What Does Being Submissive Mean

This information will provide an initial step toward a more detailed examination of this issue.

When people hear of domestic violence, the first thing they picture is battered woman. Domestic violence doesn’t have a prejudice; it can happen to you regardless of your race, age, sexual orientation, religion, or gender. Domestic violence can affect you no matter your background or education level. People tend to think domestic violence is only when a dominant spouse physically attacks the submissive spouse. Domestic violence is not only physical abuse; domestic violence can also be emotional abuse and financial abuse.

need to be treating everyone equal, being firm but fair, caring, kind and approachable always.

Furthermore, I learned that trust has three dimensions.The first being overall trust (e.g., fair play, the truth, and empathy). The second is emotional trust (e.g., faith which someone will not miss-represent you to others or betray confidence). Henceforth, reliableness being the final one (the leader believes members will promises, and appointments will be kept and commitments met). In short, we tend to give what we get; trust begets trust; distrust begets distrust. To build confidence in a group it must be earned; it cannot be demanded. Therefore, the following elements must be present in-group work. Trusting, communication, support, respect, fairness, predictability, and competence, which will show my credibility to demonstrating good therapeutic skills and the ability to perform them.

The previous three questions are helpful in focusing on what is important and not important in one’s life and what has worth, and assists in redirecting one’s desires and gaining insight into what is most important in life.

Communication is important in discipline. Authoritarian parents tend to place an excess worth on the aspects of disciplining a child. Reasons or explanations of the rules for the punishment were never given with my mother. Being an authoritative parent, I lean towards allowing my children to know why the rules are such and what to expect when the rules are broken. A lot of authoritarian power base is achieved through parental intimidation of the child. The authoritative parent is less likely to respond my anger to a rebellion against their rules. When my mother gave punishments they were neither effective nor appropriate. However, by learning through experience I parent with firm but appropriate

First, My personal experience dealing with respect and integrity isn’t really hard. For example with authority in in school its showing integrity when they ask you to do something you have to do it with them looking or not. Then showing respect in class treating the teacher your classmates is crucial to have a good experience. Integrity and Respect have to be applied in school office or home actually anywhere.

People who have self-respect treat everyone else with respect, but I acknowledge that not everyone will treat me the same. Having self-respect for myself shows the world and the people I care about and that I am proud of myself. I am loyal to the people I am surrounded with such as my family and friends, but also to the people I respect. Honesty is vital to me. My hope is that people will be honest with me as I am honest with them.

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To be a submissive is more close to what, in my estimation, 99% of those who claim they want to be a “slave” really want. A submissive has a degree (no matter how tiny) of influence over the relationship. A submissive retains (no matter how few or how ineffectual) rights and liberties; while a Dominant might be able to assuage some of the power a submissive retains, the submissive does, in fact, retain power. A real slave has no such power whatsoever. In fact, a slave has nothing at all, only what their owner grants them and that can be taken away without warning. A slave only has such ‘rights’ and ‘liberties’ and ‘influence’ that their owner may, or may not allow them,An owner can give the world to their slave, but, in a heartbeat, an owner

I will promote honesty with positive reinforcement, even in situations where the subordinate is to be corrected. When the person to whom one must report can also be considered a confidant rather than merely a superior, this will inevitably lead to an open line of communication.

Failure to demonstrate manners and thereby failing to demonstrate respect is often dealt with by strict disciplinary action. Unlike the authoritarian style of parenting, the permissive style does not place such great emphasis on adherence to manners. Manners may be encouraged but are not viewed as a sign of a child’s obedience. Permissive parents allow and often even encourage casual verbiage rather than formal conversations with their child. Failure to hold the door for the next person or giving up a seat to a woman or elderly is seldom noticed or mentioned. Permissive parents fail to enforce some of the simplest expressions of manners. Correction and punishment is seldom given to a child for lack of manners. According to WWW.Consistent-parenting-advice.com children of permissive parents control their own behavior and to make their own decision.

Permissive parents allow complete freedom to their children and there is very little discipline visible. Permissive parenting was “Popular in the 1950’s and 1960’s” because of all the troubles going on during WWII. (5) They like to tell their kids “One more time…” whenever the kids do something bad. An example can be if Timmy asks his parents if he can go to a party. They tell him he has to be home by 10pm. Then his parents tell him the limit is 10pm. Then he suggests 12pm and because they do not want Timmy to be angry with them they let him do whatever he wants. Permissive parents have a fear that their kids will not like them. Unlike authoritarian parents, permissive parents make rules but they never enforce the rules. The children in this parenting style are usually immature, dependant, aggressive, and unhappy. They do not do well academically because of their inability to regulate to the school rules.

Do what they ask and do it well. Treat them kindly and use proper language. You still must take into consideration the person’s emotions, needs, preferences, thoughts, and ideas. Do what they say and do it quickly. Do not ask questions, do not smart off, and do not do anything to jeopardize your own self in regards to the situation. It is important to complete the job task and complete it well the first time. Show the person you respect them. Get it done, and get it down the right way, the first time. This is how you show respect. This is how you earn respect.

You can also watch YouTube to see what people have done to aggressive dogs to make them calm and submissive. Change your approach to get the results you need.