Lyyasia Wrenn
AVID 12
10 May, 2018
My Path Project Essay: Growing up in Newark, New Jersey
I was born and raised in Newark, New Jersey a place that was really diverse. Living in New Jersey you were introduced to many different cultures and backgrounds, you could be walking down the street and many people would be having parties or cookouts that showcased where they were from. Growing up in Newark, New Jersey my childhood was great, I had a big imagination as a child, one that got me pretty far in life. I’m not going to sit here and say that my childhood wasn’t great, I had a loving and supportive family even growing up in a household with my mother and sister. My mother was a single parent who was always supportive and made sure she did what
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This is the reason why my mother decided to move to Virginia so we could have a better life and get away from the vicious crimes. I feel as though this was a smart decision for us. If I was still living in Newark, New Jersey my whole life would be totally differently. The decision to move away has impacted me because being where I’m from portrays who I am today. I’m really shy, I don’t really talk to people that much because I’m always to myself. I always got my head in my books making sure that my grades were where they needed to be, I want to make make a bright future for myself and for my family. Being where I’m from children don’t live to see a new day, this is why I push myself even harder to graduate and finish college and get my career started, because I have this chance to make my life better than it was when I was a child. I’m happy that I didn’t let where I’m from change who I am as a person today. If I was still living in New Jersey I would probably be one of those kids that didn’t make the right decisions and hung around the wrong crowd. Moving to Virginia changed me as an individual, with a respect for other people and always making the right decisions. Always making it my duty to make my mother proud. This all couldn’t have been done if it wasn’t up to my family, because most of my family members
I try my best to be the best dad and husband possible. My family is the most important aspect of my life. They are the reason that I try to be a better person every day, because they deserve the most of what I can offer. Before, responsibility wasn't something that was a priority in my life,
And I also remember the day, when my parents informed me that we were moving. The plan was to move out from the clustered city of New York, and shift into the suburban setting of New Jersey. As a young child, I was startled and not sure if I was ready to be able to commit and abstained the thought. The thought of leaving my friends and the place where I grew up in all my life, irked me emotionally. With a new city, came a new house and a new environment.
My academic career and outlook on life was shaped greatly by my education and youth in Trenton. Ever since I could remember I had inspiring teachers and friends who didn’t consider
Newark is a broken city, with years of neglect, corruption, and greed that have put generations of families in a cycle of poverty. The generations of poverty have festered in a city filled with crime and drugs. People can argue for years on how to approach and fix Newark's problems. Many can agree on the significant problems of Newark, but the problems of Newark are not something that can be fix overnight. It will take many years for Newark to recover. How does the Brick City get lifted out of poverty and crime? A good place to start is with education both at the student level and offering training programs for adults. The next step would be to create jobs beneficial to the people of Newark. What kind of jobs does Newark need to become a thriving
Some of the top historical movements that the United States ever encountered were the following: civil rights, women’s suffrage, gay rights, anti war, labor movement, black power, and occupy wall street. But there hasn’t been a major movement or protest that has really shaped and changed the minds of our citizens of this country, to understand that our environment is in a crisis. People are still having the same concept that climate change and global warming isn’t real when in reality it is. Meanwhile, in urban cities throughout America, there are treated like a city that isn’t worthy to be cleaned, unpolluted, or even take into consideration of the people who are currently inhabit these cities and unfortunately Newark falls under that
Growing up, my childhood was “easy” my family had enough money that we never had to worry about anything. My father was a self-made man who created his own carpentry business at 18 years of age and
My childhood was very hard. At the age of 17, I was an orphan. My mother was a writer and my father was a minister, author and professor of Latin, Greek and philosophy. My mother died and then, three years later, my father died. I went to live with my aunt. My brothers died and I was heartbroken.
I was sheltered from the Bronx itself my entire life. Up until high school, my mom would drive me absolutely everywhere. She would never let me go outside with my friends, unless I was being supervised. This often made me feel mortified because I was unable to actually “live my life”. I recall asking my mother to go to one of my friend’s birthday party, which was in the “Projects”. She immediately shot down my request. I felt like my feet were tied down, as if I were in a chasm with no way out. Another time I asked if I could go to Coney Island with my best friend and her mom. I got the same
There are three side to every story: his side, her side, and the truth. Sometimes the truth gets twisted, but through the different people’s perspectives one can understand how a turn of events occur. There a three pivotal events that are a part of Newark’s ongoing history; they are the Cholera epidemic that killed tons of people, the destruction of high rise public houses, and the Summer Riots that occurred in 1967. Through various people’s perspectives we can understand how individuals of Newark’s past society endured the struggles that they were faced with.
I was never physically neglected or abused, had issues with bad behavior, and never really felt different or embarrassed. Although my father had his issues, my mother continuously reminded me about how much she loved me. The only problem that I struggled with was low self-esteem, confidence, and depression. I was always really overwhelmed by the issues in my household and felt so useless when all I wanted to do was make things
The uneducated behavior of the East Chicago residents proved just how obnoxious they could be, I automatically knew I didn’t want to follow that path. East Chicago has shaped me into the person I am right now because I had to learn to make decisions for myself. Drugs, alcohol and gangs either gets you in a hospital or dead. The place I grew up in taught me to be mentally prepared for any obstacles I come across. I am determined to never be like the people I observe in my neighborhood, to strive and never give up. Everyday as I went home I saw the same people doing the same delinquency perpetually. My middle school peers either got pregnant or dropped out as soon as they made it into high school, I always tried to guide them towards the right choices because it hurt to see them struggle. However, I always saw school as an advantage to make it out of there and actually do something with my life. I strive my best to get good grades, eventually it payed off since I earned the privilege to become part of the National Honor Society when I was a sophomore. I am a strong confident woman, who is caring towards
I’ve been raised in North Bethesda, a city inside of Montgomery County my whole life . A county that values education and success more than most things, and rightfully so. To live in this county you have to have money and to have money you must be successful, and also to be able to have the things you want , such as a nice car, nice houses, nice clothes and local and clean grocery stories, etc. that they have here. It motivates and instills values on us to try our hardest and make the most out of school as possible to get a job that will help us and our community in the future. Which is why I see myself as an educated , adventurous , and hungry for success. My dad is from Cameroon, which is a country in Africa and lived there up until adulthood then he came to the states because he felt that his
In retrospect, I believe that when you move somewhere, you have to be open-minded about the many differences that you’ll encounter cultural and systematically. And I think one of the ways you become more open-minded is by persevering. All it takes is believing in yourself, that you’re capable of doing anything despite the stereotypes and adversities that may present in your
My schooling and education are the most important things to me. But it hasn’t always been that way. I honestly didn’t start caring about my education or schooling until I came to Coloma. Don’t get me wrong Benton Harbor Area Schools aren’t bad it was just so hard for me to focus there and the work was way too easy. Making the switch to Coloma has been the best thing for my education. My first semester here was so hard. I was failing test and getting bad grades. I just didn’t understand. I then realized it’s not the school it was me I wasn’t trying hard enough. So I tried harder and now my grades are better than ever and I have big dreams about college and the life after that. Making that switch has taught me I’m much more than people and I expect me to be.
As a result of moving to a new town, making new friends, and living a different life style I have been shaped in to the person I am today. I wouldn’t have asked for any better way to grow up as a kid. I’ve learned so much about myself that I probably wouldn’t have if I still lived in Apple Valley. I’ve experienced new activities, such as hunting and hiking, and have made new friendships. I feel as if I have changed for the better and grew up into a great person. I believe that this all happened for a reason and I am so happy that I’ve been able to