Alcoholic Anonymous and Al-Anon Groups
Nicole P. Thompson
SWK-339
Coker College
Professor: Jean D. Keefe
April 13, 2009
Abstract
Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and Al-Anon groups have helped a lot of people become sober, and to deal with an alcoholic family member. It takes a lot for a person to first admit to having a drinking problem, and then share their experiences with a room full of people. If they want help, that is what they have to do. Research on two AA meetings provided a lot of knowledge and understanding. Alcoholic Anonymous and Al-Anon Groups
The purpose of this research paper was to attend two support group meetings and share my experiences. The meetings that were to be attended were an Alcoholics Anonymous
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The smoke in the room was so bad that some of the observers were wiping their eyes.
After the preamble, the Twelve Steps were recited by an AA member. These steps are basically what the members live by to become and remain sober. The first step is: We admitted we were powerless over alcohol-that our lives had become unmanageable. This step is the hardest because we all live in denial when it comes to admitting our wrongdoings to others. It is even harder when it is something that we like to do.
Everything that was recited aloud was done by a different member of the group. The Twelve Traditions, The Promises of the Big Book of AA, the Thoughts of the Day, Meditations, and the Daily Reflections followed. After a member read or spoke, they were thanked by the other members in unison.
Everyone went around the table and introduced themselves by first name and then stated that they were an alcoholic. We, the observers, also introduced ourselves and the reason for our visit out of respect. That was a little special to me.
The time for sharing was next. The chairman asked that it be five minutes or less, and not use obsessive profanity. Several people did go over the five minute mark, but there was no obsessive profanity. The subject was God or a Higher Power.
The first member stated that the meetings are what keep him going. When he runs into a problem he prays to God, who is his higher power. He says that when he prays and
Alcoholics Anonymous relies on a twelve step base towards recovery. These 12 steps have a spiritual background towards them but the founders encourage alcoholics to take what they wants from these steps that will help them and leave the rest. These 12 steps include:
This paper will try to explain the different views of how and why Alcoholics Anonymous and other 12-step programs are accepted and rejected as effective tools in treating alcoholism and other addictions. The articles reviewed contradict the others’ opinion. First, we see that supporting the 12-step programs with a degree of involvement both the doctor and patient will see better results in treating the addiction. The second view will show that 12-step programs can be used as “self-help” treatment and must be used in conjunction with other forms of rehabilitation. When AA and other 12-step programs are not used with other forms of treatment, the patient tends to become codependent on the group.
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Alcohol Anonymous was founded in 1935 and offers a twelve step program to help individuals kick the addiction. Fellowshipping with other alcoholics, sharing troubles of the addiction, and having a sponsor has shown to help addicts in their recovery process. Most counseling treatment centers focus on teaching a healthier lifestyle, overlooking the importance of the socioeconomic structure (Nikelly, A., 1994).
During nursing we have been subject to take care of many intoxicated patients and rarely are we given the opportunity to see them heal outside of the hospital. The group that was chosen was an Alcoholics Anonymous group in Rapid City, SD. The group experience took place on June 15, 2016 at 5:30 pm at their 325 Deadwood Ave. location. AA is a private organization that focuses solely on recovering alcoholics they are member ran groups that do not accept any outside funding and stay un-opinionated about any outside events. The main focus in AA is to make all alcoholics feel welcome and for membership all that is needed is a desire to stop drinking.