Women And Male Victims Of Abuse Face Essay

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“I will never forget the day I decided to leave my ex-wife,” said a 57-year-old abused man. “I walked in the front door and she threw a frying pan at my head and started screaming at me. My son was five at the time and was watching this all happen, he had a terrified look on his face, and at that point I knew it was time to leave”. This man has chosen to remain anonymous due to the shame and stigma that many male victims of abuse face. An individual might wonder what would provoke this type of behavior, well the man telling this story explained to me that he had to work late that afternoon and didn’t get home at his usual time, which upset his wife. Scholars offer different interpretations of the relationship between gender and abuse. Some studies indicate women are abused more than males while others show there is not much difference between the numbers of male and female victims. Scholars also argue that treatment should focus on women whereas others think men should have access to the same facilities. This essay will argue male victims of abuse face unique and substantial disadvantages when seeking help from police, domestic shelters and other groups because of defective statistics and perceived gender roles. To ensure that men and women both receive the treatment they need, gender stereotypes must be challenged, and the government should fund shelters that house men only.
The United States Department of Justice defines domestic violence as “a pattern of abusive

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