Born in Virginia, moved to Main, New Hampshire, back to Virginia, Washington, Texas, back to Virginia, New York, Nebraska, and now Connecticut. Additionally, I have been to 48 out of the 50 states. Moving around has been a great experience for me as well as my family, however, people can always tell you are not like them. Each state has a different way of speaking and using grammar, and once my family became accustom to that states word choice, we would move. We would pack up our items, and leave the state, unpack and start again. Every time we moved, we would bring the previous state language and grammar to the new state. This would cause my family to feel like outsiders, be made fun of because of the way we spoke, and feel like we must …show more content…
I loved Nebraska, and I didn’t want to move. However, my senior year of high school my father received orders to Connecticut and I decided to move with them. Moving to Connecticut made me realize how different I was because of the way I spoke. All of the words I chose to use were because of the Midwest. For example, I used the word “tennis shoes” because I was used to saying that in the Midwest. But in Connecticut they use the word “sneakers.” Since I use the word tennis shoes, I would go into a store in Connecticut and ask where they kept these tennis shoes, and I would typically recieve a reply of “we do not sell tennis shoes here, maybe check Dicks Sporting Goods.” While this may not seem like a huge deal it made me feel embarrassed because I spoke differently from the people in Connecticut. I had a few friends who noticed that I called these shoes, tennis shoes, and they would poke fun at me asking if I am a tennis star. Again, just making me feel embarrassed about the way I speak. It is quite challenging to fall out of a habit, when you are used to doing it three years. Another example of the difference in linguistics is people from the Midwest use the word “pop” while people from New England use “soda”. I haven’t had many issues with this word, however, I recieve unusual looks when I slip up and say pop. The pop vs. soda is a widely know difference, so people still know what I
Moving from the South to the Midwest was a huge change in my life. For my whole life I grew up to the southern hospitality and the tang of salt in the air since the beach was always less than 5 minutes away wherever I lived. Now I moved to a place where they flip you off to say hi, and the closest thing to an ocean is a sea of grass that seems to go on forever. Although I am now adapted to the change for the most part, it took me awhile to break in to the social norms of an average Midwest kids.
Moving around was not easy. There were many obstacles present, and the most harmful of them all was the divorce of my parents. For a moment, I was without a father. I only realized the effect it had on me when I moved to Friendswood, Texas. Living in an environment where I was constantly moving, constantly having to make friends, and constantly trying to fit in contributed to my timidity. I shut people out. I suppressed feelings I should have talked about, and instead turned the other cheek and let them go.
Then, incidentally, we moved again. My freshmen year of high school at Argyle had just concluded, and my dad decided that it was simply too expensive to live there. I met this decision with both apprehension and relief. He determined that we belonged in Mineola, Texas. Typically, I would have been miserable, but this time, I was thrilled. It was strange because I loved Argyle, yet I was so eager to leave. The longer I contemplated how this could be possible, I realized it was because I could not wait to meet new people, scenarios, and experiences. I was ready for my newest challenge.
I think one of the reasons that me and my mom moved around so much was because of my mom and dad's divorce when I was five. The first school I went to was Marshal Elementary in Arizona but not even a year after starting there my mom decided to move to Oregon so I finished my first grade year at Meadowlark Elementary in eugene. once I had finished my first grade year my mom decided that I should learn spanish so she sent me to a spanish immersion school called called Buena Vista. But during the summer of my second grade year my mom found us some new roommates so we moved in with them then we all ended up moving to Camp Creek. I spent my third grade year at Camp Creek. during my third grade year my mom fought my dad for custody over me. When my mom own custody over me my time with my dad was cut down to about a fourth of what it was before. I
The only state I have ever known as home is North Carolina. I was born and raised in Charlotte and the only time I have ever moved away was last year to start a new chapter of my life as a college student. Growing up in Charlotte has had such an impact on what I plan to do with my future. As a young child I always thought of Charlotte as the next best thing to New York City. I shortly realized after visiting that was not quite the case. New York City introduced me to a new world of opportunity.
Coming to the United States, I completely changed my path going from an international school with Italian and British curriculum to an all boys, Catholic preparatory school. I desperately wanted to blend in but the small accent you could hear when I spoke English exposed me as unique and my peers soon referred to me as the ‘foreign kid’. I learned to grow up quickly in
We had moved from Georgia to Virginia and back 3 times, and after every move I realized that it was all for the better. Perhaps when I was six and fourteen I didn't know, but at the age of seventeen I learned that moving back to Virginia was advantageous in rediscovering my love for music.
It was June of 2013 and I was in my room cooling, watching “Good Luck Charlie”. My mom came into my room saying that she was ready to move out of New York. Obviously I did not want to move out of the city I was born in. My mom never liked living in New York, so she always thought about moving. So the plan was to move in August. Time went by and I was thinking about what North Carolina would be like. I really wasn’t thinking about the friends I was leaving in Brooklyn, that never crossed my mind.
Born and raised in Texas, i lived with both my parents. The most important move
Moving states has changed a perspective on me and how I feel about myself. Before I moved to Las Vegas I was living in a small town in Mexico with barely something to eat. When my mom got offered a job thousands of miles away I wasn't very interested, the thought of living my family that can barely stay together was depressing and struggled for a lot for years.
When we did finally move from my childhood home in Illinois to our new home in Knoxville, Tennessee, the only thing I could think about was how isolated and scared I felt. What was it going to feel like on my first day of class when I was surrounded entirely by strangers? I will always vividly remember walking into my new high school and feeling so lost. Every class I walked into was an alien environment and I had to struggle to keep my composure.
I was used to fitting in and making friends fast. Growing up as a military child, I had seen many faces and moved plenty of times. I was in the fifth grade when my dad told my family and I got the news that we were going to Alaska. Everyone in my home had different emotions, but I was actually pretty excited to see a new part of the world. We packed up our stuff and all drove to Fort Wainwright, Alaska. It was a huge difference from Colorado but I liked it. Alaska was great until it came to going to school.
I’ve moved several times leaving behind family and friends. At one point my husband and I were tired of moving and saying goodbye to friends. My kids were sad leaving their school and starting all over again. Our last stop was North Dakota twenty years ago. It has been a blessed we got jobs we loves and my children ended with good friends, a good education, and jobs they loved.
The idea of moving to a different state or country can be terrifying for most people. I know for me it was. I was born and raised in New Jersey and had a decent job. Life was going great for me; at least that is what I thought. I had a lot of friends and family that had been around me my whole life. Moving away from all of this was not an option for me, until I got married and had children. By the time my daughter hit five years old, I was rushed to make a decision that would change my life forever. I had to decide whether I wanted her to go to school in New Jersey or Key West. This meant leaving my friends and family behind, and somehow depriving my children from growing up around their family.
I’ve lived in three different states and attended six schools over the past eight years. Relocating from Texas to Michigan, and later Michigan to Georgia were big adjustments for me. I missed my friends and close relatives. However, I knew I had to make the best of my circumstances. Through these experiences, I began to learn to be more flexible, become more open-minded to different traditions, and be adventurous in different parts of the country-I played volleyball, joined a dance team, and even went skiing! At school, I also focused on excelling in my classes and challenge myself like I did when adjusting to a new town.