To me, poverty is not just lacking monetary means. To me, poverty is a place. It is a place where children arrive at school with empty stomachs. It is a place where aspirations are pushed to the curb with the weekly trash. It is a place where families are trapped in a vicious cycle. You cannot find this place at any single point on the map, but at many points all over the globe. Living in one of these communities opened my eyes to the needs and wants of humans more than ever before.
Jose was a father of three children: Mauricio, who was 16, Valeria, who was 12, and Jose Chico, who was 9. Valeria and Jose Chico were born with severe learning disabilities. Both kids were held back in school two or three times, and were still not making progress
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I worked with Jose to help him write up a resume and apply for new jobs. I brought groceries to stock their empty cupboards. I helped the young ones with their homework and encouraged Mauricio to talk about his feelings instead of lashing out at everyone. For a short while it seemed like things were improving for Jose’s family. But it was not long until these small victories were overshadowed by falling grades, bad job interviews, and heated arguments. I started to understand that no matter how much I wanted a better life for this family, I did not have the ability to move them out of …show more content…
A year past and I had not received news about Jose or his children. I decided to return to this place I called poverty to find out what had happened to them. A different family lived in their small house; they had no insight about to where the previous owners had moved. I asked around the neighborhood and received a few different plausible stories about Jose’s family, but the bottom line was that they were gone. Whether or not I will ever see them again, my experience with this poor family has made me realize what it is humans really need and what is important to
It was just another ordinary Thursday for my mother in the small town of Oratorio de Concepcion in rural El Salvador. Just like any other eight year old in 1980, she got up, brushed her teeth, quickly pulled her knotted hair into a high ponytail, and left for school. The short distance she walked was filled with the sounds of worn out shoes hitting the dirt road as children ran by excited to start a new day at the town’s only elementary school. After hours of sitting in a classroom surrounded by grey concrete bricks, once the last bell rang, she would wait at the entrance gate for her younger brother and cousin. They walked back down the dirt road together while kicking a deflated soccer ball to their home where their grandmother would be waiting for them with a little snack. My mother, her older
Abstract This paper focuses on a twelve-year old boy that goes by the name of Cristian Fernandez. Cristian was born into a very disoriented and complex family. Since birth he has to endure plenty of problems that many people older than him haven’t. He was born to Biannela Susana, who was twelve at the time, and Jose Antonio Fernandez, who was twenty years old.
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Her life in Sabinas was quite simple, she stayed at home with her kids, and her husband went to work. They lived in the same house as her parents-in-law, because they didn’t had enough money to buy one. In 2003 her sister-in-law and her husband offered Gabriela and Edgar a big opportunity, they were giving them the opportunity to leave Sabinas, and start a life in the city. This job opportunity her sister-in-law have her and her husband was something she says she would have never imagined, without this her life would have stayed the same and she would have never succeed in any way. After many years of saving their money, they were finally able to make an investment that would benefit them in the future. Once they moved to Monterrey her life was again difficult, with two daughters and a full time job she was not able to spend time with her kids.
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