In the book “Things Fall Apart”, one of the main characters Nwoye is verbally and emotionally abused by his father so he doesn’t end up like his father. Okonkwo (Nwoye’s father) believes that he is very sensitive and effeminate, and he doesn’t want his son to be like that. Nwoye is basically an innocent child who is hated on because of his interests and how he acts. Nwoye gets an adopted little brother eventually and he tries to put away his “womanly” side so he can be a good role model to him, but he is unjustly murder by his father which makes Nwoye hate him even more, because he got rid of something he cared and loved greatly. After that Nwoye turns to Christianity to get back at his father. More than any other character, Nwoye encapsulates
Because of the lack of acceptance from his family, especially his father, he is forced to make a choice between his new culture, or his loved ones. He chooses to leave, and when ask by his father’s friend, obierka, Nwoye says [quote about Okonkwo not being his father]. Okonkwo doesn’t take it well either stating to his children [the thing about them being dead to him or something]. This action shows Nwoye’s willingness to value his new faith in Christianity over his own blood. His troubling past with his father and sense of belonging makes it easy for him to change his life for the better by leaving. The missionaries offer Nwoye a better alternative to the oppressive life he is living, which gives him peace of mind as he leaves his family behind. In the wake of Nwoye growing up and struggling to find himself, he managed to go through a cultural shift and completely change his identity. As some Ibo people also choose to convert also, the missionaries gain more and more power over the village. Things begin to fall apart for the Ibo clan as they are divided because of the forces within themselves. The village of Umuofia is ultimately destroyed because of the split between the people living there. Although Nwoye never felt quite in the right place before, he finds peace of mind in his new sense of self, and easily forgets his past to start a new and better
In “Things Fall Apart” Nwoye is the oldest son of Okonkwo. Nwoye willingness to accept to the cultural collision shows how others react to those who were willing to accept the change and why they were okay with the change.
““Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armour yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.” --George R.R. Martin, A Game of Thrones. Nwoye’s sense of identity was challenged with the introduction of Western Ideas into the Ibo culture. Nwoye started out as a weak boy, in Okonkwo’s eyes, in the novel. He spent most of his time with his mother, he was very emotional, and he was betrayed by Okonkwo when he killed his best friend, Ikemefuna, however, the cultural collision of the British colonists and Ibo people affected Nwoye to the point that he eventually switched over to Christianity. He became a missionary and had a major fallout with his father and ended
Nwoye’s father, Okonkwo angered by Nwoye’s conversion felt that Nwoye had disgraced his elders and his family. Moreover, found himself saying that he was cursed with a Nwoye for a son and that he was just like his grandfather Unoka. “How then begotten a son like Nwoye (Achebe 146).” Nwoye had finally felt free from his father’s stubborn and violent ways when he converted to Christianity. Also in the meantime destroyed any father-son relationship that Okonkwo and Nwoye had but Nwoye was not bothered by the hate from his father.
In the book, Things Fall Apart, there was a warrior from the Umuofia tribe whose name was Okonkwo. Even though he was a great fighter his temper leads to his demise. This aggressiveness not only affected him, but his entire family as they were sent off to exile for seven years. During this period Nwoye, the oldest son, realizes that the experience in exile even though extremely difficult benefitted him far greater than he could ever anticipate. While there he was able to reflect over his life up to that point and the time allowed him to consider the path he might wish to take from here. Most of his life he struggled with becoming a man and the laws of his clan. Nwoye’s challenging and eye opening experience in exile helped him to realize another way of living which he seemed to find more purpose.
Nwoye doesn’t think that violence and taking control of others is manliness. Nwoye’s father is disappointed in him and regretful of Nwoye being his son because of this difference in between their thoughts. Anyone with this problem would be pushed towards negative feelings. This is why Nwoye looks for another culture that would allow him to fit in.
Furthermore, when values that seem more align with someone's are brought to their attention it causes them to leave behind the values they were born with. Throughout Nwoye’s life he is continually under his father's scrutiny. It is clear that Nwoye is his own person and not simply following in his father’s values. As he goes into adulthood and is brought forth with the values of Christianity it calls to him. When the missionaries came Nwoye:
Identity (īˈden(t)ədē) is the fact of being who or what a person or thing is. We all have different ones, but we struggle to find it or to be sure that we found it. An example, if it is in Chinua Achebe's book “things fall apart.” You see this in many charters but you see it in Nwoye. Nwoye’s sense of identity is challenged with the missionary’s come and there to teach their ways to his village, but the cultural accident of the British colonists and Ibo people affect Nwoye to the point he changed his religion. The reasons for those contained within him, not fitting in at his home, his disturbing experiences with his dad murder his best friend also. Ultimately their response to there to the introduction of western ideas shaped the meaning of the work as a whole by showing the negative effects the Ibo cutler had on him and the positive effects the new religion had on him.
