Yesterday I learned something new. Everyday here in the United States as an international student, I speak another language than my native one, French. I learn something new everyday, with a new way to express myself, by being far away from my family, and by making my own decisions. Personally, I consider myself in the process of becoming an adult. Afterall, aren’t we all growing everyday in some kind of way? It might be a little foolish or biased, but I do believe everybody has a space to grow and something to learn, every single day. From that perspective, I will compare two movies that shows some kind of growing within masculinity in 21th century. Les Intouchables shows the process of growing up as being responsible for another person, while Once Upon A Time shows the process of growing up by understanding another’s emotions, which suggests that Les Intouchables claims that the process of growing up is a development that is being forged by a contemporary society with different social classes, while Once Upon A Time argues that the process of growing up is coming from our own interpretation and the ability to understand another’s action and perspective. The French movie Les Intouchables shows the process of growing up as being in charge of another individual. Bruce, who comes from a poor black neighborhood with a lot of violence and bad influences, is having a job tryout to be the helper of Philippe who is a paraplegic and a wealthy man. He is constantly in a wheelchair
The Up Series documents the lives of fourteen children in a longitudinal study. The filmmaker interviews these fourteen individuals every seven years to examine how their lives progress over time and to examine how their socioeconomic status affects their life. In this paper, Suzy will be examined from age 7 to age 56. Over the course of the Up Series, Suzy’s personality and priorities changed dramatically in almost all of the aspects of her life. From the small bits and pieces of her life that were captured and shown on the series, the course her life could have taken could have been much different. Her story shows that one life event can change the course of your whole life. In the end Suzy was the poster child of how one life event can change the rest of your life. She is not necessarily the poster child for wealth, prosperity and privilege that the series paint her to be. Initially, she was because that was the type of person the filmmaker wanted to portray her as. However, in the end, she was successful at portraying herself very differently. It took her many years to do so, but she was able to do it. By the end of the series, Suzy changed the way she portrays herself, and much of this change has to do with the life events she has experienced. She experienced being a resistant child and young adult on the series, losing a parent at a young age, finding a successful marriage and experiencing financial instability. All of these events happened at an age the made her grow
There is a moment in every child’s life where he or she realizes that growing up is not as desirable as they once thought. Before this moment they fantasize about not having a bedtime or driving or finally being able to drink. But then they feel the weight of the adult world with its responsibilities and restrictions of a society that doesn’t value the individual and expects its citizens to morph into mature, controllable adults. This is the time parents hate, the time when their children try to rebel or run away to escape their future as adults, but time, alas, cannot be outrun. The adult world expects many things of its inhabitants—a job, a family, taxes, sex, and much more. Unfortunately, most young adults feel as though they will be
Fight Club, a 1996 novel by Chuck Palahniuk, and a 1999 film, follows the life of an unnamed narrator: a mediocre, male, white-collar worker who is disappointed with his boring life and suffering from insomnia. Along with insomnia, the narrator’s real, underlying problem is that he has a second personality, Tyler Durden, and an addiction to violence that is getting extremely out of hand. The protagonist finds relief from his struggle with insomnia by imitating a very ill person in numerous support groups, where he meets the bold and reckless Marla Singer. Marla and the narrator’s individual femininity and masculinity are dependent on the other. The narrator cannot be masculine, while Marla exhibits excessively masculine traits; Marla cannot
Many people want to grow up quickly, they wish to be on their own as soon as possible, but the process of growing up can be as challenging as climbing Mount Everest. In A Separate Peace, Gene Forrester, a teenage boys struggling with self-doubt, is a prime example of this. Year after year, people are met with inner turmoil on who they are and what they stand for, moreover, the transition between adolescent to adulthood only increases complications with identity.
The term “coming of age” does not always refer to the obvious state of adulthood. It does not always coincide with society’s definition of an adult and adduces more to the psychological and moral growth of an individual. In life, experiences and influences are said to be the factors that help in developing ones character. Things that on the surface may not seem to have lasting effects are usually the most impressionable of situations. Though personality traits derived from cultural experiences are often seen early on in life, they can continue to develop and evolve even into adulthood. And it is in adulthood where realizations are made subsequently due to these very situations. It is also apparent that age does not always commensurate with maturity, for with maturity comes understanding. Influences also play a major role in a person’s character development. Influences also can affect temperament, personality, disposition, motivation, and initial perspectives and reactions. This sagaciousness was thoroughly expressed in the novel Song of Solomon by Toni Morrison. This novel delved extensively into the coming of age of main character Macon “Milkman” Dead.
