Today I'm going to tell you about the worst promblems in the world. The wort promblems in the world are bullying and being a bystander. I think both are pretty bad because if your being a bystander and watching the bully beat an inasint person. Then that's just plain out awful.
First, I'm going to tell you about bullying. Bullying is a promblem all over the nation. Everyone is bullyed. Usally when someone is a bully it's because of their parents. Maybe there parents are drug addicts and they are scared that they are going to die so they will take it out on other people. Maybe the parents/parent are in jail and they have to live with someone in their family. So you have all these different situations that makes a person a bully. But you just
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Bystanders are just people who watch the bullie beat up inasint people. So don't be a bystander. If your ever in that situation go get an adult you trust. Hopefully that adult will take care of it. But if you can't find an adult just go up to the bully and say come on I know your hiding something come with me and i'll go get an adult and you can talk to the adult about it. See it's that simple, thats all you have to do. So please don't be a bystander stand up!
Third, Now since I have told you about bullying and being a bystander you could set up a group and make a name for it and when you see bullying and people bystanding you can stop it and stand up for other people! Your group could be a group that everyone would join because nobody likes to be bullied and being a bystander. So maybe one day your group would get other people to form anti-bullying/bystanding groups. So there would be no bullying/bystanding if everyone formed a group! I think a lot of people would be interested in joining. I know I would be!
In conclusion, Please don't be a bully/bystander. You want to help other people not hurt other people. So remember what I said make an anti-bullying/bystanding group. Be the person who would change the world! Be the change you want to see in the world!
In the book "Bystander", written by James Preller, it talks about not just the bully and victims but the other roles, such as Bystanders and allies. In chapter 20, a gathered group of boys discuss their responses to Griffin's unreasonable and illogical behavior. Their reasons for doing nothing include "The unreliability of authority figures to respond", "The threat of retaliation", "The victim, at least on some level, deserves it" , "It is human nature, the law of the jungle, and it will always persist", "It's better to stay out of it", "No one should rat out another student". These are ridiculous and absurd reason to be a bystander to such a unspeakable act. The main idea I would like to another reader to consider is advise others to not
The bully is normally very well known; someone who is just as, if not more, guilty is nearly undetectable. This person is a bystander, and according to Tales of Bullying, being a bystander is just as bad as bullying. Bystanders just join in on the laughing. They don’t even help; they just watch bullying like it’s some sort of comedy show. Bystanders can also be people who are just in the wrong place at the wrong time. They can just as easily turn into a person who stands up to bullies, but they don’t. In the end bystanders are just as, if not more, guilty than the
A bystander today, will normally stand-up for the victim, or report the situation to a superior. A bystander in the 2010s have been well informed about the causalities that occur due to bullying, or how the victim reacts due to the bullying. The victim in the 2010s would normally report the situations themselves, or stand-up to the bully. Some victims will keep the bullying to themselves, but that is different compared to the bully keeping the bullying to him or herself. The emotions created from being bullied will cause the victim to become suicidal, or
Chapter three - How people can prevent bullying from happening. What can you do if you are the Bystander?
A 2023 statistic by Jannik Lindner, a social issue statistics writer, writes about how bystanders can help stop bullying. He writes Bystanders intervene in bullying situations only 20% of the time, and 60% of bullying situations stop when a bystander intervenes. When the bystander becomes an upstander, it appears to the victim that the upstander values their security. Upstanders stand up to injustice, and being an upstander is a way to show others compassion and empathy. When we see bullying in the world, we should choose to stand up for those who are unable to, instead of watching it happen.
If you happen to be the bystander, your success comes from knowing not to get involved or not to get too involved, lest you yourself become an actual bully or a victim. You may even be blessed with the cherished gift of self-denial, and in such case, you are able to dismiss any vague notions that your inaction makes you complicit in the bully's trespass. Still you are human: you have an opinion, you have feelings about the matter. Maybe you sympathize with one of the sides. Maybe you wish you had the guts to be that way. Maybe you're just afraid you'll get hurt. Maybe you have something to lose; maybe that something is so valuable you're not willing to gamble it. Maybe you simply feel guilty for not getting involved. Or, maybe all you feel is relief -- relief that it's not you. Makes no difference, the bystander just stands there. Hence the name. Oh, you may be emotionally conflicted, but being a bystander is really the safest place to be. Consequently, bystanders often opt to remain bystanders.
