We as humans all have to face the hard truth about growing up; one way or another, the process is just inevitable and we can’t really do anything about it. Though I for one really prefer to be like my favorite Disney character Peter Pan and run away to Neverland; a place where I would never have to grow up. But then we again experience the bitter taste of reality and grow up. Looking back now, I was so excited with of the thought of growing up, thinking it was “cool” and I could finally be able hang out with all my older cousins and be “one of them”. Now I’m not so sure… Even if the thought of growing up isn’t really what I expected, I still learned a lot of things during the process and I’ve changed a lot over the years, here I’ll explain how. Let’s start at the beginning shall we. At age twelve I had just graduated from Grade School from my previous school, St. Paul College of Paranaque. When the summer ended, my parents decided to transfer me to O.B. Montessori so I could experience something new and different for a change. At the start of the school year I was pretty shy, being the new kid and all. At the start I was very timid and I had so much thoughts running around my head like: “Will they like me?”, “should I talk to them?”, “What if I embarrassed myself”. I was so insecure and intimidate, coming from a traditional school where everyone was behaving properly because of strict teachers in the school, but here everyone was so wild and open. The
E.E. Cummings explained “It takes courage to grow up and turn out to be who you really are.”
“Growing up is losing some illusions, in order to acquire other,” says Virginia Woolf, an English writer. Growing up is preordained. Everyone grows up. When do we grow up? Perhaps, after we graduate school, maybe after our first love, or maybe after our marriage or maybe after the birth of our first kid. It primarily depends on how one looks at it, but irrespective of what we consider the right time or the right situation to be “grown-ups”, we cannot help but admit that it is that moment in time where innocence vanishes. As children, we dream of growing up, getting a job, getting married, living happily but on the contrary it is quite different, we find that reality is completely opposite. More often than we wish, we were still children,
I saw a girl walking alone to the building, she was Caucasian, and around the same height as mine. I cautiously walked up to her trying not to bump anyone in those overflowing crowd of students, and with a strong Asian accent I asked “Hey, are the schedules for our classes there?”
I remember the first thing we had to do in community was interview another student that didn’t go to your middle school and find out interesting facts about them and then get up in front of all sixty-five kids and share with the class. Right when this was announced my heart dropped. I had nothing interesting to say about myself, I wasn’t exactly the most interesting person from my own personal standpoint. Then, on top of everything else I had to interview this kid and figure out questions to ask him about his life. So of course I get paired up with this guy I have never even heard of and figure out he has all of this interesting stuff to say while I’m stuck telling him stupid stuff about me. I told him that I played soccer and I had a younger sister and a dog. I felt like the lamest person in the world. Then suddenly we all had to get up and share and everyone was saying things about exciting trips they went on or how they went to concerts and I couldn’t even concentrate because I would have to get up shortly and talk to these people myself. Finally it was my turn to walk to the front of the room and start talking about this random person. Of course I went up and did what I needed to, talking at the speed of about 3000 words a minute, then raced back to my seat and sat down. Then, once I could
If losing interest in my stuffed animals’ careers and relationships led to me growing up, then losing interest in novels must mean I am growing up again. But into what? Why can’t I choose the price to pay for this change? Why must my favorite activities be taken from me without any warning? What will be taken from me next, and how can I prepare for this
Everyone has to grow up eventually, some just tend to take it better more than others, it could be the fear or gaining more responsibility or the fact that getting older means that your parents are too and with your old age comes their time to go, the fear of not being ready or prepared for what life has to offer you and you being on your own to find out
and it couldn't be more true. Growing up is inevitable and is a epidemic people have been trying to battle for years, the
“...and when her fortune cookie said, “You are mature and sensible,” she had to agree. And her father and mother did too.” A quote from the short story “Growing Up” by the author, Gary Soto about a tenth grader name Maria that is growing up and thinks her family is just a bunch of boring people. She wants to be by herself while her family goes on a vacation. She thinks about all the trouble that could happen to her family. Fear is required to mentally grow up, which is the overall theme of the story. He
Peter Pan is a timeless tale in which transcends time and culture through its’ underlying themes. Each of the characters fulfilled their roles tremendously, and was able to bring forth these themes in their own unique ways.
learned that change is okay but always happens even when it's not the best state of
Why would anyone be afraid of growing up? Wouldn’t you want to grow up and see what the world has in store for you? Not Holden Caulfield, from the The Catcher in the Rye by J.D Salinger. In fact, that's holdens biggest fear. He is so consumed in the image the world has on how to grow up and what happens after, he doesnt get to live his life to it’s full potential. He thinks adults get caught up in paying bills and their jobs and your set to a routine you can't get out of. However, Holden does show hope of growing up.
It felt weird sitting at a different school.. I did meet some of my old friends from last year, like Zander Jackson, but he was on the “red team.” It was also a bit weird to find out that Mrs. Smith was actually my neighbor!
What does it mean to grow up? Does it mean washing your car, paying your bills, getting a job? Does it mean getting married, having kids, and sprouting gray hair? Is it necessary? Is everyone capable of it? Is it going to be hard and will it be worth the effort? All of these questions are probably what made Peter Pan decide to never leave Neverland. Growing up means a lot of different things to many different people. If we look at the words “growing up”, we simply think of the physical aspect of ageing, growing tall and wide. But for most people, growing up means something deeper involving a change in the approach that an individual has to life and the actions that are taken with it. In this essay, we will look at why people have
“The hardest part about growing up is letting go of what you were used to, and moving on with something you’re not.” Growing up can be fantastic. Growing up can also be scary. Many people do it on their own time. Others must do it quickly. Some have a nurturing family and a wonderful environment in which to do this. Others still are not as fortunate. The point is that everyone’s situation is different, unique. No matter how similar one situation may seem from another there are countless other things that affect how a child might grow up. One’s own life may seem perfect to those on the outside looking in when in reality, there could be a constant struggle that is known to few or even none. For myself, growing up was something that had to
Every night, after a long, tiresome day in second grade, I would curl up in bed and beg my Mother to read me one of my favorite books, Peter Pan. There was something always magical about Peter Pan that helped me escape the daily events of the real world. Whether it was his capability to fly, difficulty to find his shadow, or ability to never grow old, the story of Peter Pan has stuck with me and has helped shaped me into who I am today.