Most women at one time or another have gotten a little annoyed with their bras. Whether it is an underwire sticking out, a strap that keeps getting twisted, the struggle to find a bra which fits right or just the overall uncomfortable nature of a bra, most women have at one time really not wanted to wear a bra. One woman, Gabrielle Moss, did something about her annoyance with her bra. When she transitioned from an office job to freelance work, Moss went braless for a week. Because Moss had spent most of her adolescence and young adulthood going braless, the transition was perhaps easier for her than it would be for some women who have worn a bra daily since puberty. In the beginning, things went well. As she completed her final day of work and her …show more content…
Over the next few days, Moss ran errands braless. She purchased coffee, got seltzer and bought a caulking gun, all while in her braless state. Unfortunately, it was walking the streets around her neighborhood where Moss began to feel less comfortable with her braless state. She noticed men looking at her, clearly noticing she was not wearing a bra. As more and more men on the street started to stare at Moss’ chest, she began to feel self-conscious and embarrassed about not wearing a bra. She said she did not like the looks, which seemed to imply that the men found her naïve or that reminded her of the creepy looks she got from some boys when she was a teenager. After a week, Moss reluctantly went back to wearing a bra, deciding wearing a bra was better than the street harassment she would otherwise continue to face. While Moss eventually conformed and started wearing a bra again, not wearing a bra might actually be beneficial for some women. In 2013, Professor Jean-Dennis Rouillon, a French professor at the University of Franche-Comté published the results of a 15-year study involving 330 women between 18 and
Brumberg makes the claim that the more physical freedom that women enjoyed, escaping corsets and such, the more control over they would feel pressured to exert on their internal body (98). The most prevalent way then, as well as now, to exert control over the one’s own body was through dieting. Dieting, bras, and standard sized clothing were all contributing to the increased control over the body. Even doctors began to weigh in on the proper way to shape healthy breasts and prevent unattractive sagging (through wearing proper bras). Once again, girls and their bodies were the subjected to more American commercialization. Brumberg points to the craze of body piercings in the 90s as the latest way to control and sexualize the female body. Chapter five explores the changing worth of female virginity in the different values placed upon an intact hymen. From being jointly owned, never talked about, and fiercely protected, to being a female’s own worry, freely talked about, and medically altered, we see the way differing sexual morals shifted the way the hymen was
Kelley names articles of clothing she knows the audience is wearing at that particular time. No matter what social hierarchy the women are categorized in each of them own a pair of socks, stockings, and/or underwear. This makes a vital realization in the hearts of the women. Now the women feel guilty. All of their life they have been wearing “little beast” clothing. This creates a sense of guilt that will make the women want to rally together and abolish child labor.
Because the story is through the point of view of a guy, I have had the special opportunity to gain insight on how males think. Ben says to his dad, “Dad, you really need to get a plumber in to sort out that bathroom.” To which his dad replies, “I am a real plumber” (Easton 57). Note here that his dad is, in fact, a mechanic. He basically assumed that since cars have a hydrolic system that he knows a thing or two about plumbing for houses. Before reading those lines I had assumed that men, just like women, would call in a professional whenever there was an issue they couldn't solve. Another thing I got to digest through my vigilant reading, is how guys think about girls. Before I give an example from the text I would just like to say that I already knew the clichés about male thinking, however, I like to give people the benefit of the doubt. “It was Megan Hooper- or Hooters, as Joz calls her for obvious reasons which I probably don't need to spell out” (Easton 11). Wow, thanks for that. It really is nice to know that the defining feature of a girl is her bust, not. Side note here, Joz is one of Ben’s mischievous friends. Literally 95 percent of my hope for all men went out the window after Ben revealed that little tidbit. Everyone, I should think, hopes, at some point in their life, that stereotypes are just precedents that are meant to be broken. Consider my faith in broken stereotypes
In this novel, one could say that the main character, Carrie, is ‘not like other girls’— she’s overweight, with greasy hair and uncontrolled acne. In fact, the novel notes that her excess weight resulted in part from the bullying when her description states that “she felt so miserable…the only way to fill that…hole was to eat” (King 39). She doesn’t have many friends and is the complete opposite of a ‘Cosmo Girl’. In the words of the school coach, “She [had always been] the group scapegoat” (King 21). From her description in the novel, a reader can see that in terms of gender and gender roles, she was not very “feminine”. In 1981, the Journal of Sex Research came out with a study that categorized the results of certain combinations of “low-feminine” preferences in a household could affect it. In the case of Carrie’s household, according to the study, one could characterize Carrie’s bible-thumping mother as having “low-feminine identification”, as she often took the masculine role of disciplining her child. Carrie also had “low-feminine identification”, seen by her carelessness of her appearance. The study falls parallel to the argument that women propelled their own anguish as it says that “A frustrating and rejecting mother, one who keeps her distance between herself and her daughter, may cause such weak
This binary relationship manifests itself in Levy’s work in another way, as well. Toward the very end of the book Levy claims she has no complaint against women who do gain genuine sexual pleasure from “their vaginas waxed, their breasts enlarged” (Levy, 198). On one hand, Levy recognizes that sexuality is personal and that everyone’s own experiences and preferences are unique. Yet at the same time, by drawing the line between “authentic” and “fake”, she must impersonally interpret these experiences in order to classify them as “problematic”. This desire to judge yet not judge women’s sexual nature represents an underlying tension within the book that threatens to unravel her arguments.
