Happiness means many things to me, such as being content with my situation no matter how difficult or simply enjoying life. I have struggled at times and been unsure what the future holds for me, but I always have to look at the positives in my life and make the best out of the situation. During this time of my life, choosing a college and trying to figure out how to pay for it is very stressful. Instead of letting this stress get to me, I realize how I need to enjoy my last year with my closest friends. No matter how overwhelming senior year gets for me, I understand that there is more to being a successful and happy person than just doing well in school. My happiness depends on my outlook on the world, which is usually positive, because I …show more content…
My friends, along with my family, give me people to confide in, so that I do not have to go through life alone. Then when I need to let off some steam I can play sports, and express myself in my performance causing me to relax. If I were to keep all my frustration and problems concealed inside my head, I am setting myself up to be unhappy. I am at my happiest when I face the fact that I can not control every aspect of my life. Therefore, I let nature take its course knowing that I tried my hardest and that is all that I could do. I grew up hearing my parents say that if I try my hardest they will be proud of me. I have kept these words with me and will continue to while I go through life, for it gives me a peace of mind. Happiness is one of the driving forces in my life. I say this because if I am in an emotional state, I think of what I can possibly do to come out the happiest in this situation. Happiness is a goal for me because that means I am content in my situation and not overwhelmed with what is happening around me. I avoid becoming overwhelmed by looking at the good outcomes that are possible in every situation, instead of focusing on what could go wrong. As long as I keep my positive outlook I will be able to maintain happiness in my
Mahatma Gandhi one defined happiness as “when what you think, what you say, and what you do are in harmony.” Barring any better definition of happiness from either positive psychologists, self-help gurus, or any other academic source, I tend to think this is a great summation of the definition of happiness. Gandhi doesn’t say anything about how these things make you feel, rather looks at it from a point of view of harmony between thoughts, expressions, and actions. Since one single accepted definition of happiness doesn’t seem to exist, and happiness is different for everyone, this begs the question; how can you increase your own personal level of happiness?
Theme 2: Happiness and the Good Life Work 6: “The Happiness Project Manifesto” by Gretchen Rubin 1. The theme of this work is how to manifest your happiness. 2. This article was written in 1972 when everything was about love and peace. 3.
"A library of wisdom, is more precious than all wealth, and all things that are desirable cannot be compared to it." -- Plato
People travel through life with what seems like a single goal: to be happy. This may seem like a selfish way to live, however this lone objective is the motivation behind nearly all actions. Even seemingly selfless deeds make people feel better about themselves. That warm feeling experienced while doing charitable acts can be described as happiness. But what is authentic happiness? There is an endless possibility of answers to this question, and man seems to be always searching for the solution. Although one may reach his or her goals, there is always still something one strives for in order to be happy. In the book Stumbling on Happiness, Harvard psychologist Daniel Gilbert takes the reader through
The human personality is made up of two parts, Jonathan Haidt, author of The Happiness Hypothesis describes this as “the rider” and “the elephant”. The rider represents our conscious, reasonable thoughts and decisions, and “the elephant” represents all our emotions and gut reactions. Without the elephant, the rider would not be able to make rational decisions, likewise, without the rider, the elephant will become ill advised and its emotions will run rampant. When the rider and elephant work together, it creates characteristics in humans, which Haidt describes as the “inner lawyer”, the “rose-colored mirror”, naïve realism, and the “myth of pure evil”. Every person on Earth has these personality characteristics, and they help us progress through
Within The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt, he mentions that there are two ancient truths concerning how the mind works. The first truth is the foundational idea of the book: the mind is divided into parts that sometimes conflict with each other. The second truth is Shakespeare’s idea about how “thinking makes it so.” (or, as Buddha said, “Our life is the creation of our mind.”) Like a rider, on the back of an elephant, the conscious, reasoning part of the mind has only limited control of what the elephant does. Nowadays, we know the cause of these divisions, and a few ways to help the rider and the elephant work as a better team. We can improve this ancient idea today by explaining why most people’s minds have a bias toward seeing threats and engaging in useless worry. To change this bias, we can use three techniques to increase happiness, one ancient, and two very new.