It is proposed by Kimmel that there is a deviance from the normal growth of males into adults and it has shown a growing deviance for several decades. The attitude of youth before adulthood appears to be prolonged within certain groups of young men in present society. There is no clear standard on what it means to become a man. There is also no set belief in what is means to be masculine . The outcome of varying opinions and beliefs on the matter creates a void where males are stuck between boyhood and manhood. The males found in this social arena lack most responsibility that their counterparts are beginning to have. Due to this attitude and way of thinking, these boys are able to disregard the traditional sense of work and relationships.. There is an adoption of the “boys will be boys” belief that creates a timeline for boys to excuse certain behaviors. What Kimmel refers to as “guy land” in reality is a time and place that it’s inhabitants can use and abuse substances in a social setting and also have promiscuous sex without the care for consequences..
Growth is a strong component that symbolises how the human condition can be shaped to become today’s society’s perception of moral standards through generations; this is clearly represented through the film’s change between the teenagers of the 1950s and the 20th century eras.
“The Graduate” is a coming of age story as the film attempts to relay a message of an innocent boy being pushed in an unwanted direction through a society filled with expectations. It focuses on the development and the maturing of the young college graduate and his journey from being in the world of a child to adult. It captures what it is to be young, restless, skeptical and confused. It is reflective of a time when no one has any idea what the future has in store. It is Benjamin’s notion of the uncertainty of reaching adulthood, he struggles to accept this transformation and the idea of how frightening the future really is.
Fruitvale Station is based on a real life event. A tragedy occured in 2009 on New Years day at the BART system in Oakland, California. The film follows Oscar Grant, a 22 year old man on that day, preceding to the event. It shows the trouble Oscar has gotten himself into in the past, such as being imprisoned. The strong bond he has with his family and friends is on full display throughout the film. Oscar makes steps towards bettering his life. His daughter being a strong focal point on him trying to change and turn his life around. His character shown extensively throughout the day. At night, Oscar goes to celebrate the New Year with his girlfriend and a few other friends, when an unfortunate incident on Fruitvale Station leads to his untimely death.
Also to reinforce gender roles in the 1950’s femininity and masculinity were fair from equal with one another. No truer way for a husband to prove his manliness and sense of worth by decking out his prize wife like a Christmas tree. One of the oldest social statuses was the trophy wife lifestyle. Male machismo achievement was the males work, and the women cook, clean, and make babies. Page may feel about husbands glossing up their wives by saying, “Lavish spending was "symptomatic of the superfluous life-style of the rich.
During the teenage years, several points of passage marked a young man or woman’s integration into the
Growing up and learning to be an adult is part of everyone’s life. Emotions run rampant with love, anger, and uncertainty. Short stories Araby by James Joyce and A & P by John Updike create perfect examples of coming to age experiences which individuals can relate to. The array of emotions and hardships we experience throughout youth aid in creating a culturally advanced and diverse society.
Over the course of 60 years, the development of identity and the social self for modern Western adolescents has gone through a great deal of change while also carrying some continuity throughout. Comparing both films ‘Rebel Without a Cause’ (1956) and ‘Boyhood’ (2014) the different characteristics and familiar traits of that are experienced through the journey of adolescence. The role of Gender from the 1950’s onwards has created a great influence on how modern, western adolescents develop their interpretation of their position in society, creating a sense of identity as well as the rights and responsibilities that come with their gender. Seen in both ‘Rebel Without a Cause’ and ‘Boyhood’, many rites of passage are noticeable in regard to how
In the fall of 1989 a book by Robert Fulgham was published, the title being All I Really Need to Know I Learned in Kindergarten. In this book Fulgham lists lessons: simplicity, less stress, and more happiness. These three simple life lessons can help us through any problem we have in our day to day life. And these lessons that we learn at such a young age can help us through any challenge.
THe film AMerican Beauty was reviewed to help explain Erik Erikson's theory on psychosocial development. The psychosocial developmental theory consists of eight stages that humans go through from infancy up unto a mature adult over 60. While watching American Beauty several stages of psychosocial development were portrayed. The biggest takeaway from this movie showed that one may fail in order to overcome Erikson's psychosocial development. The stage that was most observed was the identity vs role confusion, during this stage according to our textbook “Adolescents ask themselves “Who am I?” They establish sexual, political, religious, and vocational identities or are confused about their roles.” (Berger, 2017 Table 2.1) Upon reviewing American Beauty I will include examples of the different types of behaviors demonstrated that reflect a particular stage of development or crisis in their life.