When Death Is A Part Of Life

They used a hard vocabulary to contain the terrible softness. Greased they 'd say. Offed, lit up, zapped while zipping. It wasn 't cruelty, just stage presence. They were actors. When someone died, it wasn 't quite dying, because in a curious way, it seemed scripted, and because they had their lines mostly memorized, irony mixed with tragedy, and because they called it by other names, as if to encyst and destroy the reality of death itself. "

Hardships that might prompt distress to incorporate the death or departure of a friend or family member, loss of a vocation, demise or loss of a cherished pet, or any number of different changes in life. Anybody can encounter melancholy and misfortune. However, every individual is extraordinary by the way he or she acclimatizes to these attitudes. In dealing with grief counseling, it can be described and understood as a form of therapy that explicitly focuses on the goal of helping individuals grieve and address their personal loss in a manner that is not only healthy for them but the people around them. To work through difficult feelings, thoughts, and memories that have to do with an associated pain of an individual is the goal of a grief counselor. Many of these strains and types of loss can include goals, ideals, and relationships. There is a process of grieving that many individuals do not understand, this can lead to many problems for that individual because the process is something normal to go through to cope with the given issue. Some of the symptoms that a person may go through are emotional numbness, disruptive sleep, short temperateness, lack of eating, and depression just to name a

The life transition of death and dying is inevitably one with which we will all be faced; we will all experience the death of people we hold close throughout our lifetime. This paper will explore the different processes of grief including the bereavement, mourning, and sorrow individuals go through after losing someone to death. Bereavement is a period of adaptation following a life changing loss. This period encompasses mourning, which includes behaviors and rituals following a death, and the wide range of emotions that go with it. Sorrow is the state of ongoing sadness not overcome in the grieving process; though not pathological, persistent

Death is inevitable. It is one of the only certainties in life. Regardless, people are often uncomfortable discussing death. Nyatanga (2016) posits that the idea of no longer existing increases anxiety and emotional distress in relation to one’s mortality. Because of the difficulty in level of care for end-of-life patients, the patient and the family often need professional assistance for physical and emotional care. Many family caregivers are not professionally trained in medicine, and this is where hospice comes into play. Hospice aims to meet the holistic needs of both the patient and the patient’s family through treatment plans, education, and advocacy. There is a duality of care to the treatment provided by hospice staff in that they do not attempt to separate the patient’s care from the family’s care. Leming and Dickinson (2011) support that hospice, unlike other clinical fields, focuses on the patient and the family together instead of seeing the patient independent of the family. Many times in hospitals, the medical team focuses solely on the goal of returning the patient back to health in order for them to return to their normal lives. They do not take into account the psychological and spiritual components of the patient’s journey and the journey that the family must take as well. For treatment of the patient, Leming and Dickinson agree that hospice does not attempt to cure patients, and instead concentrates solely

A loss is something most people find difficult to deal with. A term commonly used to refer to loss is been bereavement, which is the position of having lately departed with someone important in one’s life through death. It is normal in the human world to experience such a loss and people ought to know how to manage such experiences when they do happen. Bereavement is never easy; it is a period that individuals experience too much suffering that leaves them feeling vulnerable. Some people are also at risk of developing physical health and mental problems. It can take months or

Loss is a phenomenon that is experienced by all. Death is experienced by family members as a unique and elevated form of loss which is modulated by potent stages of grief. Inevitably, everyone will lose someone with whom they had a personal relationship and emotional connection and thus experience an aftermath that can generally be described as grief. Although bereavement, which is defined as a state of sorrow over the death or departure of a loved one, is a universal experience it varies widely across gender, age, and circumstance (definitions.net, 2015). Indeed the formalities and phases associated with bereavement have been recounted and theorized in literature for years. These philosophies are quite diverse but

Death is a universally experienced phenomenon. In the United States alone, over 2.6 million people die each year (Center for Disease Control and Prevention [CDC], 2015). For practitioners, it is of utmost importance to better understand the process of grief to develop better interventions for bereaved individuals.

