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A Teenager’s Struggle With Identity and Other Pressures Expressed Through Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?
During the 1960s, American youth challenged conventional lifestyles and customs. They protested the strong materialism in American society, encouraged new ways of life, and disputed known traditions including sex and marriage. Rape was one of the most serious feminist issues emerging at the time. Women began standing up for their right to behave as sexual beings without being seen as a sexual objects. An analysis of Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been? by Joyce Carol Oates through the historical and feminist lens, suggests that the story is about how teen girls of the 1960s are trying to define their values through the culture …show more content…

by Joyce Carol Oates through the historical and feminist lens, suggests that the story is about how teen girls of the 1960s are trying to find themselves within the culture of the time, torn between the emerging values and the old, more conservative ideals, while also battling the expectations placed on them as women. As I read this story, I interpreted it as a teenager’s struggles in the transition to adulthood. I immediately connected with it because I believe Connie is a complete mirror of my own life and those of many others my age. She represents the struggle of exploring identity and having your only escape from reality being the joys brought from music. As a teenager, I relate to Connie’s struggle of finding herself. Some may think it was Connie’s fault or her flirty nature that led to her being seduced by Arnold Friend, but I strongly oppose this. I am repulsed by these thoughts because it’s as if they are saying I have the same fate coming for me. Almost every critic who writes about this story describes Connie as a lazy and superficial girl who was “punished” at the end for her actions but every one of these critics are adults. Adults don’t seem to remember the struggle of maturing. Connie is merely exploring herself and trying out things that may interest her. In this society, she isn’t aloud to explore her newfound sexuality, the beauty of music, and the discovery of life without being judged or labeled by everyone. She has merely reached the age where freedom and adulthood are in sight and tries to grow up too fast. All in all, I believe that Connie was a complete victim. She was taken advantage of at a difficult time in her life and was led to believe that life is all fun and games when in reality, the world turned out to be cruel and dangerous. In the end, the real world consumed her in the form of Arnold Friend, confirming the fears of me and many other teenagers

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