Yaning Guo
Mr. Risha
English 1105
25 September, 2016
Birth Twice
“You got a dream, you gotta protect it. People can’t do something themselves, they wanna tell you you can’t do it. If you want something, go get it. Period.”
--Will Smith (The Pursuit of Happiness)
I always wonder what would my life be like at this point without this decision? I like telling others the stories of mine which locked deeply inside of my heart and describe that I was born twice: first, as a baby girl, on a fairly sunny day in October of 1996 in Taiyuan; second, as a student moving to the United States in August of 2014. Over and over, I share this story with other not because of how extraordinary it is, but because of the things that happened to me and changed me in many ways.
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