It is nearly impossible to go through life without losing a loved one. The overall experience is traumatic. As horrible as it sounds, it is necessary to move on after the loss of a loved one. Failure to receive closure and focusing on the grief of loss can be detrimental to one’s mental health. In fact, between twenty and thirty percent of 27,534 people surveyed said that the “unexpected death of the loved one” (Wood) was the most traumatic experience they had.

Grief is the act following the loss of a loved one. While grief and bereavement are normal occurrences, the grief process is a social construct of how someone should behave. The acceptable ways that people grieve change because of this construct. For a time it was not acceptable to grieve; today, however, it is seen as a necessary way to move on from death (Scheid, 2011).The grief process has been described as a multistage event, with each stage lasting for a suggested amount of time to be considered “normal” and reach resolution. The beginning stage of grief is the immediate shock, disbelief, and denial lasting from hours to weeks (Wambach, 1985). The middle stage is the acute mourning phase that can include somatic and emotional turmoil. This stage includes acknowledging the event and processing it on various levels, both mentally and physically. The final stage is a period of

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross, (2014), a Swiss-born American psychiatrist, introduced concept of providing psychological counselling to the dying. In her first book, On Death and Dying (published in 1969), she write about the “five stages of grief”, they are denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. based on her studies of the feelings of patients facing terminal illness, and have being generalised to other types of negative life changes and losses, such as divorce, loss of property or job, and offered strategies for treating patients and their families as they negotiate these stages.

Loss of a significant person can be caused through death, divorce, desertion, separation, abortion, stillbirth, and rejection (Simos 2000). Loss can be permanent, temporary, anticipated, or feared. Simos states, death is the ultimate loss because it is final, and complete (2000). Goldsworthy (2005) explains how loss is experienced not only through death, but also through changes that we encounter throughout the rich tapestry of life. Nancy and Charley, believes their daughter’s, Rena, behavior deteriorated following the death of her great-grandmother, and allowing her to live in the apartment alone at the age of thirteen, after both great-grandparents passing.

The loss of a loved one is a very crucial time where an individual can experience depression, somatic symptoms, grief, and sadness. What will be discussed throughout this paper is what the bereavement role is and its duration, as well as the definition of disenfranchised grief and who experiences this type of grief. I will also touch upon the four tasks of mourning and how each bereaved individual must accomplish all four tasks before mourning can be finalized. Lastly, with each of these topics, nursing implications will be outlined on how to care for bereaved individuals and their families.

A loss is something most people find difficult dealing with. A term mostly used to refer to loss is bereavement which is the position of having lately departed with someone important in one’s life through death. It is normal in the human world to experience such a loss and people ought to know how to manage such experiences when they do happen. Bereavement is never easy; it is a period that individuals experience too much suffering that leaves them feeling vulnerable. Some people are also at risk of developing physical health and mental problems. Adjusting can take as long as a few months up to years depending on the individual in question.

The passing of a loved one is a universal experience and every person will experience loss or heartache, at some point in their life. Some people obviously appear upset, some do not, grief is individual, dependent on; age, gender, development stage, personality, their normal stress reactions, the support available, their relationships or attachments, other death experiences, how others react to their own grief around them (Thompson & Hendry, 2012).

To begin with, after discovering her power Maddie was constantly reminded of death each time she looked at someone, forcing her to learn how to cope with it. After a few years, the Flynn family came to a conclusion that Maddie has the ability to see a series of digits hovering above the forehead of each person she encounters. At first, they did not know what these digits meant, until the shocking death of her father. Once discovering that the digits matched up with his final day, Maddie continued to live her life trying to accept the fact that she couldn’t prevent his passing. This constantly saddened Maddie when thinking of her father. Maddie implies, “It can be pretty hard to deal with, so, a few years ago I started a notebook where I’d