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What Makes You Who You Are

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What really makes you who you are? Wait no a better question would be, who really makes you who you are. I believe that the single biggest factor in what made you who you are today is your family and close friends. Yeah there are things like smarts or how well you remember things, but almost everything else about you is from your family. A person's outlook on life is influenced by their family's choices and actions that are related to them. Their actions and reactions to things are a result of the beliefs and moral compass of the people around them. Almost everything you know about yourself comes from or was started directly or indirectly by your family. For instance, when you were a kid, didn’t your family put in place rules to keep you from doing things you probably shouldn’t have, well that is an instance of them giving you a sense of right and wrong. Another example would be if one of the rules was to not break anything, they just established that breaking things is bad and that people who do it should pay for it. Similarly, another example would be that they told you to hold the door for people or say please and thank you, that's an example of them giving you manners. Family members can often influence you by not even teaching you right and wrong. If they let their kid do whatever they wanted and didn’t punish them for it, then that person can become greedy or emotionless when presented with a punishment because they don’t understand why they are being punished.

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