1. What are some honest, unfiltered things about you?
I’m a very reserved person, I find it hard to open up to people, I’ve worked on that a lot, and I think I’m a better now and can open up more. I know people still think I’m very reserved and it bothers me.
I always expect the best of people, when someone is telling me something I always think “Why would they lie?” or “Why would they do something to damage me?”. While I’ve obviously had some bad experiences, I don’t have a reason to believe that people are bad.
I forget very easily and hold no grudges
I’m a bad liar because one of my greatest fears is being caught lying, I lie about small stuff but I never lie about big stuff because I’m too afraid of being caught.
I love my family, they’re everything to me and I think we’re close. But I would like us to talk more about deeper personal stuff and not only about the day to day life.
2. What drives you nuts?
When people tell me how I should feel, for example, if we’re having a conversation and I rise my voice a little bit and you tell me “don’t get mad”, I will get mad. I use that example because of the irony that their telling me not to feel mad and I get mad, but it works with other feelings.
I hate when people have long discussion about what they should do and then do whatever they want against everyone’s advice, when working on a team, when someone does something the team didn’t agree to do gets me mad.
I hate when people talk and talk and talk and don’t say anything,
I feel that my public image is that I am a really timid and quiet. People tell me I look serious all of the time. I don't like talking about myself. I find myself struggling when it comes to taking to others
When I was little, I was very shy around new people. I usually only showed who I actually was around my family. I didn’t have a friend who I could be myself around, they were usually just friends who I would play with at recess. That was until everything changed, and I moved across the town of Derby.
has to be earned. I generally trust someone unless they do something that brings me harm.
A night on the couch indulging in Facebook, Twitter, and Netflix does not really build long and lasting relationships. Families need to take time to unplug and disengage from their computers long enough to actually sit and talk with one
Lying: it’s something everyone is guilty of. Whether they be big or small, lies are everywhere. We live in a society full of lies, so we take the consequences of lying with a grain of salt. There’s no doubt about it; lying can be dangerous. Therefore, we should be more wary of our lies and their consequences. Lies can be detrimental and do have the potential to change society for the worse.
The thing that annoys me the most are people that are hypocrites. A hypocrite is a person that dislikes something, but they do that thing anyway. For example if a person says something is annoying, like a song, they might tell someone that is playing that song to turn it off. What a normal person would do is not play that song because it’s annoying, but what a hypocrite would do is play that song that they thought was annoying whenever they want.
Don't get me wrong, I'm usually an honest person, but sometimes I let situations get the best of me.
Think about it, every time you choose to tell a lie you have to tell 1,000 more just to cover up the first lie. Wouldn't it just me easier to tell the truth? It takes a good man to confess his wrongs, those who can not always find themselves in bad predicaments all the time. Telling the truth is always the way to go. I use to have the hardest time confessing the things that I do incorrectly.
From the very beginning of our childhood, we have been taught by our parents never to lie. They always told us that lying is never good and the outcome of a lie is worse than the lie itself. But what if parents have been wrong? What if the outcome of a lie could be positive? Selfless lies that have good intentions and are used to benefit the greater good are referred to as “good lies”.
A pet peeve of mine that pushes my limits is when a person is mad or extremely moody for their own personal reason and then decide to take out their irritation on somebody else. This behavior rises my own temper when somebody else’s temper gets the best of them. Not only do I see it as being rude but when it doesn’t involve the other person being at fault, it infuriates me. Every person experiences bad days where your attitude is very negative but it gives you no reason to be harm someone else’s feelings or mood. Still, a normal action like experiencing a bad feeling and making a remark just shakes my nerves.
As I have gotten older, some of the introversion has faded to a certain extent, but it is still present. Through my job as a Special Education Teacher, I have had to overcome a majority of my introversion so I can effectively do my job. On any given day, I will have to speak to not only my students but also the office staff, coworkers, and possibly some of the children’s parents. Conversation goes both ways, so to be successful at my job; I would have to be willing to be open and communicate with others more. I also have to realize that I need to make the first step sometimes. Not everyone is going to come to me; there are times I am going to have to go to others.
School, to me and among many peers of my age, is not a distant term. I have spent one-third of my life time sitting in classrooms, every week since I was seven years old. After spending this much time in school, many things and experiences that happened there have left their mark in my memory. Some are small incidences while some have had a great impact on me. However, regardless the degree of significance, things that happened all contributed to shape the person that I am now.
There are three very important aspects that play a major rule in my life. They can be categorized as intellectual, social, and spiritual. My intellectual self is interesting because I am mainly right-brained which means that I tend to use my creativity more than my mathematical skills, also making me a visual learner. My social self consists of friends, family, and my surroundings. I spend most of my time at home with my family. Whenever I am with my friends, I observe their behaviors and listen to their opinions. I am more of an independent type of person. Being with different people has influenced me into appreciating different cultures and beliefs. I have learned things that have now been incorporated into my own set of beliefs and
Over the course, I have learned that all people are unique and have their own personal traits and qualities. One person does not just simply fall into one category, but various categories. What is beautiful about all of us is that we all have diverse personalities, traits and qualities. I have learned that we should be proud of and embrace these unique qualities of ours.
Growing up with parents who didn’t know much about money put me in a position where I had to learn how to be financially responsible at a young age. Before my 18 birthday I wanted to open my own checking account and eventually a credit card in my name without any cosigner. With this in mind before my 18th birthday, I research every bank from big banks such as Bank of America to little credit unions like Arizona Federal. I learn about the fees, how to avoid them, the advantages and disadvantages of a big bank and credit unions, credit reports, the different type of credit cards available and what the best way to obtain them is. Then at 18, I opened my first bank account and subsequently a credit card a couple months later all without a cosigner. With the knowledge I have obtained on my journey, I know I would be an excellent fit for the company and looking forward to working with the team, and ready to educate the public about finances.