According to the Dictionary, “happiness is the mental or emotional state of well being which can be defined by others. A pleasurable or satisfying experience.”. Of course that’s true, the feeling of happiness is what it’s scientifically defined as, but happiness is much more than that. Happiness could be a certain sound, a smell, even feeling a certain piece of clothing or a thick warm blanket. People spend hours even years trying to work for what they think is happiness. They work for hours to get large amounts of money, but they never find the happiness their looking for. That’s because happiness isn't materialistic, happiness isn't something you can buy with expensive items. Even though some people believe you can buy happiness, that’s
Happiness: a Human Disease -- An Examination of the Allegorical Theme of Existentialism in the Happy Man
In 1984, the concept of happiness is portrayed as meaningless and that the truth opposes happiness. According to Big Brother and the party, they can only survive by suppressing individual happiness and freedom. People are not allowed to pursue happiness because if they have the freedom they could revolt against the party, and the party wants to control people’s minds and emotions so that they follow Big Brother. Big Brother, though he never appears in the book, he is an extremely important figure. He is perceived as the ruler of Oceania and his image is everywhere, in every telescreen in every room. His image haunts Winston’s life and fills him with hatred. The party controls people through fear. The main character in 1984 is Winston, he
Happiness is a key to everybodys life. Even the most depressed man on earth has a little happiness deep down inside. Its what keeps us striving to fulfil our needs and wants on an everyday basis. There is not one kid who does not get excited over a dollar to spend at the candy shop. What about the feeling of getting a promotion at your job, or even finding the cure for cancer. Being happy is not just healthy, but it is also rewarding for each and every individual. We strive to find anything that will turn a bad day to a good one. Individuals will compromise to attain their happiness. You can not get what you want without giving something first.
The story of the movie The Pursuit of Happyness directed by Gabriele Muccino portrays a family who struggles with finding enough money to pay taxes and afford living expenses. The movie takes a place in San Francisco during the 80s. The two main characters are the father Chris Gardner and his son Christopher, Will Smith and Jaden Smith respectively. Gardner tries to support his family. But every time he attempts to make things better, they always end up worse. Gardner in the story wonders on "how to be happy?" He earns his money by selling the bone density
Success is extremely coveted in the society, however on the path to success, obstacles will stand in the way. Failure is inevitable and the response of an individual towards these obstacles and the failures in their lives determines whether or not they will have success. Failure gives allowance to learn from mistakes and motivates to do better the next time. The Pursuit of Happyness uses lighting, music and camera angles to give viewers an insight into Chris’ journey through the film demonstrating his resiliency, optimism and loving personality. Filmmaker, Gabriele Muccino, uses the protagonist, Chris’ final triumph to illustrate the significance of failure in achieving success.
Happiness is not a strange term to us. We usually use that word to express our feelings in every day. Additionally, more than a word, “happiness” is what we really need and always seek in life. However, finding and understanding deeply its meaning is not easy. The online dictionary, “vocabulary.com” defines, “Happiness is a sense of well-being, joy, or contentment. When people are successful, or safe, or lucky, they feel happiness.” Thus, we always wonder if we are happy or how could we be happier in our life. Happiness, therefore, becomes a goal for everybody.
Psychologists have not located assured causes that lead people to well-being. David G. Myers in his article “The Funds, Friends, and Faith of Happy People” published in the American Psychologist (2000) and Michael Wiederman in “Why It's So Hard to Be Happy” published in the Scientific American Mind (2007), discuss the reasons which lead people to be happy, and the factors which contribute to unhappiness.
In an unofficial poll of students at State University, I found that of the fifty-eight students and one professor, males and females of several ethnic backgrounds and age groups, that I asked the question "What is happiness to you?", all of them had very different physical, intellectual, or emotional motivator for their happiness. Only the