One of the reasons that exacerbates Esther’s disinterestedness about life is the role of men, which impact her life throughout the novel, especially her disillusionment of her relationship with Buddy Willard. As the historical context implies Esther lives in a male-dominated world ruled by double standards, which is the source that drives Esther away from Buddy and essentially all men by the end of the novel. What pains Esther is that Buddy is a hypocrite and that she is, initially, unaware of it. When she first meets him, she adores him from a distance for five years, but soon realises that he is an “awful hypocrite” (49). Esther is unsettled by Buddy’s desire to marry her, and later expresses frustration by highlighting his hypocrisy, since she “found out how he had fooled me all those years and what a hypocrite he was” (58). …show more content…
Upon finding that Buddy was not faithful in their relationship, it demolishes her world of make-believe, established on the foundation of faith (Khan and Dash 281). To Esther’s question, “Have you ever had an affair with anyone, Buddy?”. Buddy replies, “Well, yes, I have” (65). This experience of deceit shakes Esther’s faith in the goodness of human relationship. Esther condemns Buddy’s loss of purity and the two-facedness of this situation. Underscoring the differences between a man’s world and a woman’s world, since women had to be pure before marriage even though men could do as they pleased. Buddy therefore represents the hypocrisy of all men throughout the novel as men do not face real problems about societies inadequacies, since society is in their favour. Therefore, only women are hospitalised in the mental institutions, which is important to show how the male-dominated society locks women, who are not socially acceptable,
Mostly everyone is aware of Mrs. Esther's mental condition but they're not sympathetic towards her. They labeled her as a "certified nut" because she preaches at the ocean waves on the beach. Still, Peter decides to get to know her better that he
Esther admires Jaycee and the fact that she “had brains…” (p. 5). However just as soon as she starts to realise this she is able to find faults in Jaycee and her “pug-ugly look…” (p. 5). Esther is very conflicted, she feels distant from the ideal women as she cannot do any of the things that she should be able to do but when she is given another option she distances herself from this and clings to old fashioned values (Smith, 2010). She both can’t do and doesn’t want to do what is traditional yet she doesn’t want to do what is new. Esther is stuck in the middle in a time where middle ground wasn’t an option. This lack of middle ground is emphasised in (Smith, 2010) which illustrates that society, as represented by the magazines at the time, often depicted women as “good” or “bad” there was no room for a wider realm of
Another common aspect of both the women’s lives is that they both dated Buddy Willard. When Esther began to have a relationship with Buddy, she thought that her relationship with him could go somewhere, that he could possibly be her husband one day. When she is in his room one night, they are talking and having wine, and Esther asks Buddy if he has ever had an “affair”. She expects him to say “no”, but he says, “Well, yes I have” (70). This is shocking to Esther. She thought Buddy was innocent, but he had been pretending the whole time. She tells Buddy to tell her about it, so he doesn’t think it bothered her that he said “yes”. He tells her that while working at this hotel in Cape Cod for the summer, one of the waitresses seduced him, and that’s how he lost his virginity. Esther and Buddy eventually part, but she doesn’t break up with him because he had slept with the waitress, it was the fact that he didn’t
It is obvious to say that men and women experience life differently. In this context of Jewish identity in the pre war period, men and women underwent persecution of varying degrees. Within the Jewish community, the number of opportunities made available for men like Buxbaum are vast in comparison to those offered to a young girl like Esther. From the introduction at the beginning of his memoir, it is known that Buxbaum was able to attend Gymnasium, become a soldier, obtain his degree in medicine, and become a practicing doctor by the time he was 30 years old. From a young age, Esther was denied the chance to study, read, and pursue certain subjects, books, or goals because she was a girl.
Esther admits that “Jay Cee wanted to teach [her] something...but [she] suddenly didn’t think [Jay Cee] had anything to teach” (Plath 6). Throughout the novel, Esther strives to achieve something much more than the average woman. Jay Cee’s masculine essence does not seem to provide any resolution for Esther’s strong desires. This constant encounter with male dominance leads Esther to her breaking point. In a conversation with Betsy, Esther says “‘I wanted to go to the fur show, but Jay Cee called and made me come into the office.’