The author of A Pair of Silk Stockings explores female roles based on what other people believe due to stereotypes. In this short story Mrs. Sommers finds $15 which is a sizable about of money to her in New York. She and her family are on the poorer side of New York. At first Mrs. Sommers has no clue on what she should do the money she had just come to. She is thinking about her children and that they could use new skirls because she had seen a beautiful new pattern in a market window, or caps for her boys and sailor-caps for her girls (Chopin 1). She thought of them due to the fact that that is what mothers and wives do in the 1800’s, they but their children and husband before thinking of themselves. She thought back to the time when she wasn’t
This quote accurately depicts why the 70’s trends were a wonderful time for women to express themselves with the bell bottom trend & why it’s coming back today
Despite being looked at in a certain way, Women are being portrayed as “going exactly where their mothers and grandmothers have already ‘been’: into sexual bondage at the hands of a male ‘Friend’” (Christle 1). This is showing how even though women are changing the way society works, some people still want it to be the same. In the story Connie’s mom wanted Connie to be like her and her sister, just the average, not overly pretty looking lady. Some people think that “women have been silenced,” (Spelman and Lugones 574) but Connie had other ideas, she wanted to be different from them. She was constantly looking at herself in the mirror and thinking about what others were thinking about her. When she went out, she would always wear nice clothes that would get her noticed. Looking through a feminist lens one can conclude that Connie’s family sees women now as they always were.
After reading “The Naked Bosom,” it is evident there are specific course concepts that can help someone better understand this short story. To begin, when Mr. Palomar first notices the naked woman on the beach and immediately looks away from her, he illustrates one of the norms, or expected behaviors, of our society. Mr. Palomar knows, through culture and socialization, that it is not socially acceptable to look at a naked woman, even if it is at the beach, so he looked away. Secondly, when Mr. Palomar doesn’t want to bother the naked woman with his presence, he actually shows her the curtesy of civil inattention, or the idea of giving people privacy in public spaces. Mr. Palomar knows that if he were to go and approach her, the naked woman
Gernreich believed in creating garments less imbued with decoration with a focus on how the garment looked in motion. Often accredited with the invention of unisex, Gernreich used clothes to challenge conventional notions, the liberation of the female body was one of his strongest statements. The invention of the No Bra, bra,
I had noticed that from about two months in, her enthusiasm began to wane progressively. She no longer seemed to care, but I was hoping that she still did.
And then she turned to me. I felt special that she had saved me for last. I smiled at her, and she did the same to me. We had grown inseparable over the past few years especially, but now it was time to say goodbye. I knew at that point that nothing at all would change, that we would still be sisters, still be best friends, still be inseparable. Who cares if we’re 5 ½ hours away? This was us.
As you begin Beauty (Re) discovers the Male Body your read of author Susan Bordo spilling her morning coffee over a shockingly sexual advisement of a nude man. Initially, I rolled my eyes and settled in assuming, I was going to read about the tragedy of how men are now being objectified and exposed in adverting like women. As I flip through the pages looking at the scantily clad images I’m not really shocked; this essay was written fifteen years ago; I see these kinds of images going to the mall. What was shocking, however, was how Bordo a published, woman philosopher born in 1947 wrote about these images. I felt myself blush as I read “it seems slightly erect, or perhaps that’s his nonerect size, either way, there’s a substantial presence
For the last 4,505 years, women have tried to enhance their figures by squeezing themselves into restricting, and uncomfortable garments. Waists have been reduced and bust lines have been increased, decreased, flattened, lifted or spread out, depending on what was fashionable at the time. The modern brassiere and its predecessors have not only been known for their functionality, but have also been linked with statements of fashion and politics.
Doris Lessing’s "A Woman on a Roof" allows us to understand how some men view woman: as mere objects for display and possession. Lessing shows how each of the male characters reacts and deals with rejection from a woman sunbathing on a nearby rooftop. We discover how three men’s preoccupation with sex keeps them unaware of how their advances may be unwanted and ignorant of their action’s possible consequences.