The cultural collision involved with the novel caused Nwoye to convert to Christianity, and helped him find his sense of freedom. Freedom to him meant belief in his religion and culture without restraints or barriers. By restraints and barriers, what is being talked about is the acute drive for power that Okonkwo drilled into Nwoye’s life, and how he had to live by the “typical man’s” lifestyle. “Nwoye did not fully understand. But he was happy to leave his father. He would
We see evidence from the text when Okonkwo found out about him joining the missionaries an when Nwoye came home his father tried to kill him and Nwoye walked away. This evidence supports my claim because it helps to understand Nwoye’s reason for being in the missionaries and his feelings. The second reason Nwoye’s sense of identity was challenged with the introduction of Western ideas was because of him not feeling appreciated from his father because of the things he do. We see evidence from the text when Okonkwo was talking about Nwoye not being a man and that he’s lazy he also feels ashamed to have him as a son.
In this book, Nwoye seems different than everyone because he had higher goals and wanted to do something different with himself. His dad was a farmer and a well respected warrior, but he didn't want to follow in his footsteps. This feeling was stronger after his dad killed his brother who was taken in from a different village due to a deal that prevented war between the two villages. Even Nwoye's dad liked his brother because he left such a good impact on Nwoye. I think he chose Christianity because it seemed more real to him than the religion he grew up with and it was different than what everyone else he knew was doing. The leaders that order killings and such in the villages are looked at like gods, and they ordered the death of his brother.
Nwoye attempts to please his father by rejecting feminine ideals and undergoing frequent beatings. Nwoye learns to change his ways and grow up at an early age. He does this because Okonkwo’s tribal beliefs of gender roles that cloud Okonkwo's thoughts
Chinua Achebe author of Things Fall Apart illustrates a change in Nwoye when the white missionaries arrive in their clan. Nwoye grew up in a strict household with an abusive father, but he would soon find his courage and identity in an unlikely place. But Nwoye soon found courage in the missionaries.
The Christian church had finally won him over with their answers to questions he had been asking his whole life. All that was left was to cut the ties with his old life, with his father. But his father was the one to make the first move. After learning of his sons visit to the church Okonkwo grabbed him by the throat in a misguided search for a reason why. “Nwoye struggled to free himself from the choking grip” (page 151) Even when he has fully lost his son to the new religion, Okonkwo still tries to use violence to mold his son into what he perceives a man should be, which illustrates the nature of their relationship. It had always been fueled by anger on Okonkwo's part and fear on Nwoye's. It takes people screaming at him to let his son go for Okonkwo to finally give up, but this attack was the last straw and he was finally able to free himself of his father. "But he left hold of Nwoye, who walked away and never returned.” (page 152) Though Okonkwo did not learn from this experience, Nwoye did. He learned that his father's violence and anger could no longer control him, and that there was an escape available, though it was an escape to another culture that he most likely did not fully believe in either but at the very least, this one did not have Okonkwo. "Nwoye did not fully understand. But he was happy to leave his father."(page 152) Okonkwo's goal had always been to make Nwoye 'manlier' as he was afraid of the shame having a feminine son would
Furthermore, Okonkwo’s fear of being weak and resembling his father, forces him to act without compassion, and he suffers the “loss” of his son, Nwoye. Like Unoka, Nwoye is effeminate and sensitive. After Ikemefuna dies, Nwoye notices that he feels the same as when he saw twin babies left to die in the Evil Forest, “Then something had given way inside him [Nwoye]” (62). Nwoye is an innocent child who is baffled by the cruel rituals of his clan. He loses respect for Okonkwo and the traditions of his clan. He is unable to forgive his father for killing his adopted brother and unable to forgive his clan for allowing Okonkwo to do so. When the missionaries come to Umuofia Nwoye is intrigued by Christianity, a better way of life, where he feels relief. Strict and inflexible, Okonkwo is angered by Nwoye when he finds out that he converted to Christianity, because Nwoye abandoned their ancestors and he thinks the missionaries are effeminate. Later, Okonkwo tells his five other sons of Nwoye: “You have all seen the great abomination of your brother. Now he is no longer my son or your brother. I will only have a son who is a man, who will hold his head up among my people” (172). Okonkwo disowns his eldest son, Nwoye, because he betrays the clan. Okonkwo’s inability to be compassionate and understanding, drives Nwoye away, and he loses his eldest son.