The poem “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” is about an extremely insecure and anxious man who is expressing his worries and concerns in his life. He feels cut off from society and emotionally distances himself from people around him, especially women. He is doubtful of his appearance and, therefore, is very introverted due to his embarrassment and uneasiness. This poem is a depiction of how he experienced his life while battling his anxiety and depression. Prufrock first mentions his appearance in line 40 where he says, “With a bald spot in the middle of my hair—(They will say: ‘How his hair is growing thin!’)” A few lines later, he says, “They will say: ‘But how his arms and legs are thin!” (line 44). People have most likely commented …show more content…
He expresses his feelings of estrangement from society and the women in that society. Prufrock feels as though he does not belong to the world as he is. In line 73-74, he even goes as far as to mention that he believes he “should have been a pair of ragged claws / Scuttling across the floors of silent seas” (lines 73-74). In the article “Apprehensive Alfred: A Character Analysis of J. Alfred Prufrock” by Lea Isbell, she mentions that nearing the end of the poem, he appears to identify more with mermaids than a human, and this becomes clear with the use of “we” when talking about the mermaids: “We have lingered in the chambers of the sea / By sea-girls wreathed with seaweed red and brown” (lines 129-130). I agree with her interpretation of these lines because at this point in the poem, it appears that Prufrock is suggesting that he wishes to break free of the society that he has been cut off from and not only to live among the mythical beings, but to become one as well. He has a fear of rejection when it comes to women, so he will simply not ask a woman out for the fear of being told no. He constantly asks, “Would it have been worth while?” throughout the poem when ultimately, he has decided that no, it would not. It appears as though he has completely given up on trying to fit in with society despite the fact that he is constantly worrying what people are …show more content…
The time skips and backtracking through the poem hints that his depression could have been affecting his perception of reality and the flow of time as he perceives it. He is constantly worrying about time and repeatedly tries to assure himself that he has enough time to accomplish what he wants (which in this case is trying to get a lady), despite the fact that he “grow[s] old” (line 120). When he mentions that he is growing old, he is finally saying that he missed his chance to ask the question. Because of that fact, he decides to make a lot of miniscule decisions to try to bring humor back in and maybe make himself feel better. He decides to wear the bottom of his trousers rolled and asks if he should part his hair behind, which tells that he is basically trying to laugh off the fact that he messed up and wasted his time. He fears reality as a whole and tries to escape with the thoughts of mermaids and mystical concepts. In the last line of the poem, he has given up and it is apparent that his false reality crumples when he says, “Till human voices wake us, and we drown” (line
Prufrock is very insecure about himself. This is especially seen in the first ten lines. He is insecure when he talks of his
Prufrock focuses on her physical appearance as well mentioning her scent and does not say anything about her personality. He goes on and on about how he is possibly in love with her, but he doesn’t love her he just likes the idea of having someone to care for and being cared
A fear of rejection by society remains a prevalent idea conveyed in “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock.” Throughout the poem, the disillusioned speaker, J. Alfred Prufrock, expresses his fixation upon appearances. He expresses concern over other people sneering at “how his hair is growing thin” (“The Love Song” 41) or “how his arms and legs are thin” (44). Prufrock shows apprehension of receiving poor judgement from “eyes that fix [one] in a formulated phrase” (56). This fear of rejection, however, is also seen in the allusions.
He feels if he were to challenge the universe, he would disturb its equilibrium. Prufrock says that he is terrified of “The eyes that fix him in a formulated phrase” (Elliot 56), suggesting that he is filled with insecurity and fears judgment and criticism from others. He feels like he is inferior to those around him and will never be able to live up to their expectations. Prufrock accepts the fact that he will always be rejected and brushed off by women.
Eliot shows Alfred Purfrock as a titular character a few different ways through out the poem. I believe for hims to be an award sort of fellow due to the irregular rhyme of the poem. He also appears to be nervous and over thinks situations this is shown in his analogy of measuring the meaning of his life with spoons. He lives in the shadows of ignorant women who speak of Michelangelo. He speaks of Prince Hamelt towards the end of the poem, “No! I am not Prince Hamlet, nor was meant to be” (Eliot p. 654). Prince Hamlet was the titular character in “Hamlet” by William Shakespeare, a man who was also indecisive and hesitant, though could be impulsive at times. Alfred shown to have low self-esteem by the quote, “When I am pinned and wriggling on the wall” (Eliot p. 652) he overthinks situations, especially social situation, fearing what people will think of him. Throughout the majority of the poem he exhibits social anxiety and the thought he would "disturb the universe.” Prufrock compares his need to express his feelings as if he was Lazarus who came back from the dead…a little dramatic if you ask me (Eliot line 94-95). Yet, we see him assume the worse sinario and the girl response to him is one of confusion.