The Persian Empire is arguably one of the greatest and largest empires ever in the history of the world. It was in place from approximately 550 to 334 BCE in Asia Minor and Persia. Throughout the time the empire was in place there were multiple kings that ruled it changing the cultures of the people living in the empire. The Book of Ester is a book from the Hebrew Bible written during the fourth century BCE that tells the story of a Persian king Achashvairosh. In the story information is given on how Persian Kings were able rule their vast empire for such a long period of time. The Persian Kings that ruled the Persian Empire were able to do their job successfully, deal with problems they faced, and keep their empire culturally vast because
Although she was able to fall in love with Dos and become pregnant by another, nameless man, that does not prevent her from leaving with her husband when he finally arrives. Indeed, admits to her husband that she did love Dos at one time, but no longer, assuring him that, “If I did love another man and was told that you were about to arrive, do you think I would still be here?” (Coelho 295). This is an important subversion of gender constructs in that not only was her husband permitted to sleep around without that affecting his love for Esther, but Esther was
In many ways, Buddy Willard is a dangerous figure in Esther’s life had she been naive and accepting of his propositions. These dangerous traits, however, simply encompass the ideologies which many men believe to be true, particularly in this time period. Such traits are evident in the following events: his ridicule of her poetry, his implication that she should give up poetry when they have a baby and when he unsolicitedly reveals his genitals to Esther, asking if she’s ever seen a man. Though these actions seem disconnected from the masculine gender roles, they are almost direct reflections of the societal norms for men. Creative careers such as poetry tend to receive disdain and contempt from society because they engage with sensitivity which is often associated with femininity. Buddy’s dismissal of Esther’s career aspirations is a reflection of the common male opinion that creative work is unrespectable. Had Esther been naive, she might’ve agreed with Buddy and conformed to the female expectations that she must stay home with a baby. The danger that such ideology poses to Esther’s growth and conceptions about the world around her is evident in her reflection:
“ 'The Scarlet Letter' and the book of Esther: scriptural letter and narrative life” by Matthew Gartner
When Esther first arrives in New York, she doesn't have the same reaction that most of the other girls around her have. She enforces this reaction when she says “I guess I should have been excited the way most of the other girls were, but I couldn't get myself to react.” From a psychological perspective we could tell that something is deeply wrong with her. She is isolating herself from others. According to Saul McLeod, the author of the article called “Psycho dynamic Approach” states that “our behaviors and feelings as adults are powerfully affected by the unconscious thoughts” . This means that unconscious are a product of behaviors and feelings. She is unable to think in a rational way because of her inability to control the balance between her conscious and unconscious thoughts.
While at the beach with Jody, Esther talks to Jody’s friend Cal. Esther and Cal talk about suicide, and Esther asks him how he would go through with it. Cal’s reply was by gun and this upset Esther because she thinks that is a very manly way of doing it. She does not believe that she should go through with something as big as that in a manly way. Once again, her feminism traits are showing through her thoughts and actions. Esther is very ahead of her time when it comes to ideas for and about women. She thinks that they should be independant and be able to do things in whatever way they please. I admire her for her thoughts on women's rights. I also think she is very torn between being her own and being with someone else. I do not think she
To Esther, the world seems quite unfriendly, and the novel documents her desperate search for identity and reassurance. Nevertheless, Esther is intrigued by the world around her, and at the start of the book she is seen with a wondrous outlook on life that is reflected in the metaphors throughout the novel (Coyle). In the first half of the book, Esther is fascinated by the medical practices of her boyfriend, Buddy, as well as by current events in the newspapers and the thought of her own future family. As the story progresses, however, Esther becomes indifferent about life, and she develops bitterness toward everything that appears to prevent her from achieving things she wants (Huf). As Esther’s mental state worsens, the metaphors and similes presented to the reader begin to have negative connotations
Esther was constantly pushed around by men, which was a stereotype in the 1950’s that men controlled the women and were always in charge. Esther had a relationship with a man named Buddy Willard who was expecting that she was just going to marry him. Men believed that they had everything a woman may desire, but actually they did not. Women were forced to marry men because of their fortune or family relations.
The book of Esther tells the faithfulness of one woman and her uncle. It is only one of two books that contain the heroism and bravery of a woman heroine. The story of Esther accomplishes two profound things, the first: “To demonstrate God’s providential care of his people, even those outside the land of Israel, and 2) to commend the observance of the feast of Purim by relating how it originated” (Breneman 289).Unlike the rest of the Bible the story of Esther does not directly state or talk about God, but instead shows God’s plans for all of our lives and how in all frightening moments of life, He remains faithful to those who trust and have faith in Him. “In spite of the omission of any name for deity, there is no other book in all the
Esther’s mother and society’s expectation as a woman, which is to be a good wife and a mother, suffocate and demoralize Esther’s dream as a professional writer. Esther’s mother wants her to “...learn shorthand after college, so I’d have a practical skill as well as a college degree” (Plath 40). Her mother believes that Esther cannot further advance her education as a writer and simply wants her to be a secretary since professional career for women was uncommon and discouraged because it disturbs the role as a married woman. These pressures often obliged her to fall into the societal expectations, to give up her higher education, and to marry somebody. However, she knew that the marriage and the babies were not for her, “because cook and clean and wash were just about