptance because of no alternation may contribute to settling for less decision; nevertheless, when individuals have no other alternative, they opt to wait for time, they may make a decision to settle for less with intend to move on when a new alternation present. Sometimes individuals may opt to settle for less because they want to salvage a relationship, may be they want to keep something that is very unique or special. But there is a reality within the pressure to settle for less. Individuals would do anything to keep what is so specials, they do not want to loose and regret it in the future; it is a matter of common sense and cognizance of life’s modality.
Myth: People with high self-esteem are smarter, more likeable, and more physically attractive than people with low self-esteem. Fact: There is strong correlation between self-esteem and being smart, likable, popular, and physically attractive, but this is true only for self-ratings. There is no correlation between self-esteem and others’ rating of how likable, popular, and physically attractive a person is, or with objective measures of intelligence. What’s going on? People with high self-esteem believe all these things about themselves, but they are not true by objective standards. In fact, people high in low in self-esteem are equally likable and equal in physical attractiveness and intelligence. My two-cents: I am skeptical of the true
3. Go out and have fun. Release yourself from the 'got to have it' mentality. If you follow the principles of visualization and you think, act and live from the position of having what you want already, there's no need to stress about it. Don't struggle or wish for something that you want to manifest. State your desire, visualize it, see yourself in possession and then go out and live your life, fully expecting your desired result to eventually show up.