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Thales of Miletus, regarded as the first philosopher in the Greek tradition, is known for saying, “The most difficult thing in life is to know yourself” (“Thales Quotes, n.d.). Having a good sense of self and understanding who we are as individuals is very important to our growth and development as humans and as a society. Taking time for quiet self-reflection and introspection is a crucial part of gaining healthy self-knowledge and goes hand in hand to gain insight into how others view us, as well (“Know Thyself,” n.d). The grandmother in “A Good Man is Hard to Find,” exemplifies none of the qualities that represent self-knowledge; she, however, clearly has a false sense of self. She sees herself as a genteel, proper, southern Christian …show more content…

She now seems to be embracing and acknowledging her African roots and disowning her actual family heritage. Upon returning home, Mama, the protagonist, learns that she has changed her name to Wangero Leewanika Kemanjo. This is the first her Mama has heard of this and it causes her to question Dee’s motive for doing so. After all, it appears Dee was named in the family tradition and to Dee’s Mama, her name is symbolic and seems to be a way of recognizing and honoring the women in the family by naming a baby girl of a later generation after their elders. Dee was named after her Mama’s sister, Dicie, who was named after her Grandma Dee, who was named after her mother. (Kirsner and Mandell, 2012, pg. 348). However, to Dee, her name is a symbol of oppression and humiliation and denotes things that she has come to believe are beneath her and her new status in life. She is now a beautiful, educated, and sophisticated woman, who is proud of her newly made self. She now seems to have renounced her past, completely missing the fact that it is her past and her heritage that played an important part of shaping her to be the woman she has become (“Characterization and Symbolism,” …show more content…

Although the destination and purpose for her journey is not revealed until later in the story, I was compelled to continue reading in order to find out why this elderly African American woman, who is almost blind, seemed so determined to make her way to her final destination. Phoenix encounters many obstacles that would have possibly deterred persons younger than herself. For instance, she is making this journey during the dead of winter. That in and of itself would be a menacing and tiring feat for anyone, but especially for someone of her age; it appears she traveled up a hill and then down the other side making her way. Secondly, crossing the creek on the log could have also been challenging for her. She, this elderly lady, walking with a cane that is actually an umbrella, with bad eye-sight, is crossing over the creek by way of a log laid across the creek and she makes it safely across with her eyes closed. As she continues, she has to maneuver through a barbed-wire fence and has to get down on her old hands and knees and crawl around on the ground to get past this obstacle (Kirszner and Mandell, 2012). This is no small undertaking and yet Phoenix treks onward. Being frightened by a stray dog, Phoenix finds herself lying flat on her back unable to get up without assistance. Luckily for her, a hunter, a young white man, comes along and helps her up. This too,

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