I was a child in middle school in the adolescent stage living in darkness,like a flower bud,that hasn't bloomed.I was a novice,I didnt know what I wanted.As I was laying in bed,I took a deep breath until suddenly, boom!...It was like a lightbulb that popped out of my head and shined me with reality.I finally knew what I wanted and the steps it takes to get there. A decision that changed my life. There I was in the 7th grade full of energy and a plethora of friends.But of all of my friends there was one that stood out.He was my best friend.We did our work together,played sports together, And played videogames.I would almost consider him like a brother,up until one harrowing day.It was was a normal day at school with fresh scent of cinnamon and green apples.I guess thats what they use to spray the hallways.I entered my science class and sat at the table I …show more content…
I saw people volunteering,getting jobs,participating in their student council etc, while I started getting so shy that I couldn't even ask the teacher for help when I needed it.I was stuck in my enclosure and dug myself so deep in the hole that I couldn't get out of it.Until I met new friends and started to trust again. I figured out that I couldn't get out the hole myself so I needed people to help me get out of it It finally hit me that I could not reach my dream without aquiring the social skills and building connections.So I decide to picture my dream and making it reality. I need to present myself in front of people and say what needs to be said!but how can I do do that if I could not even go up to someone and say…”Hi”.So I decided to build bonds again.and do whatever it takes to live my dream of being a happy middle class
After a month, I started to become someone I wasn't; making friends with the wrong people and group. They weren't even my friends, I was just another person that made the group bigger, I was invisible to them. Wanting to be like them, I pushed people away that wanted to be my friend because they weren’t “cool” enough. My “friends” became less and less friendly towards me until we stopped talking. Wandering the halls alone, I realized I needed to be myself and not act fake.
At the time, I had many friends but no classes with any of them. I felt lost and anxious because I didn’t know anyone around me. Eventually after a few weeks, I gained a couple of close companions,
Conduct Disorder is a behavioral disorder and it is usually diagnosed during childhood or the teen years. Children with this disorder tend to have a disruptive and/or violent behavior. Children may also have trouble following rules. The behavior is diagnosed as Conduct Disorder when it is long-lasting. Common symptoms of Conduct Disorder are aggressive behavior such as fighting, or harming others or animals, destructive behavior such as intentional destruction of property, deceitful behavior such as lying, or violation of rules. Children with Conduct Disorder may be irritable or have low self-confidence, they may also throw temper tantrums. They will have little guilt for hurting others. The cause of Conduct Disorder is unknown but it is presumed
Discuss an accomplishment, event, or realization that sparked a period of personal growth and a new understanding of yourself and others
As I walked into the building, all the freshman were lined up in the hall talking to each other. I just stood there in a corner, alone, looking for anybody that I knew. I remember feeling alone. For the next few days, I walked around clueless on what to do. I was never the best at making friends and that's obviously what I was having to do. This was the moment when I truly asked myself, "Was it a mistake to come here?" My overall shyness obviously hindered me from making new friends. This obstacle felt like an enormous barrier no matter where I went. It felt as I was in a foreign country. This changed one day when my earth science instructor was talking about the stage of formations of coal. Naturally, everybody looked at me and smirked because my name was Cole. One of my peers called me peat which is the first stage of the formation of coal. That peer, allowed me to lighten up for the first time at SECHS. This peer introduced me to his friends and progressively over the year, I have made a whole group of friends. These friends helped myself
Anti-social behavior is a personality disorder characterized by distracting acts, aggression, and intentional hostility toward others. Anti-social behavior typically displays signs of dismissiveness of right and wrong, insistent lying or deception to manipulate peers, and violating the rights of others by the use of fear, dishonesty, and exaggeration. Boys tend to display more physical and verbal behavior, while antisocial behavior in girls is more indirect and social, displaying harmful manipulation of others. Anti-social behavior can be seen as young as 2 to 3 years of age and can extend into early adulthood, and later form into anti-social personality disorder (Haller, Harold, Sandi, & Neumann, 2014). There is support that studies of anti-social
Words can be misconstrued in many ways, human beings perceive words differently based on circumstance, knowledge of the language or how the words are presented such as the tone they are said in. Many times on talk shows or news programs words are said to provide a shock value therefore picking a more harsh synonym for the word purposely. Specifically in topics that are viewed as controversial, the “hot button” topics, presenters try to gather the most amount of views and attention and start debates. However due to those buzz words viewers tend to get a biased opinion and tend to leave uninformed angry about a topic they know little about but now have a very strong opinion on. In the short clip from CNN both presenters stayed on one particular
Each of us has a different story, where we come from, who we are, who we want to be or what change we want to create in this world. Every person has a story to tell, some of them are good, others inspiring, and others hard to explain. Today I am going to share an experience that change my life completely not in a bad way, but made me grow as a person and keep going no matter how hard the things in life can get. We have to move on and find new beginnings, new ways to appreciate the things you already have but you cannot see.
