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Vietnamese Culture Short Story

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Vietnamese school culture deeply values maintaining social and academic impeccability. The struggle to appear competent and successful makes expressing vulnerability a taboo. In High School, this cultural expectation even influenced relationships with my parents and close friends - our interactions were formal and polite, yet indifferent. For example, although I would plunge myself into various social events and extracurricular activities, I was never truly present. Everything I did felt mechanical, to the point that I couldn’t laugh or smile without feeling like it was rehearsed. Over time, I became more closed off, my shell estranging me even from my grandparents – especially my grandfather, who adored me the most. From the beginning, my grandfather doted on me, always seeking opportunities to spend time with or send gifts to me. Naturally, my high school attitude was especially detrimental to our relationship.
“Hurry up! Your grandfather is calling. Come catch up on the phone,” my mother shouted loudly from downstairs.
“Mom, talk to him first. I’m busy.” I casually replied. …show more content…

We fed him our excuses, blaming our busy lifestyle and precluding further interaction with him beyond a brief phone call. One day, he fell ill. Of course, I knew that I should visit my grandfather, but my feelings of shame and grief at having failed to notice his deteriorating health made it hard for me to face him in person. How could I explain my negligence to the man who loved me so unconditionally right from the beginning? Day by day, while I heard reports of his dimming prognosis, I despaired to think that I’d lost the opportunity to connect with my grandfather. My regret at taking his affection for granted resonated very

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