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Descriptive Essay About My Family

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I’m standing on the sidewalk with my sister outside of Pastabilities. She came to visit me over the weekend because our parents couldn’t come all the way out from California for parents weekend. We’re both very hungry and tired and a little on edge. A family is standing next to us. A mom, a dad, two younger siblings and a son who also goes to Syracuse. I’ve met the guy once or twice because he lives in the same hall but I don’t really know him that well. They have been waiting outside about the same amount of time as us, a solid thirty minutes so far, but the hostess told both of us the wait would be around two hours. The parents are debating about going somewhere else for dinner. The dad wants to go somewhere else for dinner because it …show more content…

The parents were arguing, passive aggressively speaking, I don’t really know if what they were doing can qualify as arguing because their voices weren’t raised or anything. I related to the kid. Learning more about him through observing helped me empathize with him and in turn expand my perspective. My parents, along with most people’s parents fight all the time. It seems that every time we 're out to dinner, or honestly going anywhere my parents start to argue. Similar to the parents I was watching, it’s that weird passive aggressive tone that makes it so unbearable. My perspective shifted. Instead of judging and assuming he has a perfect family, I felt for him. As the conversation went on, I related to him even more. I had been in that same situation and the last thing I would want is people around me judging me. My perspective is mainly shaped by my everyday observations of people. By this I mean my first impressions of people and those small thoughts and ideas pop into my head when I pass by people. These judgements, both good and bad, are the main part in shaping my perspective because they are how I get to know the world around me. I grow my perspective through these observations and my life experiences. They all relate to each other in one way or another. A majority of the small thoughts I have about people are based off ideas and stereotypes in society, or things I have learned growing up and living with my parents. I am similar to

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