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Curley's Wife Belonging Analysis

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When a person is lonely and does not feel a sense of belonging, they disregard societal expectations and search for a sense of belonging anyway they can. The character of Curley’s wife, who is a lonely ranch wife, demonstrates this throughout Of Mice and Men. Curley’s wife has been ostracized from the men working on the ranch by her husband, Curley. She, therefore, has no one to talk to except Curley who does not make his companionship meaningful to her. So, when Curley is away from the ranch she takes advantage and searches an end to her loneliness and a sense of belonging. “An’ what am I [Curley’s wife] doin’? Standin’ here talkin’ to a bunch of bindle stiffs—a nigger an’ a dum-dum and a lousy ol’ sheep – an’ likin’ it because they ain’t nobody else.” …show more content…

She also shows that not only does she know she is disregarding these societal expectations but her need for companionship is so immense that she is not only tolerating her companions but enjoying them as well. Behavioral science backs the idea that societal expectations will be ignored when searching for somewhere to belong. To understand what belonging is we must define it, so the definition of a sense of belonging is “the experience of personal involvement in a system or environment so that persons feel themselves to be an integral part of that system or environment.” (Hagerty et. al. 2) The behavioral scientists state that “human beings have a pervasive drive to form and maintain at least a miminum quantity of lasting, positive, and significant interpersonal relationships.” (Baumeister and Leary 2) So, as in the case with Curley’s wife when she is lacking significant relationships she would be expected to try to find an answer to achieve this prevalent desire to belong. This drive to maintain significant interpersonal relationships is much greater than the need to obey social

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