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My Favorite Students

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All it takes is seven seconds to completely assess and categorize a person you’ve barely met. This has happened to everyone, especially as a student. Small visual clues such as one’s expression, their race, gender, demeanor, and clothing, set the precedent for how the teacher will view their students from the beginning of the school year to the last day. Most favoritism teachers dole out is subconscious. The reason they may gravitate towards and dote on particular kids could stem from the initial assessment they made or even bias. Humans tend to gravitate towards others similar to them. While there is the belief that teachers playing favourites is natural, necessary, and unavoidable, this behavior is harmful to the student, harmful to their peers, and is often completely irrational. To begin, the mindset of having a favourite student is harmful to the subject. When kids are given special treatment, especially at a young age, things can begin to go wrong. The teacher can excuse misdemeanors that would otherwise be punished. This leads the student to either believe that they’re above rule-following and will likely do it again, or become overly-sensitized to criticism and correction. A year of consistent praise and good feedback is also dangerous. The student may set their standards higher than is realistic, and become disheartened whenever they’re awarded a grade lower than their impossible standards. From nda.org, Mary Beth Solano, concerning favouritism, expresses,

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