Lying: Is it Justified?
People are often faced with the decision of whether or not they should speak honestly to their friends. To many people, there are certain types of lies. But to others, all lies are the same, whether they are bad or good. About 65% of Americans think that lying is okay when saving someone’s life (Article #1). However, I believe lying can be justified when you are protecting someone’s feelings or life. Firstly, I have lied before, I am a teenager, after all, but it’s only to help someone, never to hurt them. From personal experience, I remember someone asked me if their drawing looked good or not. Now, I don’t want to hurt their feelings, by saying something mean by saying, “No, I don’t like it.” That would be a bit harsh. So, of course, I lied with something nice like, “Yeah, it looks good.” Even though I felt guilty afterwards, I was hoping my opinion would encourage them to work harder, and they’ll continue being my friend.
Besides that, the other reason lying is justified is from the article “The U.S. Political Campaign: Lies, Lies, Lies,” by Paul Gray, Michael Duffy, Priscilla Painton, and Elizabeth Rudulph. During the Holocaust, Anne Frank and her family hat to hide from the Nazi’s, so that they wouldn’t be put into a concentration camp. In paragraph one it states, “...lying to protect others can literally be a
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His daughter was not informed about it at the time. He explains in the article, “Why get her all traumatized?...’I tried to protect her. It slowed down the anxiety. ‘Later, I told her what really happened.” He lied to her, so that she wouldn’t be so worried about him. This supports my my thesis because it is showing that sometimes it is necessary to lie for the well being of
Many may question whether Lying is a good or bad thing. While many believe that lying is used to protect someone, you might be actually do more harm than good. Everybody can lie but it can have a variety of outcomes. Allowing yourself to lie doesn't help anybody. Lying is unjustified because it would cause harm to someone than good and telling the truth can be beneficial and easier.
Lying can save you in severe situations such as life or death. Elie lied about his age and said he was eighteen instead of fifteen. “‘Your age?’ he asked, perhaps trying to sound paternal. ‘I'm eighteen.’ My voice was trembling.” (Wiesel 31). Not telling exact information to strangers about yourself can prevent bad things from happening. He told the doctor he was sick so he didn’t have to get his crown taken. His crown could buy him an extra ration of bread and soup, so he decided it’d be smart to keep it. He said he was a farmer because it could save him from being killed immediately. Lying is one of many ways that can help people survive in certain situations.
Basically, lying is not a good thing to do, but it do not always need to be like that. Judging on something that right or wrong should base on that it is benefit anybody or bother anyone or not. Some people know as “White lie” and “Black lie”. We can state that lying would be the right thing, in case that it benefits to somebody and not bothers others at all. But if not, it can be consider as it is wrong.
First, it is okay to lie when you are trying to protect someone's feelings , and from getting hurting them. What I mean by protecting someone's feelings , it is that you know something that can really hurt them. An example is when you find out something very serious happened to your family so, you lie to your siblings so they do not get worried. Two thirds said it was okay to lie in certain situations. My source is from the article ¨ It's the Truth , Americans Conflicted About Lying ¨ Another example is when you do not want your kids eating too much , so you say all the cookies are gone. It can be hard to get people to tell the truth , especially about lying. My source is from the article ¨ It's The Truth, Americans Conflicted About Lying¨.
Sometimes it’s never okay to lie, but in some situations one can get away with lying without hurting anyone’s feelings. In article 1, it states,“Yet in the same poll, up to two-thirds said it was okay to lie in certain situations, like protecting someone’s feelings.” Many people, think it is okay to lie, but lies are only acceptable when it is to protect others. Although, some people might think that lying is okay in other situations, it’s really only justified when it is used to protect others and their feelings. Article 1 also says,” Not only is lying justified, it is sometimes a moral duty. An obvious example is when you’re lying to protect someone from serious harm.” What this means is that it is only okay to lie when it is used for a good purpose, like protecting someone from harm. Lots of times, it’s better to lie because it helps avoid
I feel that telling lies is not acceptable for the following reasons. Lying is not the right thing to do in a bad situation. If someone is talking behind your back, you would want someone to tell you what they are saying. If that person lies to you, you think of a different perspective then of what the situation actually is. If you confront the person who’s talking behind your back and it turns out to be a different story, the situation is going to get worse because that person who told you about the
Lying can help you get out of many multiple things especially when it’s not a big deal and when ur trying not to hurt anyone’s feelings. For example in the article, lies lies lies, by, Time , Magazine states that, lies protect others, or “ I love your dress.” It supports my evidence by explaining how it gets you out of multiple situations and things that may not be a big deal. It helps to not hurt ur friends or anyone’s specific feelings. Additionally I choose this article because it goes with my topic sentence and it matches everything i'm explaining. Another way to say this, “ No one expects, and few would welcome, searing honesty at a dinner party. “ Yet, “ The couple who leave early, saying the baby-sitter has a curfew, would not be thanked by the hostess if the truth were told: “ Frankly, were both bored to tears.” It’s okay to lie but for something to deal with.
“I'm not upset that you lied to me, I'm upset that from now on I can't believe you.” These were the famous words Friedrich Nietzsche spoke and almost everyone in this world can probably relate to it.Lying seems so universal, but no one can really agree if it’s warranted or not.After reviewing a few opinionated and factual articles on lying, the opinionated conclusion is lying is almost always never justified unless it is to protect someone from getting hurt.
Ethically we are taught never to tell a lie. Personally, I stand by that and have experienced the good results or bad results from being truthful.
A whopping 64% of Americans today think that it is sometimes justified to lie, compared to 2006 when the statistic was set at just 42%. In the articles, “Rejecting All Lies: Immanuel Kant” and “Brad Blanton, Honestly Tell the Truth” it is shown that lying should be considered unacceptable except for on very rare occasions such as a life or death situation.
Lies could also save a life in some situations.The story of Anne Frank during the Holocaust, when a family hid her in an attic and the family lied to the Nazis.Blanton
Supporting details (2-3 sentences) some may think that when you're telling the truth that's not what they wanted to hear. Or if they do want to hear the truth lie to them to make them feel better or for them to feel positive.
For example, one quote that supports the claim is, “In the AP-Ipsos poll, 65 percent of those questioned said it was sometimes OK to lie to avoid hurting someone’s feelings, even though 52 percent said lying, overall, was never justified.” (NBC) This shows that the majority of the people who participated in the Advanced Press poll thought that it was sometimes fine to lie, though some people disagreed on their positions. This also shows that many people can not find a definite position because the percentages must overlap, there is no way to get one-hundred seventeen percent in a poll. Another quote is, “‘Not only is lying justified, it is sometimes a moral duty,’ says Cohen. An obvious example is when you’re lying to protect someone from serious harm. ‘But much less extreme cases often call for lies,’ Cohen says.” (NBC) This shows that lying is justified in both extreme cases, like hiding Anne Frank, and lesser cases, such as protecting or defending your friend from something. This proves that it is also sometimes necessary to lie, whether it is to protect someone from severe harm, or just to prevent hurting someone's feelings. Overall, the article, It’s the Truth: Americans Conflicted About Lying, shows that lying is always justified by giving evidence through results and also
i’m so cool because i’ve been to Rio to watch soccer. This is Lying, we’ve all done it. But does that make it right? No of course not. Lying is one of those things that people do to act cool and get something off of their chest. But it still is not cool and it can affect people around you in ways that you don’t even know are possible. Hi i’m ilias and today i’m going to be talking about lying.
Lying would be acceptable to me if you were stuck in a situation and it was a situation where you just couldn’t tell the truth to them and you had to lie just so that you wouldn’t hurt them because you lied about what you did so that