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My Mother Essay

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My mother was born on June 27th, 1977, in a tiny rural area called El Cerrrito, in the outskirts of Monterrey, Nuevo Leon, Mexico. She lived a very sad, somber, and unhappy childhood as she lost her father at the young age of 2. This tragic incident lead to my grandmother upholding the role of both mother and father. She worked fulltime as a photographer and provided for the household, while simultaneously raising my mother with the help of her parents. This caused great unhappiness in my mom’s family. My Great Grandparents, still alive today, helped raise my mom as a child. They served as the second parents that my mother never really had, but due to this inattention, my mother was able to do what she pleased. . The one person that my …show more content…

Furthermore, my mother has always disregarded gender or societal norms, and I love her for this, but she does admit that being a woman has its advantages. Women have it easier when it comes to receiving help or assistance for any task. “Women just smile and we can get away with anything”, she said half seriously, but then shifted the topic towards how women get more help from the government, men, and even have an advantage when it comes to child custody. These things are all true, and even though she had a harsh childhood that restricted her from doing many things, as a girl, she overcame these obstacles and carved her own path. Although the dreams of becoming an actress where never realized due to the lack of opportunity in socioeconomic status and support from family members, my mother’s second dream to raise her own family was accomplished. Married at the age of 18 and expecting a child, my mother said that marriage was exactly what she expected. Even though my parents are no longer married, she enjoyed her 14 years of marriage. The product of those 14 years of marriage were 3 kids, including myself. Now my mother is expecting another child. To my surprise, my mother expressed that she indeed treats my brother differently than me or my sister. She said that she treated girls as more independent, strong minded, and unafraid, whereas my brother is treated as more dependent, weak minded, and afraid. Usually it is the opposite,

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