What Is The True Purpose of Relationships?
By Yol Swan | Submitted On September 29, 2013
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Expert Author Yol Swan
Did you know that relationships are eternal? They reflect the energetic ties and karma to be played out incarnation after incarnation, as we carry them along on our soul journey. In truth, we 've been meeting pretty much the same souls over and over, trying to heal our wounds and learning to relate with love and compassion for one another, or at least enough detachment to break any toxic or painful bonds.
Sometimes we meet them for just a moment and sometimes we maintain relationships that last years, depending on what we 've chosen to work on. This is why you may feel an instant connection or attraction to some people, as well as an aversion toward certain individuals, and these may include family members that you are supposed to love. Indeed, close family members are the ones we usually share the most negative karma with! Yet we need to experience those painful relationships to resolve old emotional patterns and tendencies, to grow and evolve.
Relationships are complex and multi-layered. On one level, they connect us to the world,
Fairy tales tell us that once upon a time a girl met a boy; they fell in love, and lived happily ever after. Reality is not that simple. Long-term relationships force couples to get to know each other, involve themselves in each others’ worlds, fight through the hard times, and eventually develop deeper connections as noted through distinctive stages of Knapp’s relationship model. Although I have dated the same person for over two years, our communication through relationship stages makes it seem as though I am now dating a different person than the one I met years ago. Following dissolution and subsequent repair, I realize the most exhilarating of roller coaster rides develop through sets of ups and downs, much like the
That changed while I started to grow older and I started to learn that relationships is just a word. A word to depict how objects have a connection to another object, whether it be a person, place, or thing. As I grew older I started to go through a period of development and self-discovery. A relationship comes with development and self-discovery because it's not just about the word it is about what forms and shapes those bonds. It is a continuous learning curve that is constantly teaching us about ourselves and what we want in the world. My relationship in the world is both immense and intense. When I shape a relationship, I am making a commitment to those that I meet and for the things I have and will protect. Having a connection with others are what make me upbeat and happy. For all the new friends and family, I will never stop forming bonds with those around me. As time progresses I will never end my bonds with those I meet, even if I only see them once. Nothing ever ends in a relationship, once it is formed you will always remember the person, moment and
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There is a variety of relationships that a person experiences in a lifetime. A relationship is something that connects two or more people emotionally, mentally or physically. Relationships can be with family, friends, a significant other, and co-workers. Some relationships can help boost self-confidence and self-worth if the relationship goes well or ends well. Although some relationships can tear a
Why do we form relationships? In chapter 8 we find out that in relationships one aspect can be related to the appearance of someone. As well how proximity to an individual can have a great impact on the way a relationship will develop. One must also take into consideration how one's similarities will make a relationship stronger and last longer. It also goes to how one may eventually terminate a relationship that is no longer working.
A relationship can greatly affect a person’s motive or values. In “Appointment in Samarra” the merchant and his servant have a good relationship this is shown by the merchant giving his servant a horse to help him “avoid his fate” as well as when the master speaks to death about his servant (Maugham). In “Incident in a Rose Garden” the master spoke to death about threatening the gardener to which death replies that he didn’t threaten the gardener, he only wanted to be shown to his master and says “I take it you are he” allowing the master to learn of his intentions. Some relationships can cause something good to happen. In “I Know Why The Caged Bird Sings Mrs. Flowers relationship with Marguerite helped Marguerite because she was respected for “Just being Marguerite Johnson” and she was given a task by Mrs. Flowers that transformed their relationship into a friendship (Angelou 245). Mrs. Flowers relationship with Momma allowed Momma to ask Mrs. Flowers to give Marguerite a “little talking to” helped Marguerite find her voice (Angelou 245) Other relationships can be destructive and detrimental. Lizabeth and Miss Lottie have a destructive relationship this is made evident by Lizabeth calling Miss Lottie an “old lady witch” and by beheading the marigolds that Miss Lottie Grows (Collier 413). Eckels relationship with Time Safari, Inc is a rather detrimental one because Time Safari, Inc does’nt care about Eckels health or government rules they pay “big graft” just to have their franchise (Bradburry 38). Depending on the type and strength of a relationship a person’s motive can be easily changed or
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“The ultimate goal of romantic relationships is to establish a long-term relationship culminating into marriage” (Gala & Kapadia 2014). This is the belief that was instilled in me since I was a child. When I started dating, I had a few relationships that ended after a few months. My parents would continuously ask me “Why date someone if you have no intention of marrying that person?” However, I was young, marriage was the last thing on my mind. My reasoning was that if I liked the boy, and the boy liked me, why not date?
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The idea of relationships discussed in this chapter is based on the concept of personal fulfillment. Taylor
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“What is love? Baby, don 't hurt me. Don 't hurt me no more” (Halligan 1993). These well-known lyrics sung by Trinidadian-German musician Haddaway describes a relational situation in which one side of the relationship is hurting the other individual in some way. Humans crave love and affection yet at times this craving can goes as far as becoming infidelity in a committed relationship. Relational maintenance is a major part of a romantic relationship and McCornack (2013) states, “Relational maintenance refers to using communication and supportive behaviors to sustain a desired relationship status and level of satisfaction” (p. 300). However, when one half of the relationship decides that they are unsatisfied in their current relationship the darker side of relationships shows and betrayal and deception can occur. The following will analyze one family from the movie Love Actually (2004) and how self-concept, betrayal, and deception occur in their relationship.
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