People live for one thing and that is happiness, but how can someone go through day-by-day with being bullied that’s the biggest issue we are facing in the school systems these days. The studies and evidence is proved with videos, post on social media or even being a part of it is another thing. Overall, bullying is sometimes viewed as a perspective of how kids act when they feel the need that they are neglected, jealous and are emotionally distressed in a certain situation. This problem can also arise with the top person wanting to act as the overall top dominator to show that they are better and everyone should follow their lead, but we see these days as another problem that a lot of bystanders. People are feared to tell what they have seen
People may not realize it, but bystanders play a huge role in bullying. By not stepping in or telling someone about it, they are making the problem worse. A bystander intervening could stop someone from getting hurt, and even prevent bullying from happening in the future. If a bystander does not say or do anything about it, they are contributing to the issue. There are more bystanders than there are bullies, so it is their choice to help or hurt the situation.
"What hurts the victim the most is not the cruelty of the oppressor, but the silence of the bystander," says famous author, Elie Wiesel. According to "verywell.com," people have been bullied for their religion, skin color, and beliefs. This can cause kids to have poor self-esteem and become a bully themselves. Some kids, called bystanders, decide to sit and watch. But what's worse, bullies or bystanders? Bystanders are worse than bullies because they choose not to do anything, encourage the bully, can suffer from guilt, and face consequences for not helping.
Are you a victim, a bystander, do you stand up? They’ve hurt you mentally, physically, and you’ve finally had enough of it. Either way, you can help. Bullying is something that is repetitive over time, and has to do with 2 people and one usually has the upper hand. Mostly, between a popular and unpopular kid. As a student in Jerling Junior High I was bullied and was known to be a bully. I was bullied for a whole year by my best friend. I was known to be a bully to my good friend. In the end, we all made up and went our own ways. I researched middle school bullying because it is a huge problem and I learned how different types of bullying happens in school, how some kids believe that harming themselves is a solution, and even how teachers get bullied, not just students.
Bystanders accept bullying by watching and doing nothing to resolve a conflict. Just like how the U.S. knew the Holocaust was happening but didn’t get involved. Even though no one got involved, it still contributed to the problem. It contributed to making the one causing it feel powerful.
Bystander is worse. Well a bully is bad but when you’re not helping somebody that is getting bullied you’re a lot worse. When somebody gets bullied if you try to help them you are a good person. But if you don’t tell the bully to stop or tell a teacher you are the one who is acting like a bully. When you see somebody getting bullied you should go tell a teacher or a responsible adult or even trying to stop the bully yourself. But that is you last option.
In the image above, a scene of bullying is shown. Notice everyone surrounding the fight, nobody making an effort to stop it. Sometimes bystanders can be as responsible as the bully in certain situations, as they observe, encourage and enable him or her. They fear that if they stand up to the bully, that they would be bullied too. In the book “Flowers for Algernon”, many people had the opportunity to stand up for Charlie, but instead they either kept quiet or joined the
Good Morning/Afternoon fellow class mates, the issue that I have come to share and talk about with you today is Bullying. It is all around us, everyone bullies, no matter what you think or have done, you’ve most likely bullied someone.
Bullying, a form of aggression, can be experienced in several forms: physical, verbal, social or cyber. All bullying is composed of three specific concepts—causing their victims harm, possessing greater power than their victims and repetition (Oh & Hazler, 2009). Most often it is just the bully and a victim taken into consideration yet this fails to identify a key influence: bystanders. It is their impact on bullying that creates serious problems thus understanding the bystander’s role is vital in trying to decrease the occurrence of bullying (Oh & Hazler, 2009).