Who Is The Best Friend?

945 WordsSep 28, 20154 Pages
You know that person you’ve had a crush on for a long time, but it never seems to go anywhere? That one person who you find very attractive and amusing, whom you spend a better part of your day with, but go relatively unnoticed. Well, you my friend are in the friend zone. This is probably one of the most frustrating situations you’ll ever encounter. Nevertheless, no matter what you do they just never seem to understand. It’s almost as if they didn’t appreciate your effort. They just always seem to view you as just a friend. I notice you might just be waiting for them to realize your attraction to them, but this is the real world, it’s probably never going to happen without you taking the initiative. Lets face it, this isn’t an episode of…show more content…
For example, I have a friend who is a very gorgeous girl. She’s a smart girl with an amazing smile, who could probably have any guy she so might choose. But, she friend-zoned almost everyone who showed any attraction towards her. Sometimes, these were guys that all the other girls really wanted to date, but she just didn’t. There 's a simple reason for this she only liked tall dark-skinned guys. Whenever, any guy who didn’t fit that description, she would be friendly and smile, but never show any attraction. There was no in between, it wasn’t a maybe this guy is nice, it was plain and simple. No ifs ands or buts. That doesn’t mean there aren’t any exceptions, but usually if you are not her type, she will not like you. Just like it is with most other people, can’t force yourself on someone. You’re doing something wrong. (Hint: There’s actually hope.) First things first, you have to break the "nice guy" or "sweet girl" stereotype. Most people who find themselves in the friend zone usually put another’s interest in front of their own. These people generally try to avoid making other people uncomfortable, usually at their own expense by not communicating their own needs. As a result, the other friend will see you as someone to always talk to because you make their needs of utmost importance. This shows your lack of confidence, and confidence is an attractive trait. Therefore, you may have placed yourself in the friendzone. Yes, I
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