As time goes on, many people grow and learn better ways to handle problems in their lives. Some people are unable to grasp these skills and find time is moving on without them. Many people, except J. Alfred Prufrock, may find this to be an incentive to improve their life in various ways. Those who do not feel motivated to improve could experience changes in his or her goals and aspirations that will negatively affect his or her life. A lack of social skills, especially with women described J. Alfred Prufrock, a man suffering from a mid-life crisis in “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” written by T.S. Eliot. The poem started off with Prufrock taking the reader on a journey, but it turned into a monologue of his inner thoughts pertaining to
The monologue style of “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock,” is interesting because it doesn’t clearly identify whether or not the speaker is talking to another person or his inner self. A monologue is like a conversation, but uses the language of poetry. This particular dramatic monologue tells the story of J. Alfred Prufrock, a man who is so wracked with insecurity and worried about how others perceive him that he is afraid to live his life.
Unlike other forms of literature, poetry can be so complex that everyone who reads it may see something different. Two poets who are world renowned for their ability to transform reader’s perceptions with the mere use of words, are TS Eliot and Walt Whitman. “The love song of J Alfred Prufrock” by TS Eliot, tells the story of a man who is in love and contemplating confessing his emotions, but his debilitating fear of rejection stops him from going through with it. This poem skews the reader’s expectations of a love song and takes a critical perspective of love while showing all the damaging emotions that come with it. “Song of myself”, by Walt Whitman provokes a different emotion, one of joy and self-discovery. This poem focuses more on the soul and how it relates to the body. “Song of myself” and “The love song of J Alfred Prufrock” both explore the common theme of how the different perceptions of the soul and body can affect the way the speaker views themselves, others, and the world around them.
When reading the title of T.S Eliot’s “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” it is believed we are in store for a poem of romance and hope. A song that will inspire embrace and warmth of the heart, regretfully this is could not be further from the truth. This poem takes us into the depths of J. Alfred Prufrock, someone who holds faltering doubt and as a result may never come to understand real love. “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” takes us through Prufrock’s mindset and his self-doubting and self-defeating thoughts. With desolate imagery, a tone that is known through the ages and delicate diction we see a man who is insecure, tentative and completely fearful.
"The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock" which was written by T.S. Elliot, is a very calm and relaxing poem. Using its docile tone, the poem helps speak to the reader about many things, whatever it may mean for the reader. The poem is all about how one man searches to find his meaning in life as well as his existence in this world. Throughout the poem the author uses literary devices such as imagery and tone which help convey the lonely theme of this peaceful poem. This poem starts out by inviting the audience to go with the speaker of this poem. He begins by taking them on a journey of self-examination and starting this journey is the phrase “Let us go then you and I”. It then is followed by “When the evening is spread out against the sky” and
The Story of Prufrock starts out with him deciphering with himself if he should make this “change” in his life; he has always been a loner who only observes the world, instead of joining it, but
“The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by T.S. Eliot is not a love song at all—but an insight into the mind of an extremely self-conscious, middle-aged man. Prufrock struggles in coping with the world he is living in—a world where his differences make him feel lonely and alienated. Eliot uses allusions and imagery, characterization, and the society Prufrock lives in to present how Prufrock partly contributes to his own alienation. Our ability of self-awareness separates us from other species, making humans more intelligent and giving people the upper hand in social settings, but, like Prufrock, it can sometimes cause us to feel alienated.
Prufrock’s love story is less of a love story and more of a confession. He is confessing that his idea of love is a very brittle concept of the actual thing. Prufrock goes on and on in the song listing his imperfections. His confessions as he listed them seemed as if he was having an anxiety attack he just kept on spilling more and more distasteful information about himself. Prufrock “in a state of distress or crisis—reveals more about himself than he appears to intend” (Johnson), He seemed to get more and more anxious as his song went on. Prufrock was being a tad bit over dramatic, “He worries about losing his hair and losing the youthful muscle in his arms and legs, which drives him forward to do what he set out to do, and yet he hesitates because of the suspicion that the situation is not entirely drastic” (Napierkowski). Prufrock love story represents what misery a lot of men go through “He is an antihero confronting the sterility and threat of the modern world, unable to act and frustrated by pseudo intellectuality and impotence—both his own and that of the women who "come and go / Talking of Michelangelo." (Johnson). Prufrock understands not everyone is perfect and people do come and go, but the fact that it happens hurts
“The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock” by T. S. Elliot is a poem that tells a character’s story with the use of emotions and imagery. The character J. Alfred Prufrock is first introduced as taking a walk and describing the surroundings such as vacant streets and dreary sights. Women are also introduced as talking about Michelangelo. The setting is covered in a yellow fog that stretches over every detail of the town. Prufrock’s emotions at first seems to be confident with the ladies. As the poem progresses, Prufrock is seen more as an average middle-aged man, but also a sad honest man. He seems to stick to a routine and does not stray from it much. His bland personality is not much of an appeal to the women, thus making him pathetic. In “The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock”, T.S.
Alfred Prufrock” , we soon realize the title has nothing to do with being a “love” poem, but the fear or his paralysis around social and sexual anxieties he deals with, it quickly reveals the central message affirming his social rejection and lack of initiative. For example, the part where he describes “his arms and legs as being thin, and hair growing thin” both give us a picture of how insignificant he feels. His paralysis is deeply rooted in his sexual anxiety as we read when he tries to avoid the confrontation with the woman he seeks, by saying that there will be plenty of time for him to try again. Because time does pass so slowly for Prufrock, he feels that he will have plenty of time to overcome his fears.