You Can Lead a Horse to Water, but You Can't Make It Drink

Dr. Crabb’s book “Effective Biblical Counseling: a Model for Helping Caring Christians Become Capable Counselors,” (Crabb, 1997), breaks problematic areas up into two categories. The first categories are those resulting from natural or physical causes. The second is composed mostly of problem that are essentially moral. It has been said by

In everyday life people experience difficulties and problems that they feel they are not able to deal with on their own and need help with. The help that people receive to overcome their problems can be in many different forms. People may receive help in an informal way, such as having a chat to a close friend or relative, who can offer support and advice or they may seek help in a more formal capacity from various helping professionals, such as counsellors, social workers, psychiatrists, doctors, etc. For all of these professionals it is their

In order to get a better understanding of what is needed in the present time, we must first learn and understand how and why people of the western culture helped others through human

"What is necessary to change a person is to change his awareness of himself. --

There are times where trying to help others, social capital with purely with good intentions, fails to benefit someone and so society is not enhanced. If the person, who fell on bad times, you are trying to help chooses to not make any effort to recover from it, then there is nothing to be done to truly help them. The expectation is that he will endeavor situate himself back to self-sufficiency to

This journey will not be a easy task, but I am determined with ambition and dedication to helping those who seek guidance. The smallest gestures can have the most significant influence on someone’s life whether it means helping a student with their homework, or gathering ideas for a group project. “The best way to not feel hopeless is to get up and do something. Don’t wait for good things to happen to you. If you go out and make some good things happen, you will fill the world with hope, you will fill yourself with hope,” as stated by our President. Acknowledging the difference in one’s behavior because you’ve provided them with something they once didn’t have, should make a difference to you. The fondness of knowing that I’ve helped at least

Obviously, the narrator’s attempt of showing genuine compassion with the incongruous and indigent man ends up with an utterly adverse upshot, due to the protagonist’s oppositely wealthy past in the upper class. Apparently, he has his own way of behaving properly due to sophisticated customs and manners, which is the reason he rejects the help form the narrator. In conclusion it is exceedingly essential not to carry out precipitate endeavors to help people. Help has to be offered and given in a proper

Then she smiled. That warm smile full of memories you forgot were tucked away…Miinibaashkiminasiganibiitoosijiganibadagwiingweshiganibakwezhigan. Blueberry pie. I still can’t pronounce that word all at once like Mom did. She laughed when she finally managed to say it. I can still see the smile that spread across her face when she told me about her Koko.”-Shaelyn Johnson page 2. This quote illustrates how loved ones can help one to change. Mae’s mother needed her encouragement and pressuring as it made her change her unhealthy mindset. Loved ones are often the ones who give people the will to change and get out of an unhealthy mindset. People need a push to be started on a journey of change and becoming a better person as one often lacks the motivation to do it alone. Evidently, for a person to flourish and undergo a metamorphosis, small or large, a helping hand from someone is needed. Whether the journey is learning a new language, like Mae, or changing your outlook, like Mae’s mother. It is human nature to need mentorship and guidance, whether one is young or old.Because of this fundamental need in humans, people all need help to flourish and

The book addresses issues of: - confidentiality, welfare of help seekers and counselees, justice, benevolence, non Malefiscence, competency, integrity, respect for rights and dignity of help seekers, boundaries of

Giving the individuals support, leading them to a better road. Giving them opportunity, changing for the good then just giving up on the first time. Not everybody is perfect, or getting it right at the first try. I agree with Rodriguez propose, because I was once in a gang without the help from the community I wouldn’t be here writing this paper to better my education and future. My community had a lack of support for it individuals, many of these individuals are in prison, street or eight feet underground. Some lucky individual, like me were able to receive little support from the community leading us in a better road. Now that the community had given us a little bit of support notice that if they wouldn’t of support us more and other individuals they wouldn’t be so much conflict in our society.

In the case of Sheila, we learn the unethical and unprofessional issues that we as counselors never want to institute. It is absolutely important for counselors to be properly trained in cases that need sensitivity and understanding of cultural differences. Otherwise, we may impose our own values onto our clients without the intention to do so. It is essential that therapists are aware of their own beliefs and values in order to better serve their clients so that the professional is not bias towards those seeking help. If someone is not confident in a situation that concerns their clients well-being, seek supervision for further assistance. In the following essay we will review different codes of ethics that relates to Sheila’s case with her client, Brendan and how to execute them as professionals in the helping field. Sheila was dismissive and insensitive when Brendan shared his spiritual values to her, which ultimately caused him to leave their session. Here we learn how a counselor should carry themselves in cases such as this.

Some people don’t have the services that they need in order to live a normal life. Everyone response to life transitions differnetly some people might need someone who can listen to them, and not judge them. Having options on how to resolve a problems and having control of your life can help people get on the track of living a better life, teaching them how to solve future problems and be self-dependent is also important. Being a helper in the Human services career will not be an easy job and it will be stressful and frustrating at times. But learning how to be patient, and letting the clients decide what they want in their life is important. I have learned that nobody is ever perfect and sometimes we require help from other to get back on track. What I will promise to all my clients is that I will not give up on them and I will be there to listen to them and maintain myself neutral, and not tell them what they should do. I will always remember to give them options because at the end it their life and they are the ones who are in control of there

Nobody really can get through life without help, eventually along the way there is something thrown our way that we cannot deal with alone. When you look back at one of the most confusing and unfair times in the world's history, the Holocaust, you can see that this was true for all of the families affected. George Gottlieb, Krystyna, and Elie Wiesel all needed help from upstanders on their road to surviving the Holocaust,and without it survival would have been nearly impossible, these are three different cases that all have one glowing similarity, that being the contributions of others to help them fight the persecution, and from all of these testimonies we can draw something that should be applied today.

-Ask for help no matter what, and do not judge those who ask for help!

Workers in the helping professions endure a massive amount of ethical and professional issues. These issues affect the practice of counseling and the relationship with the client. The book Issues and Ethics in the Helping Professions by Corey, Corey, and Hallanan gives many themes that one will encounter throughout their career. The book also gives possible solutions to problems and stimulates different ways to think about issues. The authors of this book provide good knowledge and information for anyone in the helping professions.