Many of us have pursued a dream. Many of us have felt so strongly about a goal that we have became suddenly very driven just to reach it. If not, what are we waiting for? Billy Joel once said, “You can get what you want or you can just get old.” Joel was one of many world renowned people we read quotes from during our Dream unit. During the unit, we explored books, articles, videos, and speeches searching for examples of people reaching their dreams or not. Some were fortuitous enough to achieve their dream while others shared their stories of how pursuing their dreams failed. Even Bill Gates had an opinion about success from dreaming, “Success is a lousy teacher, it seduces
There was a time when I feel like I am the loneliest person in this world. This event turned me to a different person than I used to be. Before this event, I was an immature girl and never had a thought about my real goal, but this event was a slap into my face, when I realized how much I could do for this world. It was when my mom passed away.
In conclusion, deviant behavior covers a wide variety of topics. Defined as the violation of social norms and customs; the thought that deviant behavior being a juvenile problem is false. Whether someone is a murder or breastfeeds in public it is all considered a violation of society’s formal or informal guidelines. Through the duration of this paper, the hope is that people understand that some of the social norms need to remain while others need to be disregarded. For, example race. Those who turn their noses up to a race that isn’t theirs is not what this country was built on. The United States Constitution and Declaration of Independence call that everyone is welcome without biased or predisposed attacks on one another. Culture is important
It felt as if all the adults who I tried to impress had suddenly formed an alliance with the sole purpose to strike me down. Every so often there would be a “Stop talking, you must not blurt!” from my mother when I had barely spoken, or a “Give another person a chance, don’t be so selfish!” from my father after I had waited in line. I began to notice other changes as well. The opportunities that I once saw to establish myself were still there, but they seemed to be closed off and restricted. Where I once saw glory in surpassing others, I only saw shame. It became even worse over time. When I looked at myself or others, I didn’t even see people anymore. I saw a collection of masks that were used to hide people’s true natures in order for them to gain mainstream approval. Even as my grades slip as a result, I still have not been able to shake these
Media have been accusing police officers for displaying inappropriate behavior with general public these past few years. This makes me believe that, cameras worn by police officers to monitor every activity is necessary. These cameras will capture the situation clearly and show whether it was the suspect who displayed violent behavior and forced the police officer to handle the situation with physical force. Moreover, it will also capture the fact, whether the officer used violence despite the fact that the suspect was cooperative. As far as the change of behavior concerned, it depends on the situation the officer is dealing with. People sometimes label police officers as arrogant or smug. I’ve heard plenty of people refer the officers as people
I still didn’t know who most of these people were, my roommates were polar opposites of each other; the only trait they shared was an ability to stay up and leave the lights on for way longer than I could, classwork was kind of a pain, and what is this stuff I’m eating for dinner? I began to find comfort by creating constants in my schedule. I would use the same shower stall every morning, eat the same food for meals, and sleep more than I probably should have. This acted as another source of comfort to help me avoid always being called back to memories of the close bonds I had made at home and at work. I would try my best to stifle these feelings and just push through, and this resulted in more extreme introversion than I had ever displayed before. Every time I had free time I would withdraw to my music and books from home, and avoid contact with most others. The only time I spent getting to know others outside of classes was during meals, and even then it was only with a limited group of people I got to know right away and felt slightly more comfortable with than I did with the others.
I did not talk to anyone that I did not know very well, and I had some friends but I always felt like the oddball out of my classmates. All of my classmates were so talkative all of the time and then there was me sitting at a desk all by myself not talking to anyone. Every teacher that I had encouraged me to talk more and put myself out there like everyone else was doing. I finally worked up the courage to try and talk to people more, but that is only the beginning of my change.