An Abundance of Questions and Events An abundance of people thinks where we are from, or how much money we have are determining who we are. The real answer is not answered by just one question. It is composed by diverse questions and events. They all form who we are. One of those questions involves relationships. Relationships determine who we are. Situated on the balance of the relationship, listening and being honest and how arguing is handled. To begin with, all relationships will end up with damages if one has power over the other. A one sided relationship was used as an example. It is a type of relationship where one has power over the other. It can create a feeling of entrapment. A “hostage” in a relationship. Especially if the other partners feeling does not mirror the other. In the story, “What of this Goldfish, Would You Wish?” Written by Etger Keret, the character Sergi kept the goldfish hostage. He used his last wish as a kind of advantage in the relationship. My personal experience comes from my sister. She would constantly be trapped in similar relationships. She would feel like she could …show more content…
It can be physical or mental pain. Hiding things from the other partner can cause several events to happen. The other partner could feel as if there is something hidden from them. Causing distrust to grow in the relationship. The problem will only acquire worse results. No one will intervene if no help is asked for. In the short poem, “Without Title” written by Diane Glancy, the father tries to hide his fatigue. He also tried to hide how he felt about the new change. He does not tell anyone, but his daughter notices. I have personal experience from a similar situation. I would try to hide the stress from schoolwork. I did not want to worry my parents, so I kept it from them. Eventually they noticed, and helped me. In conclusion, partners in a relationship are required to listen to each other and be
This lab was conducted with the purpose of confirming the trait of homeostasis among goldfish. During the experiment, it was recorded that the fish would increase gill movement when placed in colder water two out of the three trials. However, the results showed no significant difference in gill movement in various temperatures of water. This has very little effect on the broad field of science since our only three trials were performed and may have included human error in the trials.
The short story “What, of this goldfish, Would You Wish?’ is a emotive short story
In this experiment, an oxygen-measuring probe was attached to an oxygen chamber in order to quantify oxygen consumption rate, which served as a substitute measure for metabolic rate. The oxygen-measuring probe provided real-time measurements of dissolved oxygen (DO) concentration present in the chamber water. The oxygen chamber was sealed to create a closed system so that over time, the oxygen levels would decrease as the goldfish respired and consumed the oxygen present in the water. The software LoggerLite was used to record real-time DO concentration measurements.
Unit 1 ties into the theme of tolerance and the acceptance of others, as Barbara Jordan said it, “We, as human beings, must be willing to accept people who are different from ourselves”. Whether it was the short story What of This Goldfish, Would You Wish? Or the newspaper editorial The American Flag Stands For Tolerance, the pieces dive into and explore the issues of acceptance among others.
Who am I? This question asked so often suggests that there is actually a reasonable answer. Almost as if our own personal being were a fixed thing. Generally, people who ask this type of question are usually struggling with their identity and thus are looking for something to make sense of themselves. The irony is that the more you seek to identify who you are, the more you are exposed to being fragile. Some people spend their live looking for an answer that could possibly satisfy them but still never find anything. The main focus shouldn't be on discovering who you are but on considering the social influences that have affected you.
Complete authority and disloyalty in a relationship can create an
A person’s identity may be determined by him/her family background and this is proven evident in the essay “Private and Public Language” by Rodriguez. We live in a world in which identities are determined prematurely without hesitation. This means that even without getting to know an individuals personality the first thing that is done instead is determining identities based on your physical state, family, or family background. As a culture we live in a diverse environment in which the majority of people come from a different place, and as a result many are identified differently depending on where he/she and their family are from. Today’s culture is more diverse than ever, and more and more people are migrating to different countries and settling so I feel like it
Acceptance is trusting, having confidence, and be welcoming of others. Being able to accept people with an open mind may be difficult at times but depending on our experience and the way we have come to be it can sometimes be very natural. In the three texts, “What, of This Goldfish Would You Wish”, “The Lottery”, and “American Flag Stands for Tolerance,” the author’s focus on the way we interact and relate with others. This quote, “We as human beings, must be willing to accept people who are different from ourselves” said by Barbara Jordan, demonstrates how everyone should be open and willing to accept those who are different and not to discriminate against others.
Identity, the fact of being who or what a person is, shapes a large part
The effects of a bad relationship can lead to many problems in your life. It can lead to bad mental health, attitude problems, loss of people close to you, your physical health, and more.
There are many factors that shape us into who we are, and who we will become. Some of these factors we can control, while others we cannot. While we are born into many traits of our identities, much of our other behavior is learned. My identity, for example, is “based not only on responses to the question ‘Who am I?’ but also on responses to the question ‘Who am I in relation to others?’” (Allen, 2011, p. 11). My identity and the question of who I am, are both influenced by many aspects of my life, including my hometown, my family, my friends, and my beliefs and moral values.
We decide how our peers come to a conclusion about us. For example, why do people I am
It is usually a challenge to choose between the devil and the deep blue sea. Ordinarily, one has to consider one’s values as well as preferred consequences in order to make the better or best choice. In the short story, “What of This Goldfish, Would You Wish?” by Etgar Keret, Sergei Goralick faced a similar conundrum. As an aloof Russian expatriate fisherman in Jaffa, Israel, his only company is a magic three wish-granting fish. But having impulsively murdered Yonatan, Goralick had to decide whether to use his last wish to save the boy or keep his magic goldfish companion. Though he would have preferred the latter, Goralick made the better choice saving Yonatan as it matches his established humaneness and the consequences attached were more reasonable.
Much of individual self-perception is based on aspects of who I am that I had little to no control over; a middle-class Anglophone female from white Germanic heritage born in Edmonton Alberta, but grew up rurally, raised in the catholic faith. To the best of my understanding, these static aspects of who I am is similar to the Cree understanding of the roots of a person’s identity (Martineau 2016). A person’s roots influence what outlook they have toward the world and how they react to events; providing the background to aid how a person grows from their experiences. My perception of self, while guided and influenced by my roots is constantly being shaped. The presence of roots may be a static structure but the formation of identity is not something static forcing you to think and act in a certain way, instead, it influences your opinions and what options you may consider (Lawrence 2003). While I understand the working levels of my own perception of self I find it difficult to explain exactly how I see myself, and even tougher to explain how I believe others do. I choose to believe that my identity shows through my actions more so than based on my roots. Others may have similar root systems, but understand things in a different way than I do based on personal experiences that have shaped who I am (Martineau 2016). These similarities are akin looking through the
Its easier to identify someone else, rather than ourselves. You may think you know yourself, but in reality you don’t. However, family does helps you define yourselves because they’re the first people that has an influence on you. I on the other hand have a completely different story. I’m completely different from my family, so the typical race, religion, gender, does not define me. I tend to identify myself through a hybrid identity (two or more cultures influencing one), volunteer work, and chronic illness because I find these things to be unique and more important than the basic answers you would get. So welcome to the world of Rameen, were everything is but